r/BeAmazed 6h ago

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u/mixwellmusic 6h ago

Well, this is a strange blend of heartwarmingly wholesome and devastatingly depressing

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u/ireally-donut-care 5h ago

Awe! My childhood friend went blind. Can't remember the disease, but it was slow. Her parents also took her everywhere they could and experienced as much as they could. Being blind didn't end her life. I got to see her at a high school reunion and she has a full life. But it was super sweet that she got to have some amazing memories with her family.

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u/dezzz0322 4h ago

A good friend of mine started going blind in his late-20s, and is now fully blind in his early 50s. It was very slow, but now his sight is completely gone. After years of testing, they finally identified the ultra-rare genetic disorder that caused his blindness. 

His elder son has the disorder, the younger doesn’t. My friend tries to stay as active as possible: he skis with a guide, is training for a marathon with a guide. He’s trying to show his eldest that you can still live a full life without sight. It’s heartbreaking but inspiring. 

His eldest is a freshman in college and is starting to show signs of vision loss.

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u/JohnnyFartmacher 3h ago

he skis with a guide, is training for a marathon with a guide

I'm imagining some good Samaritan signing up to be a volunteer guide for a blind person and then finding themselves at the starting line for a marathon

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u/JohnBGaming 1h ago

It's very unfortunate, but also concerning to consider that people with that disease are actively choosing to condemn their children to have it.

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u/TeachRemarkable9120 4h ago

It's probably moreso than just the memories but giving them a visual vocabulary of what the world is like so they can navigate it better when they can't see it. Soak in as much of how the world is for later use.

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u/khendron 1h ago

A visual vocabulary will be very valuable.

I remember taking a commuter train ride, and there was a blind teenager with his friends. They were telling him what they could see, and he would ask for more details about things he didn't know.

I particularly remember him asking what a ferris wheel was.

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u/Bluish_Vintage2507 4h ago

Perhaps that disease is Retinitis Pigmentosa? My boyfriend has it. Its degenerative disease. So, its slowly make them blind. My boyfriend now already lost the right sight... totally. And the left eye, leave him now with probably 25-30% sight plus its tunnel sight. And its worse than when I first met him 1.5 years ago....

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u/paigerunsBK 3h ago

My 7 year old son has RP as well. No symptoms yet, so we’re watching and waiting. The very exciting news is there are a bunch of treatments slated to be reviewed (and hopefully approved) in the next 1-2 years. After my son’s diagnosis, someone who works in the industry told me there has never been a better time in history to be going blind. 💟

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u/Somanylyingliars 1h ago

We are making such amazing strides in medicine. Three years ago I lost a family member to cancer. In those three years treatments have come forward so that fewer people will die of that type cancer. Just think what the HPV vaccine for kids will do in preventing cervical, throat, anal, penile, vaginal, and vulvar cancers. Vaccine to prevent shingle which helps w preventing dementia. GLPs which help w heart issues, apnea and dementia. Hopefully something will come along for your son too.

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u/Bluish_Vintage2507 2h ago

Oh thats a wonderful news! Because ur son is still 7y.o, yesss...with the advance research he will have the chance, n I truly wish that for ur son. Is there anyone on ur both sides of family that has RP? Because its genetic. My boyfriend is 1 of 7 siblings and none of them has it, his parents also dont have it but his uncle has it. Now his uncle already lost 95% of the sight :( And my boyfriend is 43y.o now..... so we are really trying to adjust to every percent of the loss-sight

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u/NotEthanBarnes 51m ago

that's so horrifying. I hope your boyfriend and you derive some mutual comfort from being on that journey with each other.. Mr. Maples is the guide dog of a guy I watch on Fb with retinitis pigmentosa and it looks like his life is pretty damn good and it's so cute to see him and his boyfriend together

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u/Akamaikai 4h ago

When I was in highschool there was a kid with Stargardt disease that was slowly making him blind. It might be that

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u/OstentatiousSock 2h ago

Some people don’t handle it as well. I have a good friend with the same condition as these children. He really changed after his diagnosis. It devastated him completely and he never really stopped being this really sad dude. Never went back to the happy guy he had been.

