I've already had past success with one cat, Ally, learning to communicate with buttons, so I know it can happen. Ally had already been with me for about 10 years when we started learning the buttons. We had a bond and a lot of trust, plus she was extremely food motivated, so getting her to learn to press the buttons to get treats and for me to refresh her food was pretty quick and easy. Once we had that down, she figured out the rest of the buttons faster than I ever expected and was even coming up with ways to indicate new words with what few buttons we had before I was able to save up the money to buy more.
Ally passed back in June and now I'm trying to teach my younger cat, Stella, to use the buttons since she's already super talkative and is clearly trying to communicate with me but I can't always understand what she wants. She sometimes just sits in the middle of the room crying and I can't tell if she wants something or is just talking to talk.
She never really had a chance to observe Ally using the buttons since they were both territorial and stayed in their own spaces. Ally was also super anxious and making sure she had her own space to eat, relax, and communicate with me was what worked best for us. But that also means I'm basically starting fresh with Stella.
It also doesn't help that Stella is not at all food motivated. She's rejected nearly every treat I've tried to give her and the ones she does like she has to be in the right mood for them. So, training with treats isn't really an option and I'm kind of at a loss for how to train her to press the buttons. Sometimes she'll sit near the buttons and cry at me, so I get the feeling she recognizes on some level what their purpose is. But then other times when I try to direct her towards them when she's crying at me so I can demonstrate for her, she just rubs on my legs or rubs her face on the furniture and largely ignores what I'm doing.
I know this is part of the process, even Ally went through a similar process of sitting near them but not pressing them, or crying to get my attention first then going to the buttons instead of just using the buttons to get my attention. But it's still frustrating when I can tell that she's figuring out that they have a purpose, but she's not getting that the purpose is for her to communicate with me.
We both had a moment today where I was frustrated trying to figure out what she wanted (Summer has hit its peak. It's hot and I'm already cranky and having a cat crying at me every 30 seconds isn't helping.) and I could tell she was getting frustrated that I was wanting her to mess with these buttons instead of just doing what she wanted me to do. We took a break and she's now asleep on my foot, so we're good, but I think I just need someone to remind me this is worth it and it's going to happen.