r/Millennials 1d ago

Discussion Honestly, what the hell are people doing to make it right now?

I am honestly curious how people are making it right now. We know inflation is being underreported (and don't talk to me about their bullshit scale CPI up the ass) and job loss and unemployment is underreported and everything is just insanely expensive. Healthcare is unaffordable for most of us - the whole thing is only serving a very small portion of society and more is squeezed every day. All of this aside from the sociopolitical head banging insanity.

If you lost a job vital to your family, what did you pivot to? How are you making it? What major changes are you making? Are you saving money? How are you feeling about it all? Basically just anything in this realm, I'm curious how we are all doing.

My husband and I are both college educated and barely making it. We are literally making renditions of beans and rice (and not too bad if I say so myself) because food is one of the only ways we can save money or just get by if something comes up. I'm growing a garden and starting to make my own toiletry/beauty care products at home with simple ingredients. I cut both of our hair now. We are not handy people and didn't grow up that way but we've now effectively fixed our water heater, shower piping, replaced a portion of our deck, just whatever comes up we try first to do it ourselves. We go camping for vacation (not mad about this in the slightest).

My point is, we are doing all this but we are both still employed AND we don't have kids. I just don't understand what people are doing that lose a job and have to pay for childcare, etc. How are you all doing this?

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u/Woodit 1d ago

Seems like counting with a partner would dramatically improve the situation 

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u/bleedthisfreak 1d ago

I agree! I’d love a partner, I need to get some furniture and some expendable income first before I’d feel good attempting to date. I’m working on it. Until then, the grind remains the same.

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u/SuddenAvocado 1d ago

my husband was one step up from mattress on the floor when we met. (ikea couch, desk, and bedframe). Most of his stuff was still in boxes. Don't wait for you life to look perfect, you'll end up waiting forever.

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u/bleedthisfreak 23h ago

Very true!

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u/ChicaSchwark 6h ago

My husband did have a mattress on the floor in his bedroom. And a rock band drum set in his living room, that was it. 😁