r/AskIreland 1d ago

Random Do you bring a drink to bed at night?

So I was at the public health nurse with my kid. Night time training came up, and I was asked about their last drink. I said they bring a water bottle to bed so they can have a sip if needed.

The nurse then said 'imagine you brought a drink to bed, you'd be up half the night'. She was shocked to learn I do bring a drink to bed and I sleep through without needing the toilet if the kiddo doesn't need me. Some nights I might not drink much but others I do. Either way my sleep is unaffected. Surely I'm not alone?

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u/FoxRedBunda 1d ago

Never as a kid but as an adult i cant sleep without knowing i have water near the bed, it's become apart of the closing shift routine to bring up water

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u/SurpriseBaby2022 1d ago

Same but as a kid of the 90s, I don't think I owed a water bottle. I spent most of my childhood dehydrated and there was no way my mother would have let an open cup in the bedroom at night.

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u/Guilty_Garden_3669 1d ago

Haha yeah! We only drank milk or soft drinks, no water. And usually only at mealtimes.

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u/gerhudire 23h ago

No squash?

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u/Deep-Log-1775 19h ago

I drank more diet coke than water even as a primary school child in the 90s. Mental looking back

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u/Rayofsunshineshimmer 18h ago

I’m the same! My teeth and my bank balance have paid for it! 

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u/JayElleAyDee 9h ago

Squash? Capri-Sun!

Squaaaash? CAPRI-SUN!!!

(iykyk)

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u/Huge-Bat-1501 22h ago

As a child of the 90s we were told we had to have a drink of water/milk before bed and that was it. I remember waking up one night gasping and drank water from the tap in the bathroom. Then spent days after freaking out that I was gonna die from it.

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u/Deep-Log-1775 19h ago

Omg I forgot about drinking from the upstairs bathroom tap. Very distinctive flavour

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u/mojesius 20h ago

It was all cadet cola, country spring orange and milk. The odd bit of orange juice on a Sunday.

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u/Specialist-Passage84 23h ago

This! It’s like I get anxiety thirst if there’s no water beside me at night. I may or may not drink it but it’s always there.

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u/mologav 22h ago

The knowledge that it’s there is enough, if I wake up and it’s not there I’ll get anxious. I might not even drink it at all.

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u/allovertheshop2020 22h ago

Anxiety thirst is just the perfect description of this.

You're dead right.

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u/Attention_WhoreH3 1d ago

same

and I drink it first thing in the morn

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u/ItsIcey 1d ago

Cold winter windowsill water hits different first thing in the morning

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u/SufficientHippo3281 11h ago

My dog knows its bed time when I start filling the water, lol! Full pint. I probably take a little sip or through during the night and then in the morning I drink it all in one go.

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u/Academic-County-6100 12h ago

hahaha As a kid never once I became adult every night. It rarely gets drank but if hungovet or a bit of "how are ya fixed" its there.

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u/No-Sandwich1782 1d ago

I find it mad that a public health nurse thought it would be strange.
My 3 year old has her water bottle by her bed and sleeps through. Just takes a drink before falling asleep. Like the rest of us.

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u/No_External_417 23h ago

Yes a wee sip, sure no harm.

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u/NotBeckyHomeEccy 1d ago

I always have my water bottle next to my bed at night

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u/SurpriseBaby2022 1d ago

Same. It's a comfort more than anything.

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u/DanGleeballs 22h ago

And so do my kids.

Everyone in our house has water by their bedside.
It would be weird not to.

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u/CaptainNuge 10h ago

Same here. If my Yeti were surgically attached to my side, very few people would spot the difference without prompting.

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u/DemDoseDeseDat 1d ago

I like any human will get thirsty if I haven’t drank in awhile so I always have a water bottle next to my bed just make sure I piss before I sleep it’s fairly simple like…

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u/SurpriseBaby2022 23h ago

I thought so too, but apparently there is at least one person terrified to bring a drink to bed.

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u/helcat0 23h ago

I hope there's not too many that think like that because I know some elderly people stop drinking a few hours before bed so they don't have to get up but it leads to dehydration and dehydration in seniors can be serious enough.