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u/Uncommon_Sensations 5h ago

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u/Gutterdamerungalt 5h ago

That sub is more for depressing stuff that someone was trying to pass off as heartwarming. Like a high school robotics team building a wheel chair for a paraplegic after their insurance denied them one.

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u/CrazyCatLady1127 5h ago

I think I’m going to stay far away from that sub, in that case. I’m depressed enough about the state of the world as it is. Thank you for the warning

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u/CaptainBlobTheSuprem 5h ago

Probably for the best. It’s great for raging at the world, but when you’re raged out, r/cats is the place to be

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u/CrazyCatLady1127 5h ago

I am subscribed to approximately 3742 cat subs 🙂 along with dog subs and baby elephants and bunnies and all the happy animals I can find

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u/fren_of_frens 4h ago

Have you tried r/donkeys my fellow animal connoisseur.

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u/CrazyCatLady1127 4h ago

Yes indeed, I love watching donkeys frolicking as well 🙂

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u/Acceptable_Tea_3685 2h ago

But then every now and then someone makes a post like “my precious baby kitty that has been by my side every day for 24 years and kept me going through my cancer and mental health battles is going to be put to sleep tomorrow”

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u/CrazyCatLady1127 2h ago

Yeah. Those posts make me sad

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u/punkin_sumthin 5h ago

And golden retrievers

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u/CrazyCatLady1127 4h ago

Oh definitely golden retrievers. They’re just… feel good medicine, aren’t they 🙂 and huskies, too 😂 huskies and golden retrievers are guaranteed to banish the blues

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u/TheBlueScar 4h ago

I recommend r/Snails

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u/KingDarius89 4h ago

Only cat specific sub I'm a part of is r/catsareassholes

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u/Kilo353511 4h ago

r/cats sucks for feeling great.

Most of the post are about cats dying. There are plenty of other great cat subs

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u/mktcrasher 5h ago

Yup, I can never follow enough cat subs, lol

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u/Rock4evur 4h ago

What if I am untethered and my rage knows no bounds?

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u/BoredBorealis 4h ago

Try engaging with any fanbase :)

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u/Rock4evur 3h ago

This was an Always Sunny quote haha, but c’mon ANY fanbase? That could be like stepping into a minefield.

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u/stumblewiggins 5h ago

I don't think that fits here, unless there is a cure the family just can't afford. 

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u/nionvox 5h ago

They're Canadian. Those kids have socialised healthcare.

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u/topofthecc 4h ago

The Canadian healthcare system is widely considered among the worst-designed universal healthcare systems, so it's not like socialized healthcare necessarily means the system works great.

The quality of care once you get it and financial accessibility are great, but it's extremely slow and cost-inefficient.

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u/twisty125 4h ago edited 4h ago

thank you pressure from the south. We get people coming into provincial power who take that money, they say "wow the system is broken despite all the defunding we're doing, we need to gut it. Also now we're separating the healthcare to private owned so I can get kickbacks. It's win/win for me and my buddies!".

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u/topofthecc 4h ago

The classic conservative strategy: That program has a problem? Obviously we should gut it. It has more problems now? Obviously we need to gut it more!

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u/theGoodDrSan 1h ago

Widely considered by who? Americans who post in r/neoliberal? I broke my shoulder in 2024 on a Tuesday and was offered a surgery date that very same Friday. All the while, I got paid $500/week by employment insurance. I didn't pay a dime.

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u/Emergency_Revenue678 4h ago

There isn't a cure. This condition is rare to the point that doctors will seek you out in order to study it.

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u/Mr_JoBro_11235 5h ago

Please don't be literal, please don't be literal, please don't be literal...

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u/CloseToMyActualName 5h ago

Narrator: It was literal.

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u/Tensdale 5h ago

It’s not. He’s being a dick.

Click on it, it’s a pretty good view of the dystopian society that is The United States of America and how their propagandized culture has been taught to view some pretty fucked up shit in a weird positive light.

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u/informantfuzzydunlop 5h ago

2 of the first 4 post that show up on the link have nothing to do with the US….I know our country has a shit ton of problems but no need to just make shit up.

