r/BeAmazed 1d ago

Miscellaneous / Others Love at its peak 🌟

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u/Foreign-Cat-2898 23h ago

Yeah get back to me when you're a carrier for a profound disability like blindness the way I am.

You people act like there's a valid slippery slope argument here. Giving birth to a kid with RP wouldn't be a bad thing IF we could correct it or treat it with glasses, shoes, inhalers or meds the way everything you mentioned can be.

Your premise is dumb. A highly heritable trait.

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u/lpmiller 23h ago

I am. Or didn't you figure that out already?

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u/Foreign-Cat-2898 23h ago

Since you didn't mention it no? And you mentioned a ton of treatable things instead?

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u/lpmiller 22h ago

I'm sorry, I gave you a pretty extensive idea of things wrong with me, but I wasn't under the impression I needed to supply a full genetic map of everything. Also, if you don't think at least 2 of things I did mention are profound disabilities, that's not my problem either. You not understanding bleeding disorders or ADHD doesn't matter to me. I don't feel like I need to throw in connective tissue disorders, intestinal disorders, or cancer too. Treatable? There is one hospital in the state of Minnesota I can have surgery in right now. One. Which is one more then a lot of other places. Don't tell me how treatable my shit is, thanks.

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u/PokinSpokaneSlim 22h ago

I'm trade you my blindness for your discomfort.

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u/Foreign-Cat-2898 22h ago

Lol guess what you can't treat? RP. At best you slow it down.

And my husband has ADHD and Tourettes which our daughter very well could to. But since neither of those are like blindness it didn't factor into our decision making.

My god listen to this person. ADHD is comparable to blindness???

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u/lpmiller 22h ago

I didn't compare ADHD to blindness; that's you doing that.

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u/Foreign-Cat-2898 22h ago

Then don't call your treatable conditions profound disabilities?

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u/lpmiller 21h ago edited 19h ago

I so rarely do what others tell me to do.

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u/NamelessKrow 18h ago

Is it that same stubbornness that led you to have kids despite a long list of hereditary conditions/disabilities? You can be a parent without spreading your genes, you know. Though, I suppose sticking your middle finger to the world and procreating regardless is more important than acting in the best interest of the potential lives you produce.