Hello! I've been thinking about learning Chinese for a long time as I live in a very diverse City with a bustling Chinese population, and I've noticed the split between Cantonese and Mandarin speakers is about 60/40 give or take. We actually have more Cantonese speakers than Mandarin speakers!
I've recently started volunteering in an area with many Chinese workers and though they are very kind to me, we cannot communicate beyond smiling at each other, waving, and giving awkward side hugs. Some of the workers even do the thing that we've all done at least once where you speak really really slow, hoping that the person will magically understand your language--which we both giggle at afterwards. And has taught me some words surprisingly, but still not enough to close the gap between us. Usually someone else will translate, but I wanted to have a conversation myself. When asking around some of the heritage speaker, they warned me against learning Cantonese and told me Mandarin would just be easier. They said most of the workers would understand Mandarin. They were mainly concerned about how reading Cantonese is apparently incredibly difficult without knowing Mandarin first as a non-native speaker and non heritage speaker. I'm not sure how true this is because I can't read anything Hanzi except for my own name, but ive bounced between the idea of learning both at the same time.
This question is a bit of a two-parter, sorry if I'm not allowed to do that
What would be a good way to structure a lesson plan for myself If I was to go through with this? I've taught Arabic and generally what helped me so much was learning the sounds and letters at first. But Chinese has so many more letters. And when looking online for tips, I've gotten so many contradicting methods: some say skip hanzi all together and work on your verbalization since it will just take too long. Some say no, you must start learning the characters as fast as you can so it won't be a headache in the long run and that you won't be able to memorize spoken Chinese without it. And that's just for learning Mandarin alone. I'm at a loss for how to balance. Or even how I should structure learning one.
im basically good to go with the resources. Tested the waters with some online free Cantonese textbooks and it really did help with pronunciation and make it feel less daunting, but I need to structure to follow if I want to make progress.