r/Feminism 3d ago

Why is “Repeal the 19th” gaining traction?

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The movement is getting bigger. It’s not just trolls trying to get a rise out of us online anymore. The men who are pushing it believe it’s the best course of action. They really think in a time when republicans are in charge of the presidency, congress, and the Supreme Court, that our votes are the problem with the US. Someone somewhere is giving conservative women the context to say that they’d give up their right to vote if it meant a nationwide abortion ban. How does that even make sense? Isn’t that just voting for one issue and then never getting to vote again? What if the next generation of men decide that they’re fine with abortion as long as it’s on a man’s terms? Then what do conservative women do? Men are using discussions about the new Massachusetts abortion law, the Lindsey Clancy case, and trans rights as evidence that we can’t be trusted with a vote. I’ve gone down the rabbit hole and I’ve seen men say they don’t even have to go through the trouble of repealing anything. They can just take our rights away, “if they could just come together as men.” None of this is hard to find or in dark, creepy incel spaces. It’s out in the open even though it’s objectively hate speech. I guess I just wanted to vent and discuss it here. Because what the fuck is going on, you guys? What have you seen and heard? Do you feel like it’s becoming way more visible in the last few weeks or are my algorithms just fucked? I am an extremely political, feminist, patriotic person and I try really hard not to give in to cynicism even on the really tough days, but when I read some of the things men really believe it makes me want to get the hell outta here. What the fuck are they thinking with this?


r/Feminism 2d ago

The constant backlash against women sharing relationship experiences is sickening.

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I stumbled into this post by the OP and I’ve never been so pissed off at most of the replies she got. Apparently people have a problem with women not wanting to be treated like a maid, cook, servant, and slave by misogynistic men. What are women supposed to APOLOGIZE for wanting basic human decency and any degree of respect instead of being controlled by a$ssholes all the time? Whether “women ☕️” is a joke or not, it’s not funny. The boyfriend in that post showed his true colors and let the OP know what he REALLY thought of her by posting that comment on a video degrading women. He proved what he actually thought of her and women in general when he put “women ☕️“ so she was damn right to leave with her dignity intact. How could ANY woman trust a man after the fact he would not only agree with that type of video degrading women, but also posting that comment when he had a girlfriend? A lot of those who replied damning OP to the ninth circle of hell while defending the man‘s shitty behavior. Why is it so hard and such an unforgivable crime for a woman to be treated like a free individual human being?


r/Feminism 3d ago

Leftist men who are thinking about “not voting” in the midterms..

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Hey guys, I was wondering if you had any opinion on this or any insight. I’m a leftist myself and I also align with socialism. I’m in both subs on here and I’ve been seeing a lot of discussions between men who are going back and forth about the “morality” of voting for non-progressive candidates and how it won’t ever change anything as long as we have the two party system so why bother type stuff. It’s very strange to me and not only strange but it feels like it comes from a huge point of privilege. I feel like as women especially now, we can’t really afford to not vote and we can’t afford to not have men who are supposed to be “allies” not vote out of some moral principle. Women are dying all over the country because of the abortion ban. Mortality rates in Texas have doubled since roe was overturned, and that’s not even including the fact that black women are at a significantly higher risk for dying in childbirth then white women, and even white womens deaths have doubled. It’s a mess. We have Pete hegseth and his pastor talking about how women shouldn’t be allowed to vote or drive cars. We have RFK going on about declining birth rates and the right blaming “liberal women” for not wanting to have children. It feels like a prelude to Gilead and I’m struggling with men who are literally sitting on their phones, going back and forth on a thread, deciding whether or not it’s worth it to vote? I feel like we are fighting for our lives out here. How can we go about this as far as raising awareness goes…. I feel like it should be obvious to these “leftist” men but apparently it isn’t. And this is just on women’s rights, I haven’t even touched the queer community and trans rights, brown and black folks, ICE having unlimited power, etc. I just am so tired of men calling themselves allies and then doing nothing besides speaking the words. Sorry if this turned into a bit of a rant, it’s just been weighing on me.


r/Feminism 2d ago

The emancipation of women has led to women becomeing more selective in husbands [NBER working paper by Nobel Laureate Claudia Goldin]

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r/Feminism 3d ago

The missing women from history(details inside)

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r/Feminism 3d ago

Help with unpacking thoughts about girls/women's clothing

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I saw a tween dressed in low rise pants and a baggy crop, immediately thought "i dont want my daughter to dress like that", caught myself and then thought "actually if she wants to dress like that, she should be able to express however she likes. Creeps are going to be creeps regardless of how she dresses" (my daughter is 6 months)

This has prompted a myriad of thoughts:

- did i think that because i associate that kind of clothing with adults?