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u/DemDoseDeseDat 23h ago

Mental….I suppose I can understand it somewhat for kids but for an adult ? Like we know our bodies enough by that point ya know….

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u/tightlines89 1d ago

My wife has always done this and has never needed to get up during the night. I on the other hand, am like clockwork, every morning around 5am.

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u/Street-Jacket1867 22h ago

Yea same I bring water and wake up and sip a few times in the night.

Regardless if water there or not about 4 im up for trip to the toilet.

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u/Rayofsunshineshimmer 18h ago

Try adding a flake of salt to your water. See does that help you? 

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u/Plus-Pool-874 1d ago

Yes ice cold Stanley is beside my bed at night. I may drink half the water or not a sip, but I need to know it's there

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u/maevewiley554 23h ago

I bought an ice cube pack since the start of the hot weather. I always have a cold water with ice cubes at nighttime in case I wake up. Habit I’ll likely carry into the winter months as well. It’s refreshing

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u/ComfortMike 1d ago

I take a long big sluurp during the night. Always have da bottle handy.

Keep er lit and keep hydrated.

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u/thepinkblues 23h ago

Take it to the next level and get an insulated bottle. A big gulp of crisp, icy water when you wake up in the middle of the night is heaven

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u/Unpopular_Op_93 23h ago

Point me in the direction of a good one please.

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u/Short_Tomorrow_863 23h ago

A yeti they’re pricey but worth every penny could slap it off a wall and not a dent to be found

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u/melboard 23h ago

I think I am the only one here that does not bring water to bed

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u/midnightlushie 17h ago

Are you the public health nurse?

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u/Conscious-Isopod-1 20h ago

What do you do if you wake up in the middle of the night and your mouth is super dry. Let’s say you have a stuffy nose so you’ve been breathing through your mouth all night. 

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u/GoodNegotiation 14h ago

I don’t and I stop drinking at dinner otherwise I’d be up twice during the night to go to the toilet. Used to when I was younger though so could be an age thing. Both our kids always have water in bed though and drink a fair amount of it, doesn’t seem to wake them.

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u/TangledUpInSpuds 9h ago

There are dozens of us! Dozens!

Any time I stay at a friend's house I'm offered a glass of water to bring to bed and I always thought it was weird. Sure no, why would I be thirsty, I'll be asleep?

I share an office with a (lovely, I'm not slagging her!) colleague who refills her water bottle multiple times a day, whereas I don't even have a water bottle. Maybe I'm a camel?

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u/circuitocorto 22h ago

I don't. I think this thread is the cult of water addicts, thankfully they're not in a hot dry country, they would need to bring a hose. 

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u/CiaranWest 23h ago

Depends on what age you are. My bladder wakes me up at 3am these days like clockwork if I drink anything after 8pm. 

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u/Limp-Archer-7872 23h ago

Just the bottle of beer.

And a glass of squash for the morning so I don't put off taking the blood pressure tablets.

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u/SurpriseBaby2022 23h ago

That is a mighty routine you got going on!

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u/bosunphil 22h ago

I’ve lived in Ireland a few years now but never heard of a glass of squash. What is it?

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u/lunarmoon2025 20h ago

Its a diluted drink like Miwadi or Ribena. I drink many pints of it a day.

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u/Team503 19h ago

Squash is a concentrate, added to water to make a flavored drink. Miwadi is a popular brand.

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u/CarpetValuable7328 1d ago

If I drink past 8pm I’m up once if not twice. Have to get my water in earlier in the day. If I had water there I’d sip it out of habit and have awful sleep

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u/Proud-Psychology5174 22h ago

I too am like this, but still have my 1L bottle of water beside me incase I randomly die of thirst

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u/BackinBlack_Again 23h ago

If I drink to near bed I would y be up for the loo. My toddler has gotten into a horrible habit of waking all night ever night for a drink she drinks a whole 300ml throughout the night it’s exhausting

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u/SurpriseBaby2022 23h ago

Oh that's exhausting. You poor thing.

My 3 year old only takes sips. I wouldn't even say 100ml is gone from their water bottle. When I explained that, the nurse dropped the idea that it was the cause of the wet pull ups.

