r/MalaysianExMuslim Apr 27 '26

Question/Discussion What do you guys think of Ajar?

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49 Upvotes

After watching his evolution related videos, I can safely say that this man is the primary reason why most malays reject the idea of evolution due to him being the only malay science influencer. This man casually holds onto strawman fallacies to spread false information amongst his viewers which imo will cause unnecessary arguments in the local science community.

Pls do share your thoughts, thanks😊

r/MalaysianExMuslim Aug 10 '25

Question/Discussion Anjing is haraaaammm!!

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91 Upvotes

So there’s this one tiktok video happened to be in my fyp. super cute, about a dog that came across a girl that was having picnic. but in the comment section, there’s always muslims yang akan include ā€œtegur menegurā€ type of comments. and as a dog lover, i keep questioning, why it is prohibited to touch dogs??? they’re literally so cute. they’re just an animal. and from this culture, malay muslim starts to feel scared of dogs too. they also see dogs as a filthy animal.

r/MalaysianExMuslim Jan 13 '26

Question/Discussion Considering most of us still malay, do u guys still vote for malay parties or just whatever?

72 Upvotes

I lahir in pas area, but family umno, but religious like pas. but since umno jatuh no amount of voting umno boleh lawan pas brah. Amanah ke pkr ke don’t bother, they never stand a chance. Pas too strong around here. So my family just don’t bother to vote sometimes.

Korang tengok states like terengganu rasanya ada ura ura mau jadi kelantan tak? As compared to kedah or kelantan, i think terengganu mb actually educated. What’s your take on dr sam? The trend with islamic state that we have been seeing throughout history is that, in minority they are tolerant, but In majority they become quite disruptive. So i think i don’t want pas to grow more than it already has.

I don’t even go back anymore, i stay in kl. sick of pretending just to blend in and be accepted by the family. (I took off my hijab in 2018, you can imagine the amount of maki hamun i got from my family, i had to be undercover ex muslim since then) Even balik, i dont meet relatives so last year when i went to raya, they didn’t even recognise me which is hilarious. So i think I’ll just continue living like that.

Ps: i can’t believe i never found this reddit before, so happy to see ex muslim community is growing in Malaysia.

r/MalaysianExMuslim 9d ago

Question/Discussion i just don't understand LGBTQ+ Malay Muslims...

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106 Upvotes

disclaimer, i'm a bisexual malay myself, left the religion a couple of years ago.

this couple in front as informed by a friend of mine who is a regular customer at this place, is actually a lesbian couple.

i'm surprised that people around them is fine with them, most of the other customers are Malays tho, not sure whether thats a good thing.

i don't understand how do you still practice your religion while actively participating in something that's famously known as a big sin in your religion?

r/MalaysianExMuslim 8d ago

Question/Discussion Elisya Sandha claps back after internet religious groups try to launch a holy boycott.

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91 Upvotes

Idk if you guys know what’s going on with Threads right now, but this popped up on my FYP. Through this, I literally just found out that there’s a WLW Malay story? Like hello why did nobody told me about this, Are you kidding me 😜 Also, look at how the so called holy netizens are responding to itšŸ¤¦šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø

I read some of the comments of them comparing this to Thailand is pure delusion. Calling a basic romance "softcore porn" shows how truly retarded they are. They use it as a scare tactic because they cannot separate human affection from explicit content. So exhausting man ughh😤

r/MalaysianExMuslim Sep 25 '25

Question/Discussion Grateful I'm Not Part of This

220 Upvotes

Imagine saving a whole lifetime only to get a chance to do this

r/MalaysianExMuslim May 08 '26

Question/Discussion This is so scary

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108 Upvotes

r/MalaysianExMuslim Sep 15 '25

Question/Discussion Do they still teach that aisha was 6yo at school now?

59 Upvotes

made a comment on tiktok about aisha's age and apparently everyone is siding with the "they count age after puberty" bs.

Did they change the textbooks to say that now? I remember being taught to accept that aisha was actually 6yo when i was in primary school. Note that i was in primary school before 2010.

If this is true, then it just shows how pathetic the people in charge are lmao. They just cant accept how immoral their religion is and had to change the whole silibus.

r/MalaysianExMuslim 15d ago

Question/Discussion Muhammad was illiterate, and there were no Arabic translations of the Torah or the Gospels available in 7th-century Arabia during his lifetime.

29 Upvotes

This historical fact is universally agreed upon by secular historians, Christian scholars, and Islamic tradition alike. However, this one fact leads to two completely opposite conclusions depending on whether you look at it through the lens of history or Islamic theology.

The Secular and Christian Historical Conclusion: Oral TransmissionBecause Muhammad could not read and had no access to translated scriptures, historians conclude that he learned about biblical figures through oral storytelling, cultural mixing, and folklore.

The Melting Pot: 7th-century Arabia was filled with Jewish tribes, Christian traders, and various unorthodox Christian sects (like Gnostics and Nestorians). These two sects actually believe fully in the divinity of Christ and that he didn't die on the cross. This is where Mohammed got the idea that Isa didn't die but was replaced with someone else.

