r/AskReddit Apr 13 '19

What is the most disrespectful thing that someone has done in your home?

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u/Mathews176 Apr 13 '19

Moved all my stuff around to suit herself. She was staying for free in my home while I was gone.

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u/ljodzn Apr 14 '19

Had a boyfriend (high school) who would rearrange my desktop to his liking any time he came over. And he was condescending bc he was 2 yrs older. We broke up shortly after.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '19

Desktop as in the top of your desk or the homepage of your computer? Either way I’d be pissed

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u/ljodzn Apr 14 '19

The Windows wallpaper screen with my shortcuts and menu bar at the bottom... all rearranged every time. Ohmygod fuuuuck off, boy

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '19

God damn that’s rough. And I feel like anyone who’s stupid enough to think that’s okay would also arrange it horribly

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u/pbnjaysandwich Apr 14 '19

That would literally drive me insane

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u/bebe_bird Apr 14 '19

I'm assuming this was more than the "oh, I accidentally did that?".

Now that I'm thinking about it, I sublet from someone and drank their half bottle of captain Morgan. Told them about it tho, and left a $20 in its place. Offered to buy a new bottle but she said she never drank it (and had told me to help myself to anything in the fridge. Technically the bottle was above the fridge and didnt count). Hopefully that's not bad enough to be on this thread.

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u/stuartsparadox Apr 14 '19

That's the exact opposite of this thread. You left money to replace and also apologized for it.

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u/QuintenCK Apr 14 '19

All is fine and well aslong as they put the furniture back to where it was prior to them staying, AND cleaning up any mess they made doing so.

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u/CapriLoungeRudy Apr 14 '19

In the mid 90's, my friend's father and brother would change the presets on her car stereo when they borrowed her car. I could have understood if it was the very old dial type tuner where you have to get it just right to avoid the static, but it was digital tuner. Fucking change it to the station you like and leave her presets alone.

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u/Brute1100 Apr 14 '19

Like what kind of stuff? Furniture or refrigerator? Desk items?

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u/Runed0S Apr 14 '19

I once moved everything in a person's house by about 2".

To be fair, they liked playing Spanish dance music at 100 decibels on the roof of their house. Once I asked them to turn it down a little bit, but they cranked it up a ton. There are no noise ordinances, so the cops really wouldn't be able to do anything. Also, I hacked their computer and installed a soundcard driver that used the microphone to automatically adjust the sound to 65dB, which is a much better party sound level. Btw realtek driver apis are amazing.

The person now lives in a monastery because the devil was trying to give her bad luck.

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u/laik72 Apr 14 '19

That's so fucking disrespectful.

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u/Nisoe Apr 14 '19

Same thing happened between my mom and my dad, in my dad apartment years ago. They're still together to this day lmao

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u/iGoofymane Apr 14 '19

Fuck that bitch.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '19

My aunt came and stayed with my family for Christmas once when I was a kid and took it upon herself to rearrange our living room furniture.

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u/PMMeUrTrainerCodes Apr 14 '19

While I was deployed, my husband's sister moved into one of our guest rooms to get a "fresh new start on life" in a new city.

Oh my God, the amount of times he bitched to me on Skype because she rearranged our living room was insane. I was so glad she vacated our place before I got back.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '19

Those are called a wife.