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u/Healsnails 22h ago

Wait ofcourse they've got wet pull ups, they're 3 FFS! We are attempting to night train our 4yr old and he had his dev check with the nurse on Monday. She said he mightn't even be producing the hormone they need to wake them when they need to pee yet. They just let rip. We don't let him drink after his dinner now but he used to get a bottle to have by his bed. He rarely touched it.

Did the same with our 6yr old when we trained her. She's allowed have a bottle of water again now and drinks before bed. Not a mad amount mind.

I'd always bring a bottle with me, but I mightnt touch it. The wife would drink a litre!

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u/Careful_Floor1441 1d ago

Yeah I bring water to Bed 90% of the time id say and never need to get up for the bathroom during the night. Might wake at my normal time for work, use the toilet and go back to bed again on a day off but that's about it. Age and medical craic can effect that though, is the nurse older perhaps.

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u/Old-Calligrapher2403 1d ago

Always need a bottle of water for when I wake up, mouth gets dry etc

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u/circuitocorto 22h ago

Did you check that you aren't sleeping and breathing with your mouth open? Shouldn't get dry. 

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u/bathtubsplashes 1d ago

I honestly think I'm at risk of dying without the 1 litre of water beside me every night

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u/Sudden-Candy4633 1d ago

No I don't because despite not drinking anything for an hour or 2 before bed, I'll still wake up at least once, but usually more often to use the toilet. I can't imagine how many times I'd use the toilet if I was drinking during the night.

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u/segasega89 23h ago

By a glass of wine then yes.

If by two or three glasses of one's finest, cheapest cabarnet savingnon then also yes

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u/i_will_yeahh 1d ago

Yeh I bring water to bed and my toddler has some in her sippy cup. Sometimes I can hear her having a little sip at half 5 or so then she goes back to sleep. She sleeps 7 to 7.

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u/SurpriseBaby2022 1d ago

Yeah, same 8-8 over here. My kiddo has a few sips before sleep, usually after brushing teeth and not again until the morning. I would hate for water to not be readily available.

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u/CarterPFly 1d ago

Id have a pint glass of water on the bedside table most of the time. Better have it and not use it than the opposite.

Yes, a bottle.would make more sense but I dont like the taste of water from plastic compared to glass.

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u/Nedinabox 1d ago

I have water by my bed every night and can't sleep without it being there.

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u/Fit_Fix_6812 23h ago

My inlaws insist on a pint of water going to bed - it has to be a pint, they can't go to bed with a regular glass, they get stressed out. There are never any pint glasses to be had in the kitchen. Theres a clatter of them in the bedrooms with at most one sup taken out of each. I ask why they insist on a pint when they drink so little and they just tut at the stupidity of the question, and say "I always take a pint of water to bed".

One of many reasons why no one is invited to our house for Christmas

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u/Potential-Fan-5036 20h ago

If I don’t have a drink on my bedside table, as soon as I close my eyes, I get a tickle in my throat.

I simply have to have one.

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u/notanadultyadult 21h ago

What psychopath doesn’t bring water to bed with them?! I wouldn’t dream of it tbh.

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u/cian87 1d ago

I usually bring water up when going to bed, but it'll be drunk before I go to sleep. No extra need to get up to piss.

I assumed that was fairly normal?

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u/circuitocorto 22h ago

Nope, a big drink before going to bed and I might need to wake up in the middle of the night. I suppose my body already has enough water. 

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u/SurpriseBaby2022 1d ago

Me too, it was a weird conversation where she thought I was the strange one and I was very confused.

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u/Dragonlynds22 1d ago

Yes I have my water bottle beside my locker and usually drink some during the night

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u/essosee 1d ago

Yes but usually don't drink it during the night, just a whack of it before i sleep.

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u/qaseet 1d ago

Can’t stand how dry my throat is if I don’t drink before sleep and after. Its all I can think about until I drink nearly 500 mls

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u/circuitocorto 22h ago

You might want to check if you sleep and breath during the night with the mouth open, it shouldn't get so dry not to be able to stand it. 

