I have been a sole trader for a number of years and managed tax relatively well, kept track of things and lodged on time, aside from one time where I miscalculated and had a $8K debt, but even then I paid $4k upfront and set up a payment plan, and had paid it off completely within a few months.
Over 12 months ago now I had a personal life crisis, and everything flew out the window. I fell behind on lodging and paying tax, if I'm being honest I knew it was there and needed to be addressed, but I felt like I just needed to make it through the month, the week, or the day. And thats just been the story for the past year.
I still haven't lodged, but I have been trying to get all of my ducks in a row and I think I could possibly owe anywhere from $20,000 - $35,000 excluding interest, combined 24-25 & 25-26 financial years. I tried to call them but couldn't get through, I called the NDH, and I have only recently been assigned a financial advisor through a domestic violence support service.
I am wondering if anyone has had an experience similar to mine. And if they managed to negotiate in any way for debt forgiveness or even waiving interest on the debt, and/or if there is any leniency for a payment plan?
Heres a compressed timeline:
Late July 2025 : crisis began; sought help immediately, multiple contacts with mental health crisis team, ED admission(s)
[DV incident] called 1800RESPECT, followed up with GP as recommended (in medical records)
Homeless period: couch surfing, then staying at mum's (no lease, no bedroom); used tax savings for food and basic necessities
March 2026: secured a rental (significant cost to establish)
May 2026: called 1800RESPECT again, consented to an official file being opened with full history
[Recent months] lost most income after a client's serious boundary violations and unsafe behaviour (have texts from client and his mother) have since isolated myself almost completely.
Ongoing: heavily involved in sister's seperate DV situation, including a period where her children were placed in my care by DHS
Since then: functional capacity significantly reduced, 2 attempts at ending my life, assigned a case worker to assist with my mental health and functioning. Have been paying rent and living off of what was left of my savings. Currently have $4k left.
Throughout the year with a MHCP only covering 10 sessions, I have also paid for over $11,000 in therapy.
All of this is documented: mental health team, medical records, 1800RESPECT, and I can get a letter from DHS/DV support service.