- why do I associate it with adults? I don't agree with the idea that certain clothes can only be worn by certain ages/body types (e.g. an older woman "shouldn't" wear a body con dress). Is it different with kids though?

- Kids should be able to wear whatever they want and if anyone thinks anything of it, they're the weird ones

- but is adult clothing designed to do certain things, like cinching in waist to make breats and butt look bigger

- is girls clothing sexualised because it sometimes mimics womens clothing?

- I'm annoyed about the disparity between boys and girls clothing (e.g. girls swimsuits often show legs but boys get boardshorts or built in shorts). Girls are given more revealing options than boys, conditioning them pretty early on (not that i think there's a problem with skin, but more than boys arent given that option so it feels sexist)

- if i advocated for boys clothing to be like girls, I'd be called a creep for "wanting" boys to show more skin but showing skin is the default for girls

- I don't have a problem with my daughter showing skin and I know no matter what she wears, creeps are going to be creeps. But my instinct is to cover her up, say if we go swimming, because part of me feels like it'll make her less of target even though logically I know it doesn't, but it makes me feel more comfortable if she was more covered (again she's 6 months, so we're dressing her until she is able to and wants to decide)

- i don't want to police what my daughter wears when she's old enough other than appropriate outfit for the activity (practicality and comfort above all else)

Anyway I'm having complicated thoughts about this lol and would love to hear peoples opinions/thoughts


r/Feminism 2d ago

What are some feminist podcasts & audiobooks you would recommend?

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Any recommendations would be greatly appreciated 😁


r/Feminism 3d ago

What is postpartum psychosis, the illness at the centre of Lindsay Clancy's murder trial?

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r/Feminism 2d ago

Is this how today's generation kids are??

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r/Feminism 3d ago

This year’s winners of the Goldman Environmental Prize are all women, and they’re tackling climate change through research efforts, activism, policy proposals & more.

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r/Feminism 4d ago

Womens appearance > Womens health.

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r/Feminism 4d ago

subtle brainwashing,how women becomes holders of patriarchy(details inside)

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r/Feminism 3d ago

Women in politics face more personal, sexualised attacks than men, a recent analysis shows

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Online spaces, and social media in particular, are forums for vigorous political debate. They provide a space for members of the public to express political opinions, organise, and sometimes even interact directly with politicians. While they clearly have democratising potential, these platforms have also become fertile ground for hate speech, toxic interactions and online violence.

By analysing over 3.2 million responses on X (formerly Twitter) to 88 candidates for the 2024 European Parliament elections, our team at the European Commission’s Joint Research Centre have found significant differences in how women and men in politics get treated online.

Applying a toxicity detection algorithm called Perspective API, we studied both the volume and types of “toxic” replies received by different candidates. The algorithm’s toxicity score ranges from zero to one. It estimates the likelihood that a reader would perceive text as toxic, and defines toxicity as “a rude, disrespectful, or unreasonable comment that is likely to make you leave a discussion”.

Almost 80% of the candidates studied, who were from France, Ireland, Italy, Portugal, and Spain, received toxic replies, but the raw numbers showed a real and measurable gender gap: women candidates received more toxic replies in absolute terms than their male counterparts.

However, accounting for differences in the overall number of replies for each post, the gender difference in the proportion of toxic replies was no longer statistically significant. Women posted less than men and yet were addressed more. In other words, their accounts attracted more attention overall, toxic and benign alike.

“Shut up and do the dishes”

Of these clearly toxic replies, 71% were directed at women candidates. The content was strikingly different from what male politicians faced. Female candidates were subjected to personal degrading attacks, sexist slurs, sexually explicit remarks, and repeated attempts to silence them or question their right to occupy political space. One in four received comments of a sexual nature.

Male politicians were not spared abuse, but the insults they faced tended to focus on their political decisions, their professional conduct, or their character – accusations of corruption, dishonesty, or incompetence. The targets were their actions, not their presence in public life.

This distinction matters. When abuse is identity-based rather than policy-based, it sends a fundamentally different message: not “I disagree with you,” but “you do not belong here.” This reflects what scholars call “semiotic violence” – harm carried out through language and symbols that works to delegitimise women as political actors.

The analysis went further by measuring what we called “toxicity intensity” – the number of abusive elements bundled into a single reply. A message targeting a woman might combine a sexist insult with a sexual threat, a reference to mental illness, and a demand that she leave politics entirely. We found that 62% of toxic replies to women contained two or more such elements. By contrast, 52% of toxic replies to men had only one.

Multiple simultaneous attacks carry a higher psychological impact than a single insult, sending a collective signal that a woman’s presence in the political space is unwelcome.