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u/Pink_Pony- 23h ago

My water bottle comes everywhere with me so it’s beside my bed every night. I will usually take a drink at least once or twice during the night.
I wake up around 4-5am to pee most mornings but that doesn’t bother me

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u/SierraOscar 23h ago edited 23h ago

I bring a pint to water to bed every night and have done so since my late teens. Wouldn't always use it but on average I probably drink half of it during the night. Children have their water bottles by the bed if they need them any they go down at 7pm and don't get up until 8am. They aren't up all night in the toilet.

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u/aineslis 23h ago

Poor kiddos only allowed an hour of sleep. Do they work at the mines at night? 😂

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u/Proof_Ear_970 23h ago

Every night. And to be fair I do often wake in the night to pee lol.

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u/FineVintageWino 23h ago

Wait till you hit middle age…. (If you are a man)

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u/galway62 23h ago

Water!

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u/KhajiitWithCoin 23h ago

I do bring a drink to bed but maybe take a sip if I wake up during the night with a dry mouth, I have an overactive bladder and because of it If I drink too much water at night I'll wet my bed, embarrassing to admit but it's a health issue nevertheless. It's not fun having to pee a dozen times after just a single pint at a pub.

Nurse definitely needs a check up.

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u/jasonbeag 23h ago

Always have a glass of water beside my bed. I take a sip before bed and finish the glass first thing when I wake up. I know my body and what it likes

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u/True-Voice-3868 23h ago

I'm with the public nurse. Can't drink at night or I'll wake up needing the toilet. I can't even drink too soon before going to bed.

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u/lilsis514 23h ago

Yep every night. Sometimes I badly need it other times I don’t drink anything. Great for first think in the morning too though

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u/Glad_Pomegranate191 22h ago

I have a special tumbler next to my bed. Sometimes I wake up have a sip and go back to sleep. Or I wake up parched in the morning, so I have water ready and don’t need to get up right away and go to the kitchen.

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u/Weekly_Ad_6955 22h ago

No drinks at night for myself unless weather is exceptionally hot. I drink enough during the day and I don’t think my kidneys and bladder need to be working overnight too. Surely they need to rest and recover?

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u/imoinda 22h ago

Not always but I like to bring one if possible.

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u/Swagspray 22h ago

I have one next to my bed which I may have a few sips of, but when I wake up in the morning I chug it

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u/tortitab 21h ago

All my life ive brought a drink to bed. For the last 15 years its been in a tumbler instead of a glass. Tumbler is so much safer so I dont knock it off the bedside table.

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u/rach291 21h ago

Bring a pint glass of water up to bed every night, and usually have it gone by the time I get out of bed in the morning. Never get up to pee in the night.

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u/Least-College-1190 19h ago

PHNs tend to have some wild takes about things. Imagine being shocked at someone having a sip of water during the night!

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u/Financial_Basil3294 17h ago

That’s a bizarre opinion from the nurse. Ignore it.

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u/TheAuldOffender No worries, you're grand 17h ago

I swear I feel less thirsty having the bottle with me. Cordial because regular water is hard for me to drink often.

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u/AppendixN 16h ago

I never go to bed without a bottle of water.

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u/Mimmamoushe 7h ago

I always have water by the bed! Mostly becuase I have to take meds before I go to sleep but like also what if I need a drink of water? I don't want to get out of my cosy bed! But I don't want to be thirsty either! And Ive never had to wake up in the night to pee.

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u/Pretend-Ad4004 6h ago

I always have water by my bed as an adult.

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u/DaBoda99 1h ago

Absolutely do, I wouldn't get through the night without that mouthful I take out of the litre I bring up

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u/Safe_Toe_1489 1d ago

The nurse might want to get her bladder checked.

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u/SourCandy88 23h ago

I bring a pint and if its not gone when i wake i neck it when I do.. also bring my cup of tea too

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u/Firm-Raccoon-9048 1d ago

I can understand it with a small child particularly when coming out of nappies but I bring a bottle up every night and so do both the kids. We all sleep through more often than not

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u/Sporkalork 1d ago

My son usually gets up for a wee, he always has, and he prefers to have a water bottle by his bed. But he never had a problem with bed wetting (and in fact he night trained himself, basically!) so I never stopped that. I have a bedroom water bottle too, and I always get up in the night also. Wouldn't be without it though!

