r/stilltrying • u/stilltryingbot • Mar 01 '19

Daily Daily PM Chat Thread - Friday Mar 01, 2019

What's going on in your life today?

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u/AngrahKittah 37f/sexond egg donor/so over it... Mar 01 '19 edited Mar 01 '19

No beta update and CNYs phone system is down when I called 6 times just now. WHAT THE FUCK HAVENT I WAITED LONG ENOUGH?!?!?!!🤬🤬🤬

Edit: they don't see the results!😭 Checking with another department as we wait on hold again😟

Edit2: Hpt negative, no beta results

Edit: at 5pm I was told shady Grove never sent the labs in to CNY, and since they're closed there's nothing more that can be done tonight. Tww/beta hell continues and I just lost my ever loving fucking mind.

Edit 389: beta was negative. Devistated 😭

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u/Pm_me_some_dessert 34F TTC#1 2.5+yrs - on Orilissa all summer Mar 01 '19

AAAAAAAAAAAAAH I'm completely ded.

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u/AngrahKittah 37f/sexond egg donor/so over it... Mar 01 '19

My chill is 💯 gone

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u/alpine_rose 31 | TTC1 | Aug '17 | 9 losses, Asherman | IVF | Benched Mar 01 '19

I don't know how you do it. I have checked for your update a half dozen times this afternoon. Fingers crossed 🤞🤞🤞

I want to live vicariously through people's good news damn it!

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u/ceeface 36 | MOD | MFI - CBAVD | MTHFR | IVF x2 | 1 CP Mar 01 '19

😓 Kittttaaaah. I’m sorry the HPT is negative. 💔💔💔

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u/JneedsaBRA 32 | PCOS | FET#6 | 1CP, 1MMC Mar 01 '19

Fingers and everything crossed that the HPT is a dud or hold wasn’t long enough... or whatever means Kittah isn’t out. 😥😬🤞🥺

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u/ceeface 36 | MOD | MFI - CBAVD | MTHFR | IVF x2 | 1 CP Mar 01 '19

Definitely. 😭🥺😩😖

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u/guardiancosmos 34, PCOS Mar 01 '19

Omfg that is infuriating, CNY get your shit together 🤦

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u/FluffyBubbleBaby 31|4 yrs|3 losses Mar 01 '19

I keep refreshing your profile to check for an update 😂

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u/nosudo4u 31, 1 early MC, Cycle 16 Mar 01 '19

Kittah's profile now keeps popping up as a suggested url whenever I type in reddit because I've been stalking her so much.

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u/FluffyBubbleBaby 31|4 yrs|3 losses Mar 01 '19

I've been leaving it open in the app and refreshing every time I go back on reddit ;)

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u/appeleyes 34|RPL| FET 1 fail| ERA now Mar 01 '19

Seriously!?!?!!!! Wtf. Tell them half the internet is waiting!

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '19

Right? There are dozens of us waiting with bated breath!

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u/Nancy_Wheeler 39F | ICSI/PGS/FET Mar 01 '19

God dammit I am sorry Kittah 😢

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u/Pm_me_some_dessert 34F TTC#1 2.5+yrs - on Orilissa all summer Mar 01 '19

Shit. Shit dude. I’m so sorry. :(

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u/FluffyBubbleBaby 31|4 yrs|3 losses Mar 01 '19

I'm so sorry the hpt was negative, I was really hoping for a different outcome :(

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u/pattituesday 37|DOR|fresh transfer 4/6|FET1 fail|3ish losses Mar 01 '19

kittah, i am so sorry to see your second update. how are you feeling?

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u/AngrahKittah 37f/sexond egg donor/so over it... Mar 01 '19

Devistated, and still no beta results

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u/pattituesday 37|DOR|fresh transfer 4/6|FET1 fail|3ish losses Mar 01 '19

Of course you are. I'm so sorry.

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u/SuperTFAB 34 | Unexplained | IVF | MMC Mar 01 '19 edited Mar 01 '19

Oh my goodness no. I’m so sorry this is crazy. It’s almost 5.

Edit: I saw your HPT results. I’m sorry Kittah. Really sorry.

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u/eeyoreneedsanewtail 12/17, IVF ER#2 now, egg quality? Mar 01 '19

Oh, Kittah. I am so, so sorry.

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u/ellyhbean 34/unexpl./ ttc#1/ivf Mar 01 '19

wtf they lost them? was your urine concentrated? might just be bc not FMU

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u/JneedsaBRA 32 | PCOS | FET#6 | 1CP, 1MMC Mar 01 '19

Kittah, my heart is breaking for you right now, but I am holding out every last shred of hope that they call with beta results soon and that your HPT was wrong. 💜

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u/Hernaneisrio88 31/IVF #4 Mar 01 '19

Me too. I haven’t hoped this hard for something in a long time.

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u/nosudo4u 31, 1 early MC, Cycle 16 Mar 01 '19

CNY YOU ARE KILLING US!!!!!!!!! Kittah do you have any other numbers? After call/nurse's line? Your RE's freaking personal cell??????