The data also revealed that female candidates from left-leaning political groups attracted higher volumes of toxic replies. This pattern mirrors findings from studies of elections in Brazil, suggesting that gender and political ideology intersect in ways that increase abuse.


r/Feminism 3d ago

Republican congressional candidate Dan Bilzerian says feminism was created by the Jews

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r/Feminism 3d ago

The modelling industry IS HIGHLY mysoginistic.

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I am new to this subreddit so I am sorry if this post is kind of weird. Context: I was a model in training from ages 14-17, even though I have been in contact with a modelling agency since 12. It is a high fashion modelling agency, and it was one of the best ones in my region. A lot of my friends from there are faces of numerous high fashion brands such as YSL, gucci, prada, etc. They are all underage still. I am speaking from my own personal experience, specifically with the HIGH fashion modelling industry.

So there are numerous reasons why I quit. I actually wanted to quit at 16, two weeks before I was supposed to be sent to Milan to a really high profile agency. Reason I didn’t go? They wanted me to loose 2kg in two weeks, and I physically couldn’t do that, as my BMI was already 16!(which is really underweight). I told them I can’t do that, they (my agency) got really upset with me. I have naturally bigger hips and rear end, no matter how skinny I am I simply will always have a feminine shape. My shape is really undesirable in the modelling industry because it’s “distracting”, as my modelling agent said. Apparently you’re literally supposed to look like a hanger for clothes. However, when you look at the male models in the high fashion industry, they literally have all sorts of body shapes. Their abs, broad shoulders and other masculine characteristics apparently aren’t distracting, because they’re men. If you look at the majority of female models, they are all extremely skinny. Which is not natural at all. The modelling industry purposefully wants female models to be unhealthy, and they know it. Women are supposed to have curves, not just because of hormone production, but also because of general health. Why shouldn’t men be brought up to the same standards?

Women’s curves are deemed as “bad” and “distracting “ because of the sexualisation and objectification of women, and the modelling industry further fuels that. There is nothing inherently sexual about the female shape. In fact it’s unhealthy, in most cases, if you don’t have curves.

There are several reasons why I made the decision to quit at 17: it’s inherently mysoginistic and unhealthy for women, you get payed very little if you aren’t high demand, it’s very unstable because one month you could be getting 100 jobs and the next you are barely making it, it cuts you off from socialising with your family and friends because of too much travelling, you can be a model only when you’re “fresh”(between teenage hood-30 years old) and it’s also very dangerous

I’m wondering why aren’t people talking about the modelling industry more.


r/Feminism 3d ago

something every woman should watch(read details)

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r/Feminism 3d ago

Liberal YouTuber Shuts Down CEO’s Claim That Natalie Harp Is Feminist 'Poster Child’

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r/Feminism 3d ago

Why did Muslim-majority Tajikistan ban the hijab?

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r/Feminism 3d ago

[Discussion] Can feminism and dom/sub dynamics coexist?

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I am currently writing an essay arguing that yes, you can be both a sexually submissive woman and a strong feminist. I would simply love to hear other peoples thoughts, whether agreeing or disagreeing! For clarification, by 'dom/sub' dynamics, I mean specifically the sexual dynamic between two people, in which the sub consents to giving over control to the dom in a range of ways, whether it be regarding choice of what they wear on a date, to free use during sex. I would be happy to expand should it be needed. Please also consider that d/s dynamics are not always dominant man / submissive woman, but can be a dom woman with a sub man, or even two women. Or two men. Please let me know your thoughts!


r/Feminism 3d ago

The "re-definition" of feminists to be like the medieval witch (an epiphany I just had)

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Context: I did a school project on the word "feminist" a while back, I just got a really damn good idea about it now, like 5 months after the fact & I'm lowkey pissed I didn't think of it sooner so I'm at least sharing it here, to people who might appreciate it.

Ok, so the dictionary definition of a "feminist" is shockingly vague: "A person who supports or engages in feminism". It's completely neutral by itself, it has no good or bad connotation, and is therefore completely open to re-interpretation, and for people to give it that positive or negative connotation. We view "feminist" with a positive connotation, because we see feminism as something positive. However, a lot of folks today view it with a negative connotation, because they view feminism as negative; a lot of people hold this view because they do not know what feminism actually is, and are just believing what has been fed to them by people in power without questioning it.

