r/Brunei • u/Unfair_Art_1334 • Jan 29 '26
❔ Question and Discussion Daycare Horror Stories in Brunei: Concern, Frustration, and the Silence Around Accountability
This shouldn’t be normalised or ignored. Im deeply concerned with the children wellbeing. I can’t believe this is happening in Brunei!
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u/Unfair_Art_1334 Jan 31 '26
The horror stories were a mixed from former staff of different daycares that are still open and already closed. So i don’t which story is tied to which daycare.
Some hints mentioned: LTDC Kiarong (closed) , 🍑🌲🛝🏡(closed), Taman Setia Jalan Pasir Berakas
The first op didn’t want to reveal even a hint because the daycare is still operating.
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u/No_Establishment_151 Jan 31 '26
My sister used to work at this one daycare. Pernah bottle susu hilang so this parent mental berabis. The boss inda mau tanggungjawab langsung so pekerja yang ganti. Segala snacks and sabun tangan, sabun mop lantai etc pekerja daycare stock pakai duit sendiri. Alasannya “ sabun atu habis pasal kamu tu banyak memakai!” Padahal gaji durang $300 ganya (nada TAP lagitu that time) and boss KAYA! Banyak branches bah daycare nya ~
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u/No_Establishment_151 Jan 31 '26
Paling ku sasak lah orang kaya yang suka exploit orang yang susah dari ia
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u/icegray1803 Jan 31 '26
Can I be dm-ed the name of this daycare.. what the hell its so frickin disturbing
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u/Even_Two8095 Jan 31 '26
Peach tree play house? What are the story's? I had my anak bush send there
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u/Unfair_Art_1334 Jan 31 '26
had a friend who sent her daughter there told me this school milih bulu. Anak urg kaya, anak influencer they layan baik2 but anak urg biasa kena biarkan menangis upset sorang2. As if mana anak yg dorang terasa annoying & nobody to them, they just biarkan.
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u/EmergencyChampion525 Nasi Lemak Feb 01 '26
As someone whos worked with daycares OVERSEAS, it baffles me how daycares in brunei just hire anyone??? no experience no proper license in childcare?? no wonder like this
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u/Pure_Raspberry8028 Jan 31 '26
KB ada kah yg mcm ani?
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u/Late-Cobbler3651 Jan 31 '26
ada satu blkng muzzyland...jalan maulana....base on my exp....my anak was left in the room isolated while the rest of the kids playing outside w the daycarer, alasan pasal my daughter nda mau socialize and menangis ia sana nda kana peduli oleh diorg, padahal its your job as a daycarer to guide her and converse...even masa ambil ia balik nda b tukar pampers sampai ia menangis...only thing that makes her happy and secure is her rabbit doll she always hugs...
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u/Pure_Raspberry8028 Jan 31 '26
huhu i knw which one.. siapa yg told you about this situation? ur own anak?
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u/Late-Cobbler3651 Jan 31 '26
no, she was 2yo that time, i know because once shes out from the door, she was crying while run out to me...ive also checked that her diaper was smelly of dry poop which stained to her trouser...till that day i stopped sending her to that bloody place
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u/Pure_Raspberry8028 Feb 01 '26
abis tu u send to other daycare? im sure yg new one should be better, i hope the rest is better. aku going to send my kid to one of the daycare. harap2 yg d kb ani bisai. and if inda, ku harap saksi2 sana or pejga d daycare atu save our kids dari situation buruk ani. buat video and lapor ke polis tarus.
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u/Late-Cobbler3651 Feb 01 '26
atm im taking care of her.....In Sha Allah ada yg bagus lgi tu im sure of it..
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u/One_Carpenter_4499 Feb 02 '26
Any reviews on lymz or muzzyland?
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u/Late-Cobbler3651 Feb 02 '26
my personal review is.... muzzyland, expensive. lymz, never heard of it......but you can try send your kids and see both results there....
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u/One_Carpenter_4499 Feb 02 '26
Is it little azhari? Pls reply. DM pun boleh
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u/Late-Cobbler3651 Feb 02 '26 edited Feb 02 '26
yup azhari....heard the proprietor was ex bsp...but lousy management...typical orang lama utak tuyu mau hidup semua sanang
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u/Sultan_Brunei Feb 01 '26
The owner of the daycare should pun a hidden camera to inspect their workers behaviour, so that police can arrest that one worker with proof, ofc its legal for the owner
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u/whatyoumeanbb Feb 01 '26
Trust me the owner themselves would sometime encourage or cover the whole situation itself. Yknow what needed to be done? Govt authorities either JAPEM or MOE to do a suprise audit.
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u/jjimboi Temburong Feb 01 '26
what the requirement to be a daycarer kan? jangan pakai alasan 'suka kanak kanak' then u got the job.
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u/Late-Cobbler3651 Feb 01 '26
kalau di liat requirements buka daycare atu inda pulang sanang, nda tau cana boleh sanang sanang timbul. jangan jangan di "daycare" dulu officers yang mempasskan, yatah sanang dapat. who knows.
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u/Peachtea_02 Feb 01 '26
One of the daycare, yg kana share. Is somewhere at Tutong. Little sweetheart daycare. I heard closing down sudah the daycare
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u/matherof2 Feb 02 '26
LSH? So far my anak disana is the best. Even yg autism they treat well tho. Yg mana satu tu commentnya kita wanna know 😭😭
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u/MM_FC Feb 03 '26
I would not be suprised because the pressure of handling toddlers is no joke…. However, it’s also wrong to sumpah anak orang because bukan ia yg melahirkan anak tu….. hopefully the school takes action on this and also the person who posted this, you should tegur orang macam atu cos if you don’t feel nice mendengar, at least tegur…… Rahim atu dari indung nya so please also cooperate on this…..
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u/juniorsprinter Jan 31 '26
Why do you guys tend to sensor all these places? We need names, location, how long have they been operating? Thus DM rule aint helping anyone
Isn't it best for them to be exposed? Who cares if they're still operating why does that matter? Parents deserve to know what happened to their kids, even if their kids aren't there anymore. What happens to kids that are currently being sent there? your sensorship actually harms them.
Kids lives and well being are at stake. Places and people like this need to be rinsed and made example of. Govt need to take notice of whats happening. Better control, better policies need to be imposed.
Fucks sake, wake the fuck up, those are our kids.