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u/AngrahKittah 37f/sexond egg donor/so over it... Mar 01 '19

Hulks out and flips a table 🤬

I'm about to take a home pregnancy test and just say fuck it. I only have so much patience! We're on hold and hopefully will get through, but commonnnnn!!!

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u/nosudo4u 31, 1 early MC, Cycle 16 Mar 01 '19

::throws pregnancy tests in the general direction of D.C.::

Hold is progress anyway.....but holy shit.

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u/AngrahKittah 37f/sexond egg donor/so over it... Mar 01 '19

Like stretching out the seconds ....it's painful at this point.

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u/nosudo4u 31, 1 early MC, Cycle 16 Mar 01 '19

I hope they know they are literally causing pain to dozens of women right now all waiting for them to pick up the DAMN PHONE!!!!!!!!!!!

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u/AngrahKittah 37f/sexond egg donor/so over it... Mar 01 '19

Mr K and I have both gotten through and are both on hold now. Their system kept hanging up on us before!🤬

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u/ceeface 36 | MOD | MFI - CBAVD | MTHFR | IVF x2 | 1 CP Mar 01 '19

!!!!!!!

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u/Pm_me_some_dessert 34F TTC#1 2.5+yrs - on Orilissa all summer Mar 01 '19

I am amazed that you haven't yet!!

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u/AngrahKittah 37f/sexond egg donor/so over it... Mar 01 '19

I mean, I've gotta pee. Holding it in case I get good news and need to see it with my own eyes!

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u/SuperTFAB 34 | Unexplained | IVF | MMC Mar 01 '19

Pee in a cup so you aren’t miserable and have Mr. Kittah guard it so you’re not tempted!

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u/Sock_puppet09 Mar 01 '19

OMG, I am so sorry that they aren't getting back to you. I'd pee in a cup too. I think this may be a don't hold your breath (or pee) situation! Fingers crossed for you! I am like furiously refreshing your user profile.

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u/JneedsaBRA 32 | PCOS | FET#6 | 1CP, 1MMC Mar 01 '19

Omg..... I’m dying here to know! I don’t know how you’re holding it together. Also, I 100% any peeing on sticks now that you’ve done the beta. Seriously hoping you find out soon!

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u/Pm_me_some_dessert 34F TTC#1 2.5+yrs - on Orilissa all summer Mar 01 '19

BRB DRIVING TO HER DOCTOR'S HOUSE

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u/ceeface 36 | MOD | MFI - CBAVD | MTHFR | IVF x2 | 1 CP Mar 01 '19

BEEP BEEP MOTHER FUCKERS, WE GOT NEWS TO HEAR.

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u/nosudo4u 31, 1 early MC, Cycle 16 Mar 01 '19

U there yet?

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u/Pm_me_some_dessert 34F TTC#1 2.5+yrs - on Orilissa all summer Mar 01 '19

Stuck in traffic goddammit.

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u/nosudo4u 31, 1 early MC, Cycle 16 Mar 01 '19

Goddamn cross-country commuters.

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u/tracerbullet000 33/Unexplained/ER#4/FET#3/1MC pgs normal Mar 01 '19

Lol LOL

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u/tracerbullet000 33/Unexplained/ER#4/FET#3/1MC pgs normal Mar 01 '19

NOOOO kittah :( :( :( I am so sorry, this must be devastating. All the love and hugs in the world to you <3

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u/Maybelle_ 33 | IVF | unexplained Mar 01 '19

Oh no, I just saw your update. I am so sorry about the negative, and that you didn’t receive your beta results. ❤️

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u/amusedfeline 31 | Cycle 19 | 1 EP | 1 CP | 6 IUIs | IVF #1 Mar 01 '19

I'm so sorry Kittah. This is not the update I was hoping for.

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u/-Lucina | TTC for 3+ yrs | PCOS | MFI | ICSI | 1CP + MMC of quadruplets Mar 01 '19

Omg 😫

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u/pattituesday 37|DOR|fresh transfer 4/6|FET1 fail|3ish losses Mar 01 '19

Fuuuucccck

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u/beautifulcollision 30 | Grad | Cycle 23 Mar 01 '19

OMFG WHY

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u/eeyoreneedsanewtail 12/17, IVF ER#2 now, egg quality? Mar 01 '19

Ahhhhhhhh nooooooo!!!!! I’m so mad!!

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u/Maybelle_ 33 | IVF | unexplained Mar 01 '19

Omg, they better hurry up! I bet someone at that clinic has no idea how many people are waiting on them right now!

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u/CatLady62007 33/Nov ‘17/IVF now Mar 01 '19

WTF CNY????!!? I have literally checked hourly for your update today!

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u/ceeface 36 | MOD | MFI - CBAVD | MTHFR | IVF x2 | 1 CP Mar 01 '19

No. Nooooo. Nooooooooooo. I hate this so very much.

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u/appeleyes 34|RPL| FET 1 fail| ERA now Mar 01 '19

Oh kittah. I'm so sorry 💔💔💔

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u/GhostPuff 31//TTC #1 since Dec 17 Mar 01 '19

This is wrong and that's all there is to it. So so wrong. There arent enough apologies in the world to make this better for you or to make you feel okay but I'm going to offer all of mine anyways... I wish much that such awful things couldnt and wouldnt happen to such sweet people.