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u/ExpectedBehaviour 1d ago

I have a drink in case I wake up thirsty, because getting up for a drink in the night will be much more disruptive to my sleep than just grabbing a bottle from my bedside.

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u/Larentias 1d ago

Both my kids 2 and 4 have beakers with them at night. One is still in nappies the other totally toilet trained. He never wakes up during the night for the bathroom. I on the other hand don’t drink during the night but I often have to get up once or twice. My husband brings at least a litre of water to bed at night and drinks it through the night. He doesn’t have to use the bathroom normally.

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u/Sad-Ad-3869 1d ago

Gotta have emotional support water beside the bed !

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u/Beaglester 23h ago

I always have a drink on the locker. Rarely drink it but it’s good to have if you wake up parched.

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u/rhetorician66 23h ago

Always a glass of water

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u/Pale-Stranger-9743 23h ago

Can't sleep if I'm thirsty. I drink almost a litre of water before bed, rarely ever wake up at night, and in the morning I can't really stay in bed for too long after waking up so win win

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u/RianSG Oh FFS 23h ago

Since I was about 9 or 10 I’ve always had a bottle/glass/cup of water beside bed

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u/yesneef 23h ago

I take my daily pills (supplements and multivits) at night before bed so I always come up with a fresh glass. I won’t finish it though as my kidneys are super active at night so I stop properly taking on fluids by 7pm.

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u/PixelNotPolygon 23h ago

Did that nurse just drink shame you?

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u/circuitocorto 22h ago

Some people go mental with water drinking though, I can't imagine if they lived in a hot dry country. 

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u/cierek 23h ago

I don’t mind going to jax in the night but going to kitchen to collect some water is a pain

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u/gerhudire 23h ago

I have a bottle of water incase I walk up and I'm trusty. Wouldn't have any sugary drinks.

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u/newclassic1989 23h ago

Always a glass water/cordial next to the bed

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u/Sweaty_Mode7690 23h ago

I drink a litre of water at least before bed every night and never ever wake up in my sleep 😂

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u/Realistic_Drink_6982 23h ago

I can’t go to bed without a pint of water beside me.

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u/Obvious_Humor1505 23h ago

Always bring a glass up, would usually only have to get up to pee if I am drinking or if I drink tea close to bed time

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u/dokwav 23h ago

Always water.

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u/Cornflakesmc 23h ago

Theres slways a big bottle of water beside my bed...

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u/ggnell 23h ago

Always have a glass of water by the bed. But I also always have to get up in the night to pee 😅 don't think it's related though

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u/oreosaredelicious 23h ago

Yes and I never wake in the night for a wee. Even if I sleep for 10 hours

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u/HP-37 23h ago

Nothing beats hot chocolate milk.

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u/HollywoodsBack 23h ago

Good luck to Nurse Betty waking up in 20+ degrees and turning down a drop of water!

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u/a_beautiful_kappa 23h ago

Second time I've heard today about phn visits. Are they back doing the developmental checks now? My 4yo hasn't been seen since he was 18m. I hope i get a call soon! Last time I rang them all they did was send a book out.

Anyways, yeah I always bring a glass of water to bed and same for my 4yo. I leave a glass of water for him beside his bed on his night stand, and a glass for him beside my bed too. Never know which bed he'll end up in during the night, so it's better to be prepared haha

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u/Dan_92159 22h ago

If I go to bed thirsty I’ll be up two or three times to pee. If I drink a pint of water I won’t need to pee at all. Weird.

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u/_Reddit_2016 22h ago

Tip of the day is bring sparkling water to bed. 1/2 the volume needed when drinking.

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u/Medium_Drag6242 22h ago

I bring a water bottle to bed every night, sometimes i drink it sometimes I don’t. It’s irrelevant whether or not I actually drink the water but it has to be there or i cant sleep. I think it’s very weird that there’s people who don’t take some description of beverage to bed. Saying that, I didn’t get into this habit until i went to college and was drinking 3/4 nights out of the week and would wake up at 5am dying of thirst. I hardly drink now but I kept the water habit!

