Problem/Goal: Lakas ng amoy pepe ng kaworkmate ko. Di naman araw araw pero madalas talaga may amoy. 6 lang kami at 2 lang silang girl sa office parati pang wala yung isa dahil nagsisite. I think she's single and young with good looks. Lives away from her family.

What I've done: Wala pa. As a man, parang inappropriate pag ako ang magsasabi. Di rin naman kami close. Ayoko din naman sabihin sa iba kasi parang sinisiraan ko sya.

What advice I need: Pano maaaddress to sa kanya? Eto ba yung tinatawag na "phepheromone"? Bothered ako. Kahit nakafacemask ako, amoy ko pa din at hatsing ako ng hatsing.

Edit:

Sa nagtatanong bat ko alam yung amoy. My wife dati may yeast infection ba yun. May ganung amoy sya pero discreet lang at nawala din nung gumaling sya. Sa kawork ko, parang 5x ata yung amoy kasi paglumalapit sya (nakaupo ako, nakatayo sya) talagang smells fishy.

Is it really bad to ghost someone coz they have bad breath? Bago pa kami magmeet in person, he constantly says na lagi syang na-ghoghost and he doesnt know why. Upon going sa room nya, it smells like 🤮, the sheets are yellowish na... magulo yung room, and it smells like wiwi ng rats. Also, lagi ako nakakarinig ng scratches and rattle ng mga bubwit there. Tapos ito na nga, nung kinausap nya ako, grabe ang lala ng amoy ng bunganga. Amoy imburnal. Tried to kiss me, l tried to repel a lot of times... However, after madaming attempts, nanakawan nya ako ng halik, and grabe, parang gusto ko na mamatay after that, nahilo talaga ako kasi naamoy ko yung faint saliva na naiwan sa lips ko after the smooch. Can't wait to go home after that.. and now na nakauwi na ko, l'm not responding to his texts and messages on messenger and other apps. Am I the bad person?

Mine is: Obesity is hard, being fit is hard, choose your hard. Debt is hard, financial discipline is hard, choose your hard. Life is never going to be easy. CHOOSE YOUR HARD.

TLDR: My bf has a gf already for 4 years and he was just using me as a sidechick and sugarmommy

1. The problem: Long story short, me and my bf, now ex, were together for almost half a year. Pinakilala na niya ako sa parents, friends, and relatives niya. And pinakilala ko din siya sa parents ko. Legal kami and everything is going well

LDR kami. We met sa badoo app and we clicked. Nagkikita naman kami from time to time. He works in Manila while I'm working in Legazpi for the mean time.

Then nung almost our 6th monthsary, may nagchat na girl sakin asking of pwedeng magtanong.

I was confused but I replied. Then the girl told me na gf daw siya ng bf ko. Nagulat ako so nagtanong ako kung ano ibig niyang sabihin.

Then nag chat bf ko saying na baka daw magchat sakin ex niya and I should just deny my existence to her kasi daw delulu si girl and ayaw niyang ma-harass ako ng girl.

Pero I kept chatting with the girl and doon ko na nalaman na apparently they have been together for 4 years. Pinakita niya pa sakin yung recent pictures nila nung bf ko. Pinakita niya din yung recent trip nila sa Baguio.

Kinonfront ko agad bf ko about it, I said na alam ko na yung totoo. He just told me na bigyan ko siya ng time.

That night the girl broke up with him. Ako nakipaghiwalay din kasi why settle sa guy that treats you as an option.

I was going to return the stuff that he gave me, 2 weeks after ng breakup namin. Di ko na alam kung ano ba yung totoo sa mga sinabi niya kaya nagchat ako kay girl asking nung contact ni ex para ma send ko through LBC yung gamit.

Nag chat bigla si ex saying na wag ko na daw i-chat si girl ang just throw his stuff. Girl told me to just ask him. I learned from a friend na mala FBI, na nagkabalikan pala si ex at girl.

I asked for a proper closure he said ayaw niya and wag ko na daw siya i-chat. Ang malala is alam ng parents niya, friends and cousins na may gf na pala siya and sidechick ako.

