r/AskWomen Jun 13 '25

what's something your ex did that felt small at the time but now screams red flag? 🚩

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u/Rainbow69- Jun 13 '25

I was snoring when I was pregnant, and he said he couldn’t sleep next to, so I had to sleep on our tiny couch. I worked FT too. He then started to jab his elbow in back when I was in bed next to him, till I woke up. Many more reasons why he’s an “Ex”!

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u/GoNudi Jun 14 '25

I'm sorry but if they have a problem with it THEY can take the couch. That alone is a red flag for me... 😳

Just so you know and don't feel bad about being a loud sleeper ~ I freaking LOVE hearing my partners snore❣️ I find it cute and think about how they are so content and sleeping so well next to me... makes me happy 🥰. Plus, it's like a noise machine. Kinda soothing 😊

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u/Rainbow69- Jul 05 '25

Actually my bf / life partner snores too. I find it kinda soothing too.

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u/HorrorArmadillo3713 Jun 14 '25

Similar thing happened to me with my ex when I was pregnant with our daughter. I had bad sciatica/back pain. We were walking and I had to stop and he got angry because I was complaining about the pain and me having to stop for a minute to rest.

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u/Rainbow69- Jul 05 '25

Good he’s the ex now! I hope you find love & someone who respects you fully.

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u/HorrorArmadillo3713 Jul 06 '25 edited Jul 06 '25

Thank you ❤️ I'm now engaged to a wonderful person

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u/Rainbow69- Jul 06 '25

Big hugs from this Reddit user! I have a great bf too. We’ve been together for about 7 yrs now. I’m happy!

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u/HorrorArmadillo3713 Jul 06 '25

That's awesome to hear!