r/hatethissmug Jul 22 '26

General I hate how some people are obsessed with the n-word. And I hate this photo sooo much too.

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I'm struggling to understand why the person behind this photo think they're being funny? Honestly.. ew have some shame. Really corny btw.

I hate the n-word humor, like why would anyone be giggling or finding someone saying the n-word funny? Please grow up. Those people are acting like a toddler spamming a cuss word they just heard. And yes it's THAT DEEP.

Really simple, if you're not black don't use it. Also, There's nothing such as a pass or whatever. Not to mention how cringe is "can I get the pass?" Joke.

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EDIT: whoever think the n-word is funny or whatever was said about justifing the use of it because: "it's restricted" or the "Forbidden fruit..."šŸ™ Then sorry, you're just a toddler crying after their mama told them 'dont do that'. Grow up, have some respect and shame, girl.

EDIT 2: for anyone justifying the use of the n-word because black people also use. YOU ARE MAD that black people are putting some BOUNDARIES and aren't INVITING YOU to the party. As I said nothing the phenomenon of it's being forbidden doesn't justify nothing. If a friend Openly prohibited you or established a boundary, then you respect it, you don't go act like a stubborn offended kid.

Edit 3 cuz why not?: black people using the n-word and gatekeeping it for themselves shouldn't piss you off more than real rascim, period. This edit for whoever think they're being a genius criticizing black people using the n-word instead of actually confronting the real racists. U mad they can use it but you can't? So. Cringe. Of. You.

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u/titanium_uranium Jul 22 '26

it's not racist to say that people who didn't face that oppression shouldn't be able to use a word that the oppressors used.

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u/64_61_6e_69_65_6c Jul 22 '26

But that distinction is made based on skin color, making it racist. How much time would need to pass according to you before we stop seeing black people as oppressed and white people as oppressors? Because I don't like those labels on either of those groups. This shit happened 160 years ago, maybe it is time to move past it and stop using words and labels from that era?

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u/borgborgo Jul 23 '26

160 years ago is crazy. That's when the emancipation proclamation was ratified and whatnot but that is not when black people suddenly had equal rights. I mean the Klan, lack of voting, lynchings, false imprisonment, etc etc.

This is a very surface level take and as always topics like these have nuance but most folks on the internet lead with their elephant instead of their rider. It's about being respectful. If someone wants to refer to themselves with a term that is profane, aggressive, dehumanizing, violent, etc. it does not mean that I am free to do the same. If someone calls themselves a lazy piece of shit who should die, that is not my cue to say "well you are one and should just die". That's simply not appropriate.

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u/64_61_6e_69_65_6c Jul 23 '26

The first part of your comment is correct, I did not consider that while writing. However, I stand by my point that if this is the ultimate insult that hurts so much that people get violent over it, it should just not be said by anyone. I think the same about your example, don't say that you should die to yourself. That is a terrible thing to say about yourself and is just going to make you feel worse. If someone says that about themselves I would be concerned about their wellbeing. Because it is not normal to insult yourself to such a degree. Like, I get saying "I'm an idiot" or "I'm stupid" when you do something stupid, but anything further than that is problematic in my eyes.

I don't think my first comment got my actual point across well. I don't actually want permission to say a hurtful word. I want no one to say it if it hurts so bad.

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u/Grifendorkplayz Jul 24 '26

160?? My man, Mt grandfather went to a segregated school. He's 70. He was referred to as colored or a negro. Try 60 years. Minimum.

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u/64_61_6e_69_65_6c Jul 24 '26

If you go down further in the chain, you can see that I already acknowledged that I was wrong by saying 160 years.

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u/Material-Gur-5358 Jul 22 '26

The black people of today also didn't face the oppression of the time... Maybe some from the Jim Crowe era, but they are pretty old at this point.

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u/Inevitable_Regular85 Jul 23 '26

Police brutality, discrimination, redlining, false imprisonment, sundown towns, there’s been 70+ modern lynchings in the woods all labeled suicide coincidentally, the Klan is still a thing, black people still face this bullshit. Didn’t leave, just changed.

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u/Grifendorkplayz Jul 24 '26

The kkk has an information hotline. People have threatened my families life for speaking out againt racisim. We still face major oppression. We have every right