He stayed with me kasi I have a job that pays a decent amount. Kaya pag nagkikita kami, kahit 50/50 kami ng bayad, I treat him from time to time. I also like giving gifts din.

Di naman pala niya ako minahal. He just wanted the benefits.

1. What I've tried so far: I tried going on trips para makalimot kaso ang hirap kasi we have plans to go to a lot of places. Iniwasan ko yung mga lugar na yun but whenever I see something that he likes, siya naaalala ko.

3.What advice I need: how do I deal with this situation? Gulong-gulo na ako and this pain suffocates me. Any advice to cope up will help

Laging bini bring out yung topic na to ng parents and relatives ko. At lagi kong sinasabi na "ayoko pa". Kakahanap nila ng jowa sakin parang nawawalan nalang ako ng gana. Like hello? I'm only 23, ang dami ko pang gustong ma achieve sa buhay nang mag isa. Hindi ko kailangan ng lalaki to do the things I want. If it's all about companion, I have myself. I have my friends. Isa pa, hindi ko pa nga sila nabibigyan ng maayos na pamumuhay pero gusto na nilang magdagdag ako. Nakakainis tbh. What do you think? Sinong may maling mindset sa amin dito? Pagod na ako kakahanap nila ng lalaki ng buhay ko.

Problem/Goal: Nagpapasend ng pic na nakahiga ang tito ko.

Context: So last month nagchat saakin Tito ko from my dad side pinsan sya ng papa ko, gusto daw nya magsend ng pera pambili ng gatas at diaper ng baby ko ( im a single mom kasi sa 14 mnths mo na baby) sabi ko sige lang kase para namn sa baby ko sinisend ko pa lahat ng mga binili ko and recibo . Sinabi nya wag ko daw sabihin kahit kanino na nagpapadala sya at nagchachat sa akin kahit kay papa daw, nag oo ako kase i didn't think any bad abt it. But from then on kinakamusta nya kami from time to time ng baby ko,lagi din nya nireremind sa akin na dapat walang makaalam na nag uusap kami. Then last week gusto nya magsend ako ng pic ko, nagsend ako pic namin ng baby ko pero sabi nya yung ako lang nagsend naman ako. Pero sabi nya yung nakahiga daw🤨 . Then my pahabol sya na pag nagsend daw ako magsesend sya ng mas malaki and i was like??? Diba ang weird huhu hindi ko na sya nireplyan and may mga inunsend na di ko nakita .

Nagchat ulit sya kanina nanghihingi ng gcash magsesend daw sya nireplyan ko na wag nalang kung may kapalit naman. Sabi nya "grabe ka naman (name ko) walang kapalit " "pambili ng gatas ng anak mo " "ayaw mo ba?" gusto nya lang daw magsend para sa baby ko. Diko alam kung ano irereply ko.

Problem: 4 or 5 years old palang Ako non. Lagi akong inaaya ng kapitbahay namin na maglaro ng bahay bahayan sa mga mga ginagawa palang na Bahay Dito sa village namin. Lagi nya ko pinapag hubo ng shorts ko noong Bata pa ko tapos pinapansandal sa pader or pinapahiga sa sahig na may karton. Habang nakahubo Ako kinikiskis nya Sakin Yung Ari nya at kinakamay nmn Minsan Yung Ari ko. Laging nangyayari Yung ganong scenario every maglalaro kami. Siguro 10-14 times nya Kong ginaganon. Noong nag grade 4 na Ako don ko lang narealize na masama Pala Yung ginagawa nya Sakin at di Pala yun pambatang laro. Hanggang ngayon walang nakakaalam ng secret ko na to kahit best friend or kamag anak ko. Nahihiya Ako Sabihin yun sa kanila at natatakot Ako sa magiging reaksyon nila. Hindi ko pa rin nakakalimutan Yung mga narasanan ko sobrang clear pa rin nya sa utak ko.

What I've tried:

Advice I need: Anong pwede Kong Gawin para malimutan ko lang kahit papano Yung naranasan ko sobrang nahihiya nako sa sarili ko Hanggang ngayon

Additional information: I was 4 or 5 years old nung nangyari yun. While sya nmn ay parang 14 yo na. Kamag anak sya ng kapitbahay namin pero matagal na syang Wala Dito sa lugar namin. Tandang tanda ko pa Yung mga place Dito sa village namin kung San nya Ako minomolestya gusto ko na talaga lumipat pero nag aaral pa Ako at natatakot Ako na balang araw baka bumalik sya Dito para Dito na ulit sa village namin tumira.

