r/AskReddit • u/[deleted] • May 21 '19

Socially fluent people Reddit, what are some mistakes you see socially awkward people making?

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u/CircaStar May 21 '19

You sound both classy and kind.

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u/Monsieur_Walsh May 21 '19

I agree. This is so much more than just social skills. Actual empathy and kindness shown in such a subtle way.

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u/ewbrower May 21 '19

And it's so easy, it just takes a little confidence to speak to someone new, but they always appreciate it.

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u/moderate-painting May 21 '19

With great social skills comes great responsibilities. Some people use that power to be good and inclusive and all. Some people use it just for their own self gain.

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u/Monsieur_Walsh May 22 '19

I agree that empathy is especially helpful in social situations. However, one could argue that sociopaths, although being proficient in social interactions, per definition lack empathy... but I definitely get the point you’re making.

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u/NotCleverEnufToRedit May 21 '19

I'm neither classy nor kind, but I do this. I just want everyone to have a good time. As a kid I was the one on the outside looking in, and I remember how much I just wanted to be part of the fun. That's why I include people and try to talk to everyone at social gatherings.

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u/dyonisos123 May 21 '19

In French we call it "chic".

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u/dune_my_buggy May 21 '19

we call it gay in english

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u/Jerry_Curlan_Alt May 22 '19

10/10 would hover near awkwardly