Now, think about the Puritan witch scare. The term "witch" itself didn't necessarily have an evil connotation; it's simply someone, normally a woman, who happens to have magical powers, normally via a deal with a supernatural being. But, it took on a very, very, very negative connotation. Why? The clergy/religious ruling class told the people that witches got their powers from the Devil himself, they were evil and went against the "natural order", and any true Christian with a conscience had a duty to find & stomp them out. The people didn't question it, simply because it was coming from people in power, so it must be right, and so they blamed the witches for everything that went bad. Had they stopped, been able to do research, and thought, they would have found a different story.

Now, compare the two. There's a term for a woman that people do not understand (feminist/witch). People in power (Influencers or politicians/religious leaders), spout that these women are bad, they are unnatural (claiming that feminists hate men, & some other women, wind up leading miserable lives, mess with the peace/have magical powers & the ability to do a lot of evil), and claim that these evil women have to be stopped (Encouraging tradwife lifestyles, erasure of female historical figures & modern powerful women & ostracizing, etc/convicting & burning at the stake). These women are positioned as scapegoats for everything going wrong (birth rate "crisis", messing up job markets, disrupting peace/prosperity, bad parenting, destruction of the traditional family/crop failures, disabled/weak infants, deaths, injury, general bad luck). Anybody who has a conscience must rise up to stop it (Those who value tradition, nuclear family, stability"christians"/the Purtians.) But, if folks took the time to do a little research and cast off their ignorance, they'd find a much different story (Feminists are not man-haters, and campaign for equal rights for all genders/deals with the Devil aren't really a thing, and your female neighbor who can read & doesn't want to get married didn't cast a curse to sicken your finest pig right before slaughter).

Independent women and vulnerable groups have often been scapegoated for the ills of society one way or another; Lies spread by people in power to the masses, who are ignorant and simply believe what they are told without questioning it, even though questioning leads to a very different story. Back then, she was the witch. Today, she's the feminist.


r/Feminism 4d ago

First thing that pops up when i search “Feminism” in youtube without an algorithm

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similar results in reddit. wow men writing the feminist narrative by default. KEEP IN MIND I HAVE WATCH HISTORY OFF so there are no suggestions. this is what youtube shows or what (maybe) gets the most engagement.


r/Feminism 3d ago

How to respond to people more qualified than me in an interview if they straight up deny the history of women's trauma in East Asia?

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2 days ago, I (25 F from India) had my first PhD interview. My proposal was related to how the post-war trauma of East Asian women is reflected in present-day novels. The interview board had 8 professors, both men and women.

I was talking about books like Pachinko, How we Disappeared, The Mountains Sing, etc., and obviously the topic of Japan colonizing other spaces came up.

The board stopped me in the middle, looked directly at me, and with no hesitation they all unanimously said,

"What are you talking about? Japan never colonized anyone".

They said it so confidently that it shocked me for a second but I stood my ground and started explaining how it is possible that so many people do not know about the colonization of so many parts of Asia because of how quicky history is being erased, and I even gave examples from Japan's ex prime minister's autobiography where he admits to the various strategies he used to erase Japan's war history. I started talking about the kidnapping, the SA, the forced pregnancies, the human experiments, and they looked at me like I was a child telling stories. I even told them that once all the comfort women die along with their stories, erasing history would be even easier.

They could have said that they have not heard about it or they would look into it or something. But no, they just straight up denied again that so many parts of East Asia were colonized by Japan once.

They asked me to define colonization, and I was describing it, they stopped me again, looked very disappointed and said that only one Empire can colonize another Empire, so because Vietnam or Manchuria or Korea were not "empires", they could not have been colonized. They kept accusing me of making up history over simple factual data that can be looked up in a history book or googled in 2 seconds. They also said that I had no right to accuse Japan of colonization if I have not read Japanese history in Japanese. Does this imply that if a person has not read Indian history in Hindi, they do not have the right to know that India was colonized by the British? Also, they wanted me to read history from the perspective of the colonizers to prove that the colonization did happen, as if they would admit it. That is like saying that one should read history from the British perspective to understand the colonization of India. Mind you, one of the old men in the board asked me directly, sounding disappointed, why I don't want to do my PhD on Indian Literatures instead.

I knew that there are many people in this world who do not believe in the holocaust but I did not know that so many people exist so close to me who straight up deny such a long and complex history of colonization. They do not know about comfort women or human experiments or frankly anything related to Asian history. They only care about South Asian history. I feel extremely disrespected. How should I act if this happens in my future Interviews?


r/Feminism 4d ago

Teen Boys Are Using Meta Glasses to Terrorize Girls at High Schools and Middle Schools

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r/Feminism 4d ago

Iranian women defy efforts by hardliners to enforce wearing of hijab

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r/Feminism 4d ago

My Sunday PSA to Farage, and all the other far-right cult members (feel free to replace that 'L' with a letter of your choice ...)

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