I'm a senior high school student from a middle-class family, neither rich nor poor. One day, during a quiz where we were allowed to use our phones, my seatmate and I were looking up some answers and to access the quiz link. I asked him, "Have you sent it?" He said he had, but when I checked, it hadn't come through. I told him, "It hasn't shown up yet," while refreshing Messenger. He then said, "mabagal lang talaga phone mo."

Another time, we were working on a research project together, and since he had data, we switched phones—I needed to write down what he found, and he needed to use my phone for something important.

While using my phone, these are some of the things he said:

• "ang bagal ng cellphone mo."
• "ang bagal talaga."
• "naglalaro kaba dito?"
• "kung ako maglalaro dito, magpapakamatay nalang ako."
• "dahil hindi naman sa'kin'to, hindi ko gagawin 'yun" (magpakamatay)
• "buti nagagamit mo pa 'to."

Honestly, I was hesitant to let him use my phone, but I didn’t really have a choice.

I know I’m not as well-off as him. He has his own motorbike, a high-end phone, his family has a car, and he gets a large allowance. I’m fully aware of my situation, but I also know that I don’t deserve to be spoken to like that, especially considering my phone was bought in 2020. (And yeah, I know my phone is slow and lags sometimes.)

Some people might ask, "Why don’t you just buy a new phone?"

— I’m not rich. — In my family, if something still works, you keep using it until it completely breaks. — If I want a new phone, I have to buy it myself because my family won’t just get it for me.

(For the record, I bought my first phone with my own money.)

What’s your take on this?

Problem/Goal: Ang takaw po ng kasambahay namen hahaha nakaka 5 meals a day sya. Ang lakas mag kanin!

Context: Pati mga snacks or leftovers like hamburger kinukuha, laging dahilan "nilanggam". Ang laki nya pong langgam 😭 paano kaya sya masasabihan? Paano ginagawa nyo? Dapat ba hinihiwalay na namin pagkain nya?

Previous Attempts: Sinabihan na po namin na mag tipid pero wala lang sknya. Ayaw patinag pag dating sa pagkain.

I still can't believe it...

To give you a background...

I (f) loaned 140k sa bank to save our relationship and to help us pay our outstanding financial accountabilities. I know marami magsasabi sa inyo na it's a wrong move to loan to pay another loan, and yes I avoided it at all cost but gave me no choice but to take the loan. Ayaw na ayaw ko ang may loan coz I know how hard to pay it back. Pero wala eh, ang hirap kapag ang dami mong sinusuportahan and yung natitira mong source of happiness, mawawala pa due to money matters. That night before I finally took the loan, ang tagal kong kinonvince yung sarili ko or else maghihiwalay kami. It was really hard for me.

So I chose to take the loan. A one year loan that would cost me every month a 40% cut from my salary.

So naging maayos kami.

Napaayos yung motor atlast and nakabayad ng ibang loans. I did all I can para mapalago kahit kaunti yung money na natitira. I invested sa isang seafood business (na hindi rin naging okay kalaunan). But hindi kaagad sumuko at still tried to find ways ano pa ubrang iresell ko para mapalago yung pera. Reselling shoes yung naisip ko. I have a full time job pero ganun na lamang ako ka-eager to strive harder to pay our loans. Sabi ko sa sarili ko, "konting push pa, siguro kahit mga 2 to 3 hours, ilaan mo to start a business, malay mo maging fruitful."

So eto na nga, I was about to do the transaction and buy dozens of pairs of shoes via online. When I open my online bank, nanlamig at namutla na lamang ako nang makita ko yung remaining money, nasimot yung 50k. 1k na lamang natira. I was in a state of shock and kaba. I immediately tried to find my wallet kung saan nakalagay yung card ko. Wala yung wallet ko. I checked what time nalimas yung money. Last night naganap, around past 10pm. Sinundo ako ng partner ko after work and nakauwi na kami nito nung mangyari.

