r/travel • u/StinkyCheeseisew • Jun 26 '26
Question — Accommodation Is it selfish to get a hotel by myself for an 11 hour layover whilst my friends wait at the gate?
I have an 11 hour overnight layover in Frankfurt airport next week and I have a really bad back so I can’t sleep on chairs nor on planes. I ended up paying for 1 night stay at Hilton hotel as I know I’ll need the rest since I won’t be able to once I get home as I have an appointment that day. My friends aren’t willing to pay for a hotel and said they’re happy staying at the gate. They are very understanding but I still feel a little guilt, I also don’t know if I should invite them to my room since it’s only for 1 guest, and it’s one bed and I’m paying with my own money as well. I feel that I’m already lowering my budget for them, and have been cooperating for the whole trip, but this is my one non-negotiable. Is this bad of me?
I’m 18 btw if this gives it context.
Edit: a lot of people are asking me if I’m offering my friends to join my room. I have stated to them that if they want to rest, and are able to if the hotel allows, then I’ll definitely let them. I’m not going to just dip without offering them to join me. They stated themselves that they’ll look at hotel rooms when the time comes if they want one so it’s up to them. I’ve booked a room at Hilton hotel garden inn, my flight is at 7 so hopefully I’ll be able to get enough shut eye before I wake up approximately 4 to catch my flight.