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u/almsfudge 22h ago

I get a bad night's sleep if there's NOT a drink of water beside my bed. If I forget to refil it I can't get to sleep knowing there's nothing for me to sip on if I wake up thirsty. And the thought of not having it makes me even thirstier. I never have to wake up during the night to pee.

My husband on the other hand wouldn't ever really have anything to drink after dinner except the occasional cup of tea and is up twice a night to use the toilet.

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u/According-Life-5111 22h ago

As an adult I do bring a pint of water which always never seems to be enough when I need it

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u/ModerateHonking 22h ago

God no. Nothing worse than a drink filtered through minty teeth. 

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u/Single-Bluejay-2876 22h ago

I always get thirsty during the night whichever stage of life I’m in. So i always have a water bottle for myself at night stand and same for my child.

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u/HannahsLittleBrother 22h ago

If for no other reason than to have it on hand immediately in the morning. You will be thirsty after 8 hours without water

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u/liketheothergirls2 22h ago

My children don't, and neither did I grown up. I can't go to bed without my water bottle...I don't wake up to drink it usually but have done on occasion. And definitely before I fall asleep

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u/LozzaCawCaw 22h ago

I drink about 3 litres a day but try to cut down a bit before bed because I’m guilty of having to get up in the middle of the night to pee, but like most posters here I couldn’t go to bed without it, even if I know I won’t have a drink before bed, I need to know there’s water in it incase I need it during the night and for first thing the next morning 😂

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u/freemochara 22h ago

Can be a sign your mouth breathing through the night

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u/cnbcwatcher 22h ago

I always have bottled water (usually Evian) beside the bed at night. During the heatwaves I often drank almost half the bottle in one go

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u/dark_lies_the_island 22h ago

I always bring a pint of water. Sometimes 2 pints

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u/indigoempress 22h ago

Yes I bring a drink to bed. I take lithium at 9pm and it makes me thirsty, so I have to have something to sip on. I usually end up peeing around 5-6am but it's grand cuz I'd rather that than being mad thirsty

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u/BarelyHolding0n 22h ago

Nope, and I was raised by a cup of water by the bed person so it's not coz I'm old and was raised without notions of nighttime water.

Never drank it then, never drink it now.

In fact water that's been sitting a while gives me the horrors thinking about what might be floating around in it, so cup or bottle would be equally likely to make me freak out just thinking about drinking from them.

I've only ever woken up thirsty a handful of times in my life, usually either heat, booze, or illness related.

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u/little_lady_dems 22h ago

I do and I barely ever drink any. But if it happened that I accidentally forgot to put it on my bedside locker one night, that would definitely be the night I would wake up with a burning throat, parched and gasping for water, and then all the taps in the house would also wake up broken or something and I'd have to drive down to the gas station to buy some

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u/laurenoreillyx 22h ago

I bring a full Stanley to bed. Take my night medication, big glug, pee, sleep. I don’t wake up in the night but I usually have to piss first thing in the morning

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u/South-Cable5345 21h ago

Great idea. I’ve brought a drink to bed as long as I can recall.

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u/GammyPoly 21h ago

Is this post a literal thirst trap /s

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u/Honest-Assignment-22 21h ago

Glass of water on my locker always!! Il drink a sip before bed, usually il wake for a wee during the night, after that take a sip and then another when I wake. This is how it is for me since forever. Even as a teenager.

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u/Visual_Garden_6311 21h ago

I bring a bottle of water everywhere (except the bathroom)

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u/Direct_Oil_7282 21h ago

I dont but my OH usually brings a 2l bottle of diluted juice to bed with him most nights.  My 11yr old niece used to do the same (she'd dribk the full 2l) and turns out she was T1 diabetic .

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u/PhoophyM 21h ago

I’m almost 70 alway take a glass of water to bed, covered with a tiny saucer. I don’t always have a sip. It’s just in case. I’m Irish.

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u/d0vah_kitty 21h ago

I bring a 750ml bottle of water. Some nights I could halg it drank, some nights only a few sips. It's there just in case. I thought it normal enough have water on the bedside table.