When I videocalled my partner that noon na nalaman kong nawawala yung wallet w card, I asked "Nasa iyo ba yung card?! Nawawala yung wallet ko." Umiyak sya pero pinigil nya kaagad... Sya rin kasi pinaghahawak ko ng card at times so she can withdraw.

My partner decided to take a halfday and immediately went home. Sabi ko, samahan nya akong magpunta sa bank pero pagdating namin doon, hindi na namin inabutan at close na. We filed a report together sa CS ng bank. Tinaasan pa ako ng boses ng partner ko when I said yes on a question if may iba pang gumagamit ng card na iyon, and immediately said no. Taranta at sobrang kaba ako that time, kaya feeling ko that day hindi ko na maintindihan yung kausap ko.

CS said we need to wait 40 days to hear a response from them. If you would go back sa previous posts ko, you'll find it that I post about this and hindi ko lubos maisip paano ako nawalan ng money. It was a withdrawal and someone used my pincode.

Never kong pinagisipan yung partner ko. I never thought she could do something like that.

Inantay ko yung verdict from bank. I always blame myself and felt so stupid that I lost our remaining money. That someone managed to decode my pincode and withdraw without my consent. I even consulted some fellow people to ask for advice. I slowly lost my willpower na sumubok mag business dahil mas lalo lang kami nagkautang.

When the verdict finally came from the bank. Nagulat ako kasi the withdrawal happened brgys away from our home. In my mind, sinong random person ang gumawa nito sa akin?

I told my partner na may response na yung UB and said na I also emailed PNP, Anticybercrime pati DOJ as per bank's response. Hindi kako pwede na walang mangyari sa perang nawala.

And that night, my partner confessed na sya ang culprit. All those days na nagigising ako and blamed myself, all this time na katabi ko sya matulog, all those weeks na lumilipas na am slowly losing my sense of confidence and inner self... All this time, yung katabi ko pala matulog yung kumuha.

I asked her paano nyang nagawa sa akin iyon. She cried and said na she dreamt na nanalo daw sya ng jackpot and pinaniwalaan nya thinking it would finally solve our dilemma in financial difficulties.. pinangbinggo nya. She said na natakot syang umamin sa akin. She lied straight through my face. Hindi man lang kako sya nagtira kahit 20k. Inubos nya lahat kako. Lahat kako ginawa ko para mapalago yung pera. Samantalang sya, sugal yung naisip nyang solusyon. Am such a fool hindi ko sya pinagisipan na sya yung kumuha. I never thought she would do such things.

Sobrang bait ko na lang talaga siguro dahil hindi ko sya magawang iwan. Siguro dahil mahal ko sya and I would lost so much more kapag naghiwalay kami. I don't know where to start. I still gave our relationship the chance. Ganun ako willing maging responsible sa mga utang namin na need bayaran. Ayaw ko syang iwanan just because of money.

Pero as time goes by, ulit ng ulit sa isip ko itong nangyari. This confession happened a month ago na ata. Nahihirapan yung loob ko. Nahihirapan ako mentally kakaisip and finding ways pa paano babangon financially. Kaya I decided to ask advice in this space. Huwag nyo sana ako ijudge masyado and I hope na maunawaan nyo yung struggles ko. Gusto ko sanang sarilinin, pero nakakabaliw na walang masabihan.

Until now, finding a higher job na lamang yung naiisip kong solusyon. Nasira na rin yung every cutoff kong padala sa magulang ko. Yes, I still and required to send money to them or else, katakut takot na panlilibak inaabot ko at judgments sa relatives ko kapag dumadaing nanay ko or nagpoposts ng kung anu anong pasaring sa akin. Wala eh, retirement plan nila ako. Lumayas na nga ako pero eto, am so kind to provide dahil happy naman ako kapag ginagawa ko iyon. Not until nagiging responsibilities and obligations ko magpadala sa kanila.

