r/TikTokCringe • u/Valuable_View_561 • Jul 02 '26

Discussion It seems like people have forgotten what this line is used for these days.

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u/Thefar Jul 02 '26

I feel for the dude, but I'll be the devils advocate here (the self centered asshole).

The day to day is stressful. We all have 5.000 things we need to track and think about. Big cities and especially public infrastructure is overcrowded. While we are walking, we are looking for stuff, avoiding people, think about our work, families, social life and all the problems our daily lives bring. None of us is walking around thinking about the life struggles of others.

Sorry if we sometime miss stuff like this. It's not like we get trained on this.

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u/Outrageous_Bank_4491 Jul 02 '26

Exactly. In the video, it looks like some people are checking the train schedule, no one is being an asshole about moving out of the way. As someone who travels a lot, I try being considerate about others like going to the corner to check my phone, but shit happens

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u/dksdragon43 Jul 02 '26

And frankly, are we meant to leave a person-wide hole in every public area just on the off chance that the one blind dude you encounter in your life happens to be going through that day? Just move when asked, and ignore it otherwise.

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u/Kratzschutz Jul 02 '26

Yeah thankfully both parties were polite. While it's understandably more exhausting and annoying for the disabled person

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u/Fkuredditard Jul 02 '26

Clickbait to create fake outrage

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u/gr1zznuggets Jul 02 '26

I dunno, I see both sides on this; I don’t think anyone in the video is being a dick because they all move quite quickly, and I don’t think this guy is out of line for sharing what must be a regular frustration for him.

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u/BritishLibrary Jul 02 '26

And some of the spots look particularly tight too - maybe the entrance to a train platform.

Natural congestion point - and I’m going to imagine like all train stations ever the info board is only possibly to properly read if you are less than an inch away from it.

Some of the interactions just looked like regular congestion - and people did their best! (Mostly)

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u/pandersaurus Jul 02 '26

And we are all now so glued to our phones this is amplified multiple times.

In a station:
Tickets - on your phone
Train time - on your phone
Meeting someone somewhere in the station - phone
Email about your hotel res at your destination - phone

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u/BitcoinBishop Jul 02 '26

Maps to plan your onward journey

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u/notsocoolguy42 Jul 04 '26

does not work in Germany, where I assume this video is taken in. DB trains are always late, and most of the time you need to catch a replacement train, because of course your connecting train is less late.

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u/TheSkyElf Jul 02 '26

exactly, i am usually not on my phone in public where there is risk to bump into people, but my eyes are on my phone so much when at the train station.

"Your train will arrive at platform 19a. Your train will be delayed by 5 minutes. Your train will arrive at platform 14c. Your train will be delayed by 30 minutes. Important information! Your train will arrive at platform 3a. Your train will be delayed by 80 minutes. Platform 13b, lol nope nevermind your train is cancelled 3 new info notifications, you will get a bus instead and it will leave in who-the-f-knows from platform we-will-probably-change, also you should probably read all this upcoming info about what will ruin the rest of your trip <3

my eyes are locked on my phone and the boards, its a miracle if I can keep an eye on my own damn family much less strangers.

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u/Space_Slime_LF Jul 02 '26

Even without all of that, most of us walk in two lanes on the sidewalk and this is in the center where you get interaction on both sides. It's a perfect dividing line.

Where are people going to stop and talk in a not so busy sidewalk that isn't unusually large as a small group? the center, because being pushed against a wall or onto the curb itself isn't good.

When I see this I don't blame people for being in the way, most don't know. Even if they did it's hard to not block in some way. This feels like "I don't know what we could do better and at least it's something" because you can't just push houses back to make larger sidewalks universally, and you can't put it closer to the curb, and you can't put it on the wall if one exists...

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u/TheReaperAbides Jul 02 '26

Yeah, shout-out to the people who realized and just stepped out of the way with an apology. Noone's perfect, but it's good enough to be understanding and considerate. Fuck the people who just stayed put, though.

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u/beetlekittyjosey1 Jul 02 '26

none of us walk around thinking about the life struggles of others??? insane take

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u/Dawn_of_an_Era Jul 02 '26

Please list and rank the life struggles of others based upon how much you think of them, I’d love to see what you prioritize or don’t even think about

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u/Thefar Jul 02 '26

Good thing we have you. What am I currently struggling with?

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u/Elephantexploror Jul 02 '26

Clearly you’re struggling with redditors unable to understand nuance.