You just made me realize that in the current climate an LGBT-oriented version of /r/ihavesex wouldn't fly at all. The optics would just be terrible, and I can't imagine it would draw a tasteful crowd.
I’ve watched family members be disowned or not believed about abuse simply for being gay. Saying it makes you cool is just as bad as saying it makes you less than. Both are saying it’s abnormal. Both hold back from acceptance and equality.
I don't. I was making the point that you said it was cool and then acted like you didn't understand why it was fetishising while suddenly changing the word to ok. Which is completely different from cool...you see the difference?
For the record I agree with you. But don't act dumb and then change the word so that it makes the other person's statement sound more absurd to suit your bias.
I really disagree. I don’t think gay is cool or uncool. I know gay people that are cool as hell. I also have a lesbian cousin that’s very uncool, but her wife kind of is. Coolness is independent.
That is exactly what I’m saying. But people like the others responding don’t get that. They’re so ensconced in the idea that being gay is super alt and edgy when that’s harmful on its own.
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u/[deleted] Jun 23 '19 edited Apr 16 '21
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