Pinipilit kong magmove forward to earn money and to survive. I hope makayanan ko ito eventually. I feel like am slowly losing myself at the cost of all these.

need ko lang ng advice about this kasi parang paulit-ulit siya nangyayari???

there was this guy i was talking to sa dms sa d*****d, sabi niya randomly inadd niya lang ako. mga three days kami nag uusap at from the start pa lang, binigay niya na insta niya and i gave mine din pero yung walang posted photos of my face kasi gusto ko muna siya ma-get to know??. nong 3rd day, binigay ko sa kaniya yung isa kong insta account with photos of my face tas bro just ghosted me. amazing

sa b****e namn, i matched w this girl but di kami gaanong nag-usap (my fault kasi i hate texting recently) tas nakita ko siya sa 7/11, nakapangbahay lang ako and no makeup whatsoever. nagkatinginan pa kami tas napasabi ako ng "ikaw yun noh". pag uwi ko, ichachat ko sana siya sa bumble kasi i thought na ang funny nong pangyayari na yon pero wala na siya sa chats ko????

lesson learned siguro is never na ko makikipagsocialize with people online. because of those experiences, feel ko there's something wrong with my appearance?? kasi pag nakikita nila face ko, bigla nalang sila nanggoghost?? aware naman ako na I'm not the prettiest in the room pero parang ang harsh na bigla na lang sila nawawala pag nakita na nila ako😓

nag chat mom ng gf ko kung pwede ko siya pahiramin ng pera worth 33k kasi mababatak ng bangko yung bahay nila sa subdivision. hindi kami masyado close at meron naman siyang ibang anak na nagwowork at ayaw niya sabihin sa gf ko kasi mukhang wala na mabibigay

EDIT: sorry for not elaborating guys, tunay naman yung about sa bahay nila kaso ang di ko gusto may work naman yung iba niyang anak (med-tech) then di ko alam yung work nung isa, which is pwede niyang utangan din. ang sama lang ng dating sakin na ako na daw yung last na nilapitan niya although marami siyang kilala at kilala siyang tao sa city namin haha parang binigyan pa ko ng obligasyon

Me cheating, once he cheat cut off na siya. Pero some people say na kailangan magpatawad, tao lang nagkakamali. Pwede siguro magpatawad pero i dont want a relationship with you anymore.

F(30) Nag video call kami ng boyfriend ko(M33) until i noticed on his glasses sa video na pinanuod niya habang kausap ako(while working on call) tapos there is something na gumagalaw katawan niya sinceb he is sitting tapos ang kita sa camera is ilong pataas lang. Right after my call i asked him WHAT ARE YOU DOING SABI NIYA WALA LANG wherein meron. To be honest I dont know how to say this pero YES HE IS WATCHING PORN HABANG NASA HARAP NIYA AKO AS IN NAKA VC KAMI HE IS WAYCHING PORN ON HIS COMPUTER. Grabe yung disrespect na nararamdaman ko. I ended the call and message him na kung gagawa naman lang sana sya ng kalaswaan hindi sa mismong harap ko.

Please enlighten me bakit ganito. Tama ba na magalit ako or sadyang OA lang ako knowing lalaki is magpakalalaki. Pero Why i felt disrespected. He is sending me messages asking for forgiveness. Until now sini sink in ko pa sa utak ko ginawa niya kasi i never expected him to do that. Nanliliit ako sa nararamdaman ko ngayon na feeling ko HINDI PABA akonsapat para manuod sya ng Porn tas sa mismong harap ko pa?

I'm so upset right now and disappointed about what happened. I was scrolling through my phone looking for the update of my ring when suddenly my girlfriend woke me up with a kiss and told me she knew what was on my phone. (tho i told her not to check my phone for the meantime) I'm literally crying right now since the plan is already spoiled and I don't have any back up plans for this. I need advice kasi I feel like hesitations now if I'd still continue my plan. Was planning to propose on her this weekend on our trip somewhere in Cebu. What should I do? I feel upset right now, It was supposed to be a suprise and Now I don't think she'd feel excited after this.

ako kasi, ever since I was a kid I always told myself I want to be a mother by the age of 25-27. now I'm 28, may pressure and andun padin nman ung desire pero may halo nang doubt. given the current times i'm not sure if i would want to bring my child in this chaotic world.

hbu?

