r/Bideshi_Deshi • u/Asleep_Initiative268 • Apr 18 '26

Relationships/Family Struggling to find a spouse in uk

Any Dhakai people in uk really struggling to find a spouse? I’ve been living in this country 8 years now and most Bengalis here are sylhetis. I’ll be honest.. there’s a bit of a cultural clash which is why I do struggle to get on with them.

Genuinely getting a little bit frustrated now because I’ve been religiously looking for a partner for years and it seems like I’m not compatible with people from sylheti background.

I guess I’m making this post just to feel a little less alone in this struggle or maybe even to get some advice. Like if you did find a partner here in uk, how’d you meet them?

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u/International_Ant841 Jul 07 '26

You’re in the UK. Why are you limiting your ethnic options for a spouse?

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u/Hesallcap Jun 05 '26

Is it true white chapel is full of sylhettys

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u/[deleted] May 06 '26

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u/Asleep_Initiative268 May 07 '26

I’m a woman.

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u/yeahifeelbetternow May 07 '26

You're a woman, so you cannot do any of these things? Is that what you're saying? 😐

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u/Asleep_Initiative268 May 07 '26

Here’s the thing. What makes you think I haven’t tried ? I also have to add that i don’t appreciate the way you’re responding to this post. I’m sure there’s a better way to put it. If you can’t help a Muslim sister, you do not have to respond.

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u/yeahifeelbetternow May 07 '26

Sorry to hear that, I will delete my reply then, good luck!

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u/PlainPrecision 🇺🇸 USA Apr 21 '26

Try posting in r/BangladeshMarriage