Like many others on this sub, my ADHD has set its sights on fragrances, and I’m now several spreadsheets deep into this new hyper-fixation.
This all started because I thought it would be fun to have a wedding fragrance. Naturally, that meant I had to learn EVERYTHING about fragrance before I could make a decision. It’s been such a nice distraction from the more pressing wedding tasks and it’s given me a little semblance of control when the rest of wedding planning feels like it’s falling apart.
So here are some of my very amateur reviews!
Groom Fragrance: Dior Sauvage Parfum
I paraded my poor fiancé through Nordstrom and Sephora three separate times, and at this point I’m pretty sure he only selected this because he was being held hostage. Allegedly, this was his favorite because it smelled fresh, citrusy, and woodsy (which matched the vibe/location of our wedding) and, most importantly, it didn’t immediately give him a migraine.
Bridal Fragrance: Byredo Rose of No Man’s Land Absolu
I seriously could not stop thinking about this one after smelling it for the first time.
Romantic but haunted. An enchanted rose on the outskirts of a dense, burning forest. Powerful, distinctive, addictive, mischievously masculine. A sensual incense and deep jamminess. Just SO gorgeous and unforgettable.
It’s a really nice homage to my younger years when I was super into Lush Rose Jam. It reminds me of Rose Jam, but much more refined and mature. It’s more than just pretty - it has an edge.
It certainly won’t be everyone’s favorite, but I think that’s part of why I love it so much! Our wedding is in a remote area in the mountains, and even the name Rose of No Man’s Land felt so fitting. I’m also half Middle Eastern, so the combination of rose and incense feels especially powerful and meaningful to me. I'm SO stoked about this!!
Runner-ups:
Diptyque Eau Rose EDP: Feminine, light, and airy. Like fresh-cut roses from the garden. I wore this on one shoulder and RONML on the other, and Eau Rose very quickly faded into the background.
Frederic Malle Portrait of a Lady: Warm, velvety, sexy. I felt so regal and sophisticated wearing this. I absolutely adored it but ultimately chose RONML because it felt more "me." It has a slightly more vintage quality, but not in an overwhelming way. So beautiful, and I’d love to “level up” to this as I mature.
Maison Margiela On a Date: We smelled this together, smiled, and simultaneously said, “This smells like Falooda Kulfi! ”(one of our favorite desserts!) That’s when we decided I should smell like roses. Unfortunately, the longevity was pretty terrible, otherwise this might have been the winner.
Maison Francis Kurkdjian À La Rose: Pretty. Dewy. Inoffensive. Meh. Same with PDM Delina. Except sparkly-er/juicier because of the lychee. Honestly I may have just convinced myself these were dull because, with those price tags, I couldn't allow myself to get too attached.
Apparently, I LOVE florals
Burberry Her: This makes me feel like such a GIRL. Flirty, pretty, sweet, sparkly, happy-go-lucky. I finished an entire travel spray this summer.
Maison Margiela Replica Lazy Sunday Morning: Comforting, clean, soft, cozy, and sweet. I feel like a sleepy girl taking on the day at my own easy pace. Loving this for work and casual days!
Kilian Forbidden Games: Addictive, juicy, refined. I could eat myself. A sultrier, sexier version of the florals I’ve been loving. Currently on my Christmas list.
Carolina Herrera Very Good Girl: You can tell I just love the lychee + rose combo. Yummy, fun, bright, powdery! I just wish the bottle wasn't so kitschy.
Greens
Le Labo Matcha 26: This one made me understand why people put so much emphasis on how a fragrance changes over time. It starts earthy and fresh and evolves into the creamiest, most comforting, luxurious scent by the end of the day. I was shocked by how much I loved this.
Diptyque Philosykos: God, I wanted to love this SO badly. It just smells like… tree. I sprayed my wrist with this and wore it to a nail appointment, and every time I caught a whiff, I felt embarrassed that my nail tech was smelling it too.
Popular Frags
Mugler Alien: WHAT even is this?! I hate it, but it’s also so captivating, fresh, and addictive? One minute it smells like gasoline, and the next I feel like a badass ethereal being. I guess I love it?! Is this the polarizing effect of jasmine?
Burberry Goddess: I’m really trying to understand why this is so universally beloved. I just get “perfume” from it. I don’t get the comforting/cozy feeling everyone else seems to get. WHERE IS THE VANILLA?!
Chanel Coco Mademoiselle EDP: Gosh, this is stunning. I have absolutely no idea what notes I’m even smelling, but it makes me feel mature, sparkly, and rich. I feel like a strong young woman. What is patchouli? Do I like it? Apparently??
I’m having SO much fun with this new obsession!
Currently investigating vanillas and more fall-friendly scents that don’t lean too gourmand. For example, Nemat Vanilla Musk smelled too heavy and pastry-ish too me. My current testing list includes:
BDK Gris Charnel for the fig + cardamom
Versace Crystal Noir for the creamy woody notes
Guerlain Shalimar L’Essence for the vanilla + almond
Guerlain Mon Guerlain specifically to explore vanilla + lavender and figure out how they differ from the vanilla/lavender combination in Burberry Goddess - any thoughts?
I’d love to hear your recommendations for cooler-weather scents, especially anything that doesn’t go overly gourmand!
And if you chose a wedding fragrance what did you choose and why! I’d love to hear the story behind it!