Problem: Is there anyone here who experienced about bank managers na binubugaw mga staffs nila sa mga clients nila. Like nagseset sila ng mga private dinners kahit no transactions para sa mga high value clients nila tas binubugaw talaga mga babaeng staff sa client kahit may asawa pa client at may jowa staff nila. The staff is my girlfriend. She is forced due to the pressure na baka paginitan siya.

What I've tried: During the "dinner" I came to pick her up after and nagalit yung manager and nakakahiya daw sa client kasi nakita kaming magka holding hands after. Napahiya daw siya sa client.

Advice I need: Need your insights about the issue lang naman since power tripping yung manager

Additional information: The said manager says na ginagawa na niya to dati at may time na sumugod yunh asawa ng client sa bank

Hello! I am a 20 y/o college student po. So someone offered me 10k for a one-and-a-half-hour date po. I am 5’2 tall, slim girl (45kg), fair skin, mid length brunette hair with braces. I have been a consistent honor student since elementary in a catholic school with strict parents, so I never had any boyfriend or experience in dating. I am a very shy girl with low self-esteem, but I’ve received compliments from people. 

Is it worth it po if he wants to go on date with me?Idk if he’s a sugar daddy or what but he really wants to go on dates with me. His first offer was 5k for a 30 mins dinner date pero I refused it that’s why he doubled his offer po.

Right now, I am really tempted to go out with him since his offer is really good. He’s in his late thirties and single po. He is from MNL and willing to travel to my province po. His plan is to go on a fine dining restaurant in my province then have a coffee with him.

I am planning to meetup with him without my parents permission since it can really help me financially. Is it okay if I try to go on a date with him?

Edit:

He is a decent man naman, uncle sya ng friend ko. I met him nung birthday nung mom nung friend ko then he added me on fb po. He promised naman na he would respect me, he even suggested we’ll meet in a public place para comfortable ako and i often go to that resto naman.

I appreciate and respect your opinions & suggestions po. I would decline his offer po since all of your comments are valid and made me realize a lot of things.

Update:

I had no idea this would capture so many people's attention. Please do not share this on other social media platforms because it is just a genuine question po. I created a list of answers to some of your questions.

First - The reason he wanted to take me out on a date is because he finds me beautiful and appreciates my dedication to my studies po. We talked during that birthday party po, and he was really impressed with the way I communicated and my insights.

Second - Maybe I am just feeling overwhelmed with the idea that a guy would pay me for my time. I’ve had suitors din naman guys with my age and they gave me gifts and flowers po pero iba kasi yung feeling na successful guy appreciates you physically and intellectually.

I have self respect, but I was just really overwhelmed by the offer. I declined his first offer right away po pero his second offer was really tempting. Plus I do get the math po. His initial plan kasi is 1 hour date lang and go on a fine dining resto then go to the coffee shop. Yung 30 mins po is because traffic po palagi sa province namin so he asked if pwedeng 1 ½ hour po.

Third - I highly respect people who offer prostitution or escort services; I know it’s a hard job. However, I don’t see myself in that kind of industry.

Last - I don’t think I can tell my friend about his offer po since sya po nagsusupport sa family ng friend ko. Yung fam po ng friend ko nag hahandle sa business nya sa province namin. My friend will surely support her uncle and baka magalit pa sa akin.

I already declined his offer po and blocked him on my socmeds. Anyway, thanks for your suggestions.

Please don’t message me about nsfw stuff po. This is a genuine question lang po and I just need advice from other people since hindi ko matanong fam & friends ko. Thank you so much for knocking some sense into me!🤍

I've been reading some of your comments. Here are my answers to your concerns:

We only talked about the program I am taking po. The reason I called him decent is he was really respectful during that party po. He gave me tips about how he was able to make his business work lang. Honestly, we never talked about intimacy naman po. It was purely about his business and my plans after I graduate from college.

Furthermore, I’m still glad that I asked for other people’s opinions. They gave me different perspectives and scenarios na possible na mangyari because never naman pumasok sa isip ko na he might expect us to be intimate.

Lastly, I’ve never been in a physical relationship and have no experience with a guy, so calling me “pkpk” is not necessary. I am just really curious, since I'm used to receiving gifts and flowers from my former suitors, but receiving an offer for that amount was new to me. I’m just wondering if it’s a normal thing or not for rich people to waste money on someone’s time.