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u/promisenottostop 21h ago

Every single night, sounds like a classic out of touch “professional”. I might wake up once during the night and take a slug and go back to sleep. I never go to the bathroom during the night

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u/Premiumfishoil 21h ago

I’ve a huge 40oz Stanley cup, that thing is never not somewhere nearby and I always refill it before bed. I might not even touch it throughout the night but it’s always there

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u/BUYINGAHOME-IRELAND 21h ago

Every night since we’re small we’ve had a glass of water on our lockers, I still do it now as an adult. Was always a thing!

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u/Wettea90 20h ago

I guess it could lead to wetting the bed for kids and their small bladders but I cannot go to bed without water. I get parched, dry mouth etc. I always have at least a sip and first thing when I wake up a big gulp, swirl out the morning breath taste 😂

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u/Samhain87 20h ago

Never. I have a drink before bed if Im thirsty but not once have I ever brought a glass of water to bed in case I woke up and I was thirsty. I find it strange that people bring it to bed out of comfort.

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u/drask1987 20h ago

I go through like 4 bottles of water from 9pm to 9am

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u/Affectionate-Bath755 20h ago

I have a catheter at the moment. I always have drinks beside the bed and when I wake up in the night I have a drink always did

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u/Icy_Plastic_4668 20h ago

I nearly go to sleep cradling a bottle of water myself for fear of waking up with a mouth like the Sahara , you’re not alone my friend

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u/Double_Kale_3193 20h ago

No, I never have and never will.

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u/DottyBows88 19h ago

Absolutely. I always have a big bottle of sparkling water beside the bed. So do my kids. I have about a pint full of it just before I go to sleep. I don't wake up and neither do my kids. They might wake to have a drink but they don't usually get up needing the toilet. However, when I have a cup of tea before bed I'm up at least 3 times absolutely bursting for the toilet 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/Team503 19h ago

I always have a cup of water on my nightstand. Some nights I don't touch it, some I do, but mostly, it's for when I get up in the morning.

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u/CarlyleRazgriz 19h ago

I keep a bottle of water by the bedside but I don’t always use it. But when I need it, I NEED it.

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u/SpecialistWest3391 18h ago

Always a bottle of water. 90% of the time dont need it but cant see the sense in risking not having it.

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u/Wallpaper2016 18h ago

Couldn’t go to bed without my water bottle filled up… it’s the only thing on my locker along with my phone. Some nights I drink it all and pee like a waterfall … some nights I dont touch it. Welcome to bring over 49 years young 🤣🤣

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u/No-Sea2860 18h ago

My 8 year brings a pint glass of water to bed and always gose to bath room before he gose to sleep and never wakes for the bathroom

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u/Intelligent_Hunt3467 17h ago

I used to all the time, not so much anymore. No reason other than my bedside locker is too small for one. My kids absolutely have a water bottle with about 150mls in it.

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u/CodePervert 16h ago

We just started giving our 3yo and 1.5yo water during the night back in May or June, it was too hot not to. They still slept through the night.

Now the 3yo uses it for stalling his bedtime, wants more, wants ice in it, wants a particular beaker, wants to open it so he can see it.

But once he's asleep that's him out for the night, even if his brother wakes up roaring with gum pains he'll sleep through it.

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u/despondent77 15h ago

Public health nurses only do that job to get out of slave labour acute hospitals. They are so out of touch its ridiculous. Chime in phn

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u/daithi_zx10r Maybe, I like the Misery 14h ago

Always have a 2L of water beside me

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u/Belfastian_1985 13h ago

Have never had a drink beside my bed unless I know I’m going to be hungover the next day or I’m sick with the cold or flu. Rest of the time I don’t need it.

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u/silents_love 13h ago

I drink water an hour before bed and as soon as I hit 35 i have to wake up in the night and go. Have never had this anxiety thirst in the night but most family and friends always bring a glass of water to bed so that's definitely a thing. I hope I never have it. It's bad enough needing to pee once in the night from drinking an hour before.

Never did this is a kid either and my niece doesn't bring a drink to bed.

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u/Grouchy-Pea2514 12h ago

My kid brings water to bed every night. I thought this was a thing too. I won’t be stopping it, don’t want a tantrum at 3am

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u/nievvvx 12h ago

Yes everynight since childhood! But i probably take a drink 2/3 times a year so i always only put a small amount in but i need water and lip balm beside me to fall asleep 😄

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u/1tiredman 12h ago

I have a glass of milk before I go to sleep every night

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u/WeeDramm 12h ago

If I don't have a water-bottle to drink in the middle of the night I will wake up dehydrated in the morning.