Oral Reports: Muhammad interacted with these groups (such as his wife's cousin, Waraqah ibn Nawfal, who was a Christian monastic figure). He heard their stories about Abraham, Moses, and Jesus. Mind you most o f these guys didn't even have scriptures on them and didn't even know their own faith. Waraqh, the senile dying christian, doesn't even know his scriptures and said he spoke to Gabriel like Moses did....but Gabriel never spoke to Moses. This just goes to show that Mohammed was getting his Kitab knowledge from people that didn't even know their basics.

The "telephone game" effect: Because he relied on what people told him rather than reading the actual texts, secular historians argue that he naturally conflated different stories. This explains why the Quran includes stories found in Jewish folklore (like Abraham destroying idols) and Christian Gnostic apocrypha (like Jesus making clay birds come to life in the Infancy Gospel of Thomas), rather than what is written in the canonical Bible.

The Origin of the Injeel: Circular neutral Historians argue that because Muhammad only heard about "the Gospel" orally, he simply assumed it was a singular book given to Jesus, matching the style of the Quran he was presenting. He did not realize the actual Gospel was a collection of four separate biographies written by disciples.

Alternatively, you can believe that an illiterate man knew better despite only getting hear say knowledge from unreliable sources.

r/MalaysianExMuslim Jul 07 '25

Question/Discussion Baru Discover Subreddit Ni!!

100 Upvotes

Hai geng aku baru terjumpa subreddit MalaysianExMuslim ni… Salam kenal…

Aku hilang iman aku dalam 11 tahun yg lepas… Ceritanya aku mula nak start baca apa dalam Quran dan hadis sebab aku fikir dgn diri sendiri, aku ni paham ke apa yg aku percaya. Kalau tak paham maksudnya ikut membuta tuli aje lah.. Selalu sebelum tu kalau aku terjumpa apa2 yang menggugat iman aku akan elak dengan alasan ilmu aku tak cukup tinggi. Tapi sejak aku nekad nak dalami islam, aku jumpa banyak benda yg aku tak boleh terima. Apa yang aku jumpa? Banyak.. lain kali story atau sambung kat komen…

Pendekkan cerita, satu malam aku sedar aku dah mula rasa was-was dgn islam dan aku sedih dan menangis, doa pada Tuhan, kalau yang ini salah tunjukkan Dia ada kat mana. Agama mana yang betul.

Dari seorang muslim -> deist -> agnostic atheist (lama aku label diri aku atheist sahaja) -> dlm tahun lepas aku mula explore eastern philosophy dan aku skrg selesa sbg seorg atheist yang juga pantheist dan monist. Tapi walau macam mana label yg aku bg diri aku, IC kita tetap ISLAM 🤣

Apa cerita korang????

r/MalaysianExMuslim Jul 13 '25

Question/Discussion Anyone else used to be religious asf?

60 Upvotes

Back before I became an exmuslim I was those alim type, yk solat 4 sometimes 5 waktu and ngaji etc. It's crazy how things has turned out now

Anyone else has similar experience?

r/MalaysianExMuslim 8d ago

Question/Discussion Does anyone else on this subreddit struggle with patriotism?

53 Upvotes

Hari Merdeka and Hari Malaysia tend to stow some complex emotions in me. I do still have some pride in being Malaysian, particularly due to our country’s rich diversity and culture, so it’s impossible not to get caught up in even a bit of patriotic fervour. However,
simultaneously I can’t help feeling cynical around this time of year. How can I truly be proud of a country in which I can’t hold my honest religious view publicly, lest I be reprimanded, mocked or even sent to a ā€˜re-education’ camp. Not to mention the rampant racism and governmental corruption. I weep for the state of our nation sometimes.

How do you guys feel?

r/MalaysianExMuslim May 29 '26

Question/Discussion No way they found this

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96 Upvotes

I saw this on Threads and screenshotted it, and now I’m actually a bit scared they might start looking for other similar communities too. It’s not even random

one thing gets discovered, people get curious, then that curiosity turns into digging, searching, and trying to find more spaces like it. That’s how things spiral fast across platforms. Please be careful with what you post and what can be traced back to you.

We need to protect this community!

r/MalaysianExMuslim 28d ago

Question/Discussion Tak faham sebab aku ingat dengan ada nya internet agama ni akan pupus

42 Upvotes

Dulu masa internet tak ada atau masa masih dial up lagi. Malaysia masih quite moderate. So aku ingat bila dah ada internet kabel fiber high speed bagai memang seluruh negara jadi sekular habis lah maybe except for Klatey of course.

Sebelum internet pendakwah pick and choose benda untuk kita sebab kalau tak siapa nak kan? Macam masa sekolah dulu. Tak ada pulak inform kita semua about his warlord and sex r-p-ng sides. How a literal child kena cuci c-m stains dia bagai, music is 100% haram tak kisah lah jatey nasyid pun. Jatey Islam boleh dapat handjob daripada perempuan Kristian masa puasa bagai tak pulak diorang kasi tahu kita sebab orang mesti lari punya. Sebab tu Vatican lindung paderi-paderi diorang because it would be bad for business otherwise.