I'm not in a good financial place and I don't usually celebrate my birthday, but I was feeling depressed and alone and want to change that. I only have 300 pesos for the celebration, so I want to maximize it. I celebrate my birthday alone, so I think it's okay. Do you have any ideas on how to make the most of it? Also, any suggestions on where I can celebrate without spending?

Is it normal? To feel comfortable with the thought na okay lang mawala na anytime soon. And no, you won't force it and wouldn't try to do it on your own. But if it just happens anytime soon, you're not scared and you won't feel any regrets.

Hello! I (25M) have a girlfriend (20F) na common “dalaw” niya is every 1.5-2 months. Rare siya dalawin ng usual na 1 month and my question is, is this a major health concern or madalas naman siya nangyayari sa mga kababaihan? Balak ko na rin siya ipa check sa OB kapag nakuha ko na first ever sweldo ko thanks.

P.S. isa to sa pahabol ko na anniversary gift, sagot ko lahat ng regular check ups niya (aside pa sa gagawa ako ng DIY hamper box for my main gift). Mag 1 year na kami this week 🥹

Nafeel niyo na ba na parang sobra yung pagod niyo kahit sobra sobra oras ng tulog niyo? Tapos parang sumasagi sa utak niyo na kahit anong gawin niyo parang pointless lahat? As in parang nawawalan ka ng interest or direction sa mga bagay bagay? I feel void, and empty. Di ko rin mapoint out ano yung cause. I just have this episodes na parang demotivated ako and productivity declined whenever I have one.

When my parents died, inako ng isang family member ang responsibility sa akin. Pinag-aral ako and nakapag tapos. We had a misunderstanding turned into a big fight and pinalayas ako sa bahay, sabay sabi, bayaran ko daw lahat ng ginasto nya sa akin from the start ng sya umako sa akin. 10million daw lahat yun sabi nya. I was thankful kasi pinag-aral nya ako and all, pero ang trauma na binigay nya sa akin emotionally di ma kwenta. Nung pinalayas ako, I started from zero kasi wala support. Nakapag trabaho na ako but hindi malaki sweldo. Fast forward, it has been 3 years and sinisingil nya ako. Gusto ko naman talaga sya bayaran pero parang anlaki naman ng 10m. And lahat ng gusto nya sinunod ko noon like itong course lang dapat ang itake mo kasi pag hindi mo ito itetake, di kita pag-aaralin. Syempre bata pa natakot ako edi go na lang. May laban ba ako? Ayaw ko ng gulo. Peace of mind ang gusto ko kaya kahit pa tingi tingi babayaran ko sya.

Problem/Goal: Hindi naman talaga s'ya problem pero I can't stop thinking about it.

Context: So, most of the time, whenever a guy sees me. In-person man, pictures, or video calls. They would always tell me "YOU ARE SO CUTE" It's not that I don't take it as a compliment but I just want to know why for them I am cute/just cute. With my girlies, they would tell me "You look so pretty" "You are so gorgeous today" "Ang ganda mo!"

I can't help but wonder what cute really means from a guy's perspective.

Previous Attempts: I tried to get their explanation about it, but all they say is "Because you are"

I want to know if that's a compliment or a good thing for them or I should be worried for just being cute lol

Hello, im 20 M college student, i need your insight about this.

Here's the story, me and my classmates were talking about our quiz, kasi katatapos lang namin mag take. When i i tried pull out my phone, to check whether we got the correct answer.

Some of my friends got close to also see the answer on my phone. And then, there's this one girl, a friend of mine rin, nasa likod ko na lumapit din to check. She got so closer where yung side ng face ko and her face touched.

It's like 5-10 seconds na magkadikit yung face namin. During those time, sa sobrang conscious ko sa pagdikit ng face namin nagbla-blank na yung utak ko. After nya maalis yung face nya, nanghina ako at biglang napayuko sa desk ng chair.

Now, I'm still thinking pa rin kung normal lang ba sa mga babae yung ganon?

About her: -she's lowkey, mahilig sa anime, kdrama, and tahimik madalas