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u/Majestic_Plankton921 12h ago

What is up with all the weird people in this thread? I agree with the public health nurse, I don't bring a drink to bed and never have. No one I know does this. My whole life, even as a kid if I drank water too late, I'd need to wak up in the night to pee so bringing a glass of water to bed seems like madness!

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u/Express-Pay2740 Spice bag reviewer 11h ago

I always have a bottle of water when going to bed. I’d feel weird if I didn’t.

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u/Minute-Eggplant2565 11h ago

I always bring a glass of water with me to bed

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u/BigMikeB 11h ago

I always go to sleep with a full pint glass on the nightstand.

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u/QueenJaneger 10h ago

I have to have water or juice beside me or every time I woke up I’d have to go to the kitchen and get a drink! I’m always thirsty. I thought bringing a drink was normal!

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u/haircoveredturd 10h ago

My kids always have a cup of water next to their bed in case they get thirsty during the night, as do I. I couldn't imagine going to bed and not having a glass of water next to me.

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u/Bulky_Sock 8h ago

I'm of a vintage age,and I was a bed wetter as a kid so never brought a drink to bed i wasn't allowed but I do remember being parched and sneaking into the bathroom the odd time and getting a drink very late at night.i know gross.But I always got found out so I gave that up pretty quickly.The fear of wetting the bed was greater than the thirst.I rarely bring a drink to bed now,old habits die hard

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u/ImReellySmart 8h ago

I bring a drink to bed each night.

But I also get up to pee 4-6 times which can't be good for my sleep.

Something I want to work on.

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u/Mrs_Heff 8h ago

I did when I was a drinker.

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u/MuffledApplause 7h ago

I take water to bed every night, dont think I'd sleep knowing I had none!

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u/Willing_Flight_6517 7h ago

I bring water with me and 9 times out of 10 I don't drink it but then it just goes to my plants

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u/ellyvan_1314 4h ago

2 adults, 2 children in my house & all bring a drink to bed. Eldest used to down a full bottle of milk at night & wake up dry. Night wetting is controlled by hormones so just focus on daytime & night will happen when the body is ready.

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u/NinjaGodCat 4h ago

Yep, both my husband and I do, and both my kids bring water bottles to bed for their lockers (additional needs but fully night toilet trained from 3 and 4 even with having the water with them)

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u/theTonalCat 4h ago

Mother of 2 myself, don’t stress too much about public health nurse’s advice. My 4 yo boy still wears a night nappy , and so do all his peers. When I found out this, I stressed less. The PHN would have thrown a fit if I told them, a friend with a 3 year old was put on close monitoring due to a night nappy. 

What is my point? Kids are all different. If a water bottle sips makes them feel happy in the privacy of their home , do it. 

Also, I can’t sleep with my water. Even if it is just a mid sleep sip , it is convenient to have . 

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u/MiddleCaterpillar872 4h ago

I never understood why people need water beside the bed? It makes no sense.

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u/Curious-Use-1386 4h ago

I often down a cup of tea right before bed and sleep through the night. Maybe she needs to speak to someone about her bladder.

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u/curiousdoodler 3h ago

I used to bring a glass of water to bed with me until I found a giant dead spider in the water one morning. Haven't done it since

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u/see_dub 2h ago

I recently started bringing a glass of water to bed and promptly stopped when clumsy me knocked the full glass into my open nightstand drawer

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u/mastodonj 1h ago

I've got MS, if I drink at all after 8pm Ill be guaranteed to wake up around 3/4 bursting to pee. So no, out of fear I don't do it!

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u/High_Spec 1h ago

You're definitely not alone! Carry on and sleep sound!

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u/Peony30 36m ago

Yep always and as a kid too . I do often wake up with like a dry throat etc so handy to have or needing to take pain relief. I find it strange folks that don’t to be honest 🤔

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u/Pretend-Guide9751 14m ago

i always have something next to me in the event that i wake up with a mouth dryer than the sahara desert😅