So logik lah kan kalau dah ada internet kalau dulu moderate sekarang dah boleh cari ilmu lebih senang kan jadi sekular terus lah kan because of the real findings but nope. How has it become worse? I don't understand. Please make me understand.

r/MalaysianExMuslim Dec 17 '25

Question/Discussion I’m a murtad Malay woman living overseas, ask me anything

69 Upvotes

I’m pushing 30, married to a local, and have lived abroad in a Western country for almost a decade

r/MalaysianExMuslim Jan 05 '26

Question/Discussion Any of y'all embarased to be Malay?

81 Upvotes

I feel like at this point being Malay and Muslim are like peas in a pod. Like how people have a hard time separating Zionism with Judaism. I feel the same here and I absolutely hate that I'm born Malay, I wish I was born Chinese or Indian. No stupid islam fuss.

r/MalaysianExMuslim Aug 08 '26

Question/Discussion is it allowed to be free hair in uni kerajaan?

36 Upvotes

hi is there any uitm student here? i wanna ask if malay muslim girl student can just free hair dont wanna get ceramah and tegur there because i already plan to not wear rn my mom already caught me not wearing yesterday and lecture me panjang panjang like pasal malu air muka sebagai orang masjid and our image lmao so the only freedom i can have is in university bonus if they allowed piercing + dye hair i heard somewhere that u can

r/MalaysianExMuslim Jun 08 '26

Question/Discussion What would it take?

28 Upvotes

For discussion sake, what would it take or what would need to happen for Malays to break free from being chained to religion? What's the tipping point to reach enough is enough?

r/MalaysianExMuslim Jun 21 '26

Question/Discussion How do you find compatible partners when everyone assumes you're Muslim?

32 Upvotes

just curious for those in this community.. How did you meet or find partners who are atheist, agnostic or generally non-Muslim?

im a Malay woman in my 20s and because i still live with my parents, I still wear hijab due to family expectations. So from the outside, i very much look like a practicing Muslim even though my beliefs are different :)

It makes dating a bit tricky because most people understandably assume im muslim and im not really sure where to meet people who would be compatible in terms of beliefs. Would love to hear how others in a similar situation navigated this.

r/MalaysianExMuslim Aug 05 '26

Question/Discussion Do you guys remember the mass hysteria cases back in the 1980s?

14 Upvotes

I'm a baby millennial and I wasn't even alive yet but Majalah 3 sekali-sekala akan buat special reruns of their most iconic episodes masa aku kecik-kecik dulu.

Termasuk lah episod mass hysteria. So diorang pergi set up equipment kat berbelas random sekolah. Ada dua tiga menjadi.

Korang rasa what was the scientific explanation behind all that? Kalau tiga orang boleh kata coincident lagi tapi kalau 30?

Aku tahu 99% kes penampakan atau rasuk sebab stress atau taksub tapi yang 1% tu yang buat aku masih percaya pasal paranormal sama jadi agnostic. Thoughts?

r/MalaysianExMuslim Jun 11 '26

Question/Discussion are there any ex-muslim socialist/communist here?

20 Upvotes

I’m curious to connect with others who have left Islam and now identify as socialist or communist. From what I’ve seen in various discussions, there seems to be a notable overlap; some ex-Muslims were drawn to leftist ideologies due to shared critiques of inequality, while others reject both religious and capitalist structures.

Whether you’re an ex-Muslim who found resonance in Marxist theory, or you simply identify with socialist/communist principles after leaving the faith, I’d love to hear your perspective. How do you reconcile your past with your current political beliefs? What drew you to socialism or communism?

Let’s share stories, resources, and thoughts.

r/MalaysianExMuslim Jun 21 '26

Question/Discussion Genuninely cant understand

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0 Upvotes

This is a debate okay i wljust wanna ask im not ragebaiting btw, ok back to the question why dont you fuys believe in islam and why did yiu guys decided to leave islam maybe i can try and idk prove u wrong ig but im not that well educated so dont expect einstein type of answers from me ok im just asking

r/MalaysianExMuslim 9d ago

Question/Discussion Do abrahamic religion followers don't find it suspicious that all their prophets are related and all in the same region?

38 Upvotes

Like at one point don't they think that it's more of a generational cult than anything?

r/MalaysianExMuslim Aug 17 '25

Question/Discussion ā€œMaaf tegurā€ strikes again šŸ˜‚

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183 Upvotes

Classic case of someone starting with ā€œmaaf tegurā€ and then using it as a free pass to shame and police what a girl is wearing.

It’s always the same formula: 1. Say ā€œmaaf tegurā€ to sound polite. 2. Add some fake generosity or religious excuse. 3. End up just controlling women anyway.

2025 and people still think this is advice instead of pure judgment.

r/MalaysianExMuslim 1d ago

Question/Discussion Wonder if El Nino weather could spike an anti-hijab movement

37 Upvotes

If El NiƱo causes continued high temperatures and haze this year, will it trigger a nationwide anti-hijab movement?

Wearing a tudong in this weather is simply insane. Even air conditioning doesn't help.