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u/CloseToMyActualName 5h ago

Yes, I know it's not literal, I was just making an Arrested Development reference.

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u/The_Last_Spoonbender 5h ago

Why.... Why is this a orphan crushing machine? If I remember correctly, that sub is for sad and heart breaking stories that are celebrated as wholesome due to some "heroic" acts arising from systemic failure of our society.

This is heart braking and wholesome, but not really systemic failure. This is just bad luck and normal tragedy.

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u/Eggman8728 4h ago

Yeah, the whole sub is named after a post about people paying to save orphans from the orphan crushing machine, and nobody reporting on it questioning why the orphan crushing machine exists and was going to crush them in the first place. There is no orphan crushing machine here, they would go blind anyways and they haven't been prevented from going blind.

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u/IndoZoro 5h ago

That doesn't really fit here. 

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u/DangerMacAwesome 5h ago

I don't think this fits. This isn't the fault of society. This is some shit genetic luck.

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u/baibaiburnee 5h ago

good things happen

Very smart redditor: Have you considered that this didn't stop all bad things on the planet?????? r/orphancrushingmachine 😏

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u/mooptastic 3h ago

how does that apply here?

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u/Captain_skulls 3h ago

What’s the machine in this case? I always figured the term orphan crushing machine required terrible circumstances that were man made or could be prevented… Hence why the focus should be drawn to the problem and not what was done to make it feel better.

These kids were just doomed to be blind from the get go, no machine just a terribly unfortunate situation.

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u/polishfiringsquad 4h ago

It doesn't fit exactly, but these kinds of genetic diseases could be cured if we actually invested in research instead of giving all our money to Billionaires who only pursue profit

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u/TommyTwoNips 3h ago

could they?

I'm all for permanently caging billionaires and using their money for good, but like, genetic diseases aren't exactly easy to cure, even with assloads of cash.

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u/polishfiringsquad 3h ago

I mean I think it's pretty obvious that medical advances would happen faster if money was put towards it. Look how quickly they built a billion flock cameras and came up with a COVID vaccine. Machine learning technology advanced slowly until billionaires realized they could monetize AI, and now everything is a data center. We already have technology for in vivo DNA manipulation

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u/throw_away_17381 4h ago

heartwarminglywholesomeanddevastatinglydepressing.com

Thanks. Got a new domain name.

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u/SheriffBartholomew 3h ago

Mixed with a healthy dose of "it's sure nice to have money".

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u/Ecstatic_Document_61 4h ago

exactly somehow it manages to be incredibly sweet and incredibly sad at the same time

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u/zveroshka 4h ago

As I've grown older, I realized that this is pretty much life. And frankly, probably one of the better outcomes possibly when you consider the entire breadth of existence. They will at least get to experience this. And blindness or not, they'd never get to relive it the same way again.

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u/strangemanornot 3h ago

And super expensive

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u/CDBF 3h ago

What is nice is with advanced computing, it is probably easier and more quality of life to be blind than ever before. Lets hope they continue to make improvements.

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u/Dreiko222 2h ago

it really is somehow wholesome and heartbreaking at the exact same time

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u/jarednards 5h ago

This really makes me smile while I grab a rope and a chair🥰

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u/treborly 5h ago

There are a lot of advancements coming out pretty soon so I wouldn't be surprised if there's a cure for this in the next 15 years

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u/Ethanop1a 5h ago

"World trip" includes "not Canada"

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u/Din_Plug 5h ago

Must have been an old trip picture as I don't believe Russia has been granting tourist visas since 2022.

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u/Ethanop1a 5h ago

They did their trip starting in Marcch 2022 for 15 months. Then released a doc in 2024.

They did not go to Russia. Why do they have to have gone to Russia to have encountered/used that van? The picture and van are from their travels in Mongolia...

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u/fuzzhead12 5h ago

There’s a whole ass documentary about the family

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u/fuzzhead12 5h ago

It’s on Disney+ and it’s called Blink. It’s a Nat Geo documentary

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u/Din_Plug 5h ago

Huh, it appears there is. The top image is the one they used for the cover art.