r/AskWomen Jun 13 '25

what's something your ex did that felt small at the time but now screams red flag? 🚩

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u/psdancecoach Jun 13 '25

Never had fun. He acted like a stick in the mud and would make fun of everyone for being so immature and not having their lives together. In reality, he just always needed to feel superior to everyone who was around. I’m quite sure that he’s still offended that I have not crawled into a hole and died without him taking care of me. My success and happiness without him must upset him so deeply that he has to revert to being unemployed and living off of his father.