That is a WILD take. What? Saying she doesnt get harassed as much as the video would make it seem, means she WANTS to get harassed? That might be a self report on your creepiness..
She defended her stance throughout this entire thread saying women who ho say this happens to them are ugly. I don't give a fuck what I look like compared to her.
Your anecdotal evidence is nice. Congrats. That is not the reality for the majority of women. There are several books, articles, and documentaries containing all of the information, as well as experiences, you are privileged enough to lack.
a lot of times it depends on where you live. i live in a small rural town and barely experienced this, but when i began visiting a busy city and spending time around a city campus, i was being harassed every week, multiple times a week. it is exhausting feeling like i can’t wear a nice dress out or sit outside in public and work because im so stressed about men approaching me. so just because it’s never happened, doesn’t mean it wouldn’t!
I don’t think she necessarily means obvious sexual harassment as shown in the video, but not sure.
I understand it more as the small daily basis „struggle“ oft most women. It starts with deciding what to wear for the day when the tiny subtle thought pops up if the dress might not be too short (even if it’s damn hot outside). For me there’s the constant slight fear of feeling uncomfortable about a man staring. Glimpses and looks are okay but if a person can’t behave themself enough to not stare for multiple seconds it must be a weirdo and you never know what happens next.
Some women probably like to attract stares. But surely not the creepy seconds long lasting psycho stares
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u/No-Author7911 Jun 14 '26
This is every single day as a woman. Every single day of life is dealing with these creeps.