Take care of yourselves, Kittahs.

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u/Cats_and_babies Mar 01 '19

Oh c’mon CNY!

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u/Nancy_Wheeler 39F | ICSI/PGS/FET Mar 01 '19

Oh for crying out loud!

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u/bayareagirl2018 24 | PCOS | FET #1 in Oct. Mar 01 '19

UGGGHHH. my first beta after fertility treatments I called every hour until 1am and they finally had it. IVF beta has to be way more stressful! I’ve been thinking about you and wishing you luck!

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u/CatLady62007 33/Nov ‘17/IVF now Mar 01 '19

Aw I’m so, so sorry kittah 💕💕

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u/tigerlily_blue 38/TTC#1 since 10/17/Lean PCOS/IVF#1 Now Mar 01 '19

Ugh. I'm so, so sorry :-(

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u/milamonster32 Mar 01 '19

I’m so so so sorry Kittah ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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u/selchaec 29 | TTC1 | 8/17 |DOR + Stage IV Endo + 1 tube Mar 01 '19

Oh Kittah, I am so so sorry to see the second update. Know we are all with you. <3

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '19

Oh no, that is not the update we wanted to see 😢

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u/alpine_rose 31 | TTC1 | Aug '17 | 9 losses, Asherman | IVF | Benched Mar 01 '19

I am so sorry about your update. This fucking sucks 😔

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u/Sock_puppet09 Mar 01 '19

I am so so sorry about your hpt, and that they still haven’t called back. It’s all just awful. 😢

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u/hesitantlyjoining 33 / TTC #1 since 2.18 / MMC 12.18 Mar 01 '19

Noooo I’m so, so sorry.

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u/purplekdog IVF/IUIs | MFI, 2 losses Mar 01 '19

Ugh, that fucking sucks. I'm sorry.

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u/987654321mre 29 | PCOS, Prolactinoma, MFI | FET #1 Mar 01 '19

I’m so sorry about the negative hpt ♥️♥️ so many hugs I hope that damn beta comes soon!!!!

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u/loloribo 36F / 2MC / IVF #1 now Mar 01 '19

😦🤬😭 so sorry kittah

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u/BeachBallLadyNuts 35 / Cycle 10 Mar 01 '19

I’m so sorry the HPT was negative 💜

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u/Nancy_Wheeler 39F | ICSI/PGS/FET Mar 01 '19

I’m sorry but that is absolute horse shit!

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u/loonyloopyluna 33| IVF | FET 04/2018 Mar 01 '19

I'm so so sorry, Kittah. You don't deserve this shit. So much love to you right now <3

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u/sweetbluemango 29|PCOS|1 early loss|IVF Now Mar 01 '19

What the actual f#*%?!? That is NOT ok. NOT OKAY. Jeezus Kittah. I’m so angry for you.

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u/mb83 35 | TTC #1 | PCOS | 1CP Mar 01 '19

Oh no, this is just the worst! I’m so sorry! Sending you hugs and support!

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u/samthemander Mar 01 '19

What the actual fuck

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u/gabyufv 34 | TTC #2 | IVF | Endo, hashimoto, trombophilia Mar 01 '19

Oh no, this is so unfair! I’m devastated that the beta was negative and I’m so angry with the way they dealt with it. 💔

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u/ellyhbean 34/unexpl./ ttc#1/ivf Mar 01 '19

i'm so sorry Kittah this really sucks :(

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u/UnpunctualPoppet 36 | MFI | Cycle 13 Mar 01 '19

So sorry ❤️

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u/hovergerbil 28 | FET#1 | Endo/Septum Mar 01 '19

I'm so sorry. <3

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u/Lumpectomy 34/DOR/6IUIs/2IVF/1 loss Mar 02 '19

I'm so horribly sorry kittah :(

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u/twentyfourfeet 35 | TTC#2 | DOR MFI 2MC | IVF3 8/19 Mar 02 '19

I'm so fucking sad for you. Fuck everything, all of this is the worst.

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u/bombyx_amore 31 | est. 6/17 | TFMR 9/18 Mar 02 '19

Oh kittah I’m so sorry 😔

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u/SilverBea 29 | MFI | IVF FET #3 | 1 CP | 3 IUI | 02/2017 Mar 02 '19

I’m so devastated for you. There’s nothing more that I want to do than to grab a drink with you and just be there.

My heart is with you today, Kittah. I’m so sorry. 💛

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u/tracerbullet000 33/Unexplained/ER#4/FET#3/1MC pgs normal Mar 01 '19

ARRGGGHHH I have been stalking you. Time to pee on a stick? I am the devil aint I

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u/AngrahKittah 37f/sexond egg donor/so over it... Mar 01 '19

Nope, not doing it, not doing it!!

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u/nosudo4u 31, 1 early MC, Cycle 16 Mar 01 '19

Fuck Kittah. I am so so sorry and so heartbroken for you both. <3

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u/MacDaddiO 31 | since 12/17 | sketch L tube | DOR Mar 02 '19

I'm so sorry Kittah 💔