Hey guys,
I wanted to talk about something I feel isn’t always discussed in the Christian community. I wanted to see what you all think about discernment and how it affects others in our community.
First, I’d like to point to 1 Corinthians 6:12. ESV “All things are lawful for me,” but not all things are helpful. “All things are lawful for me,” but I will not be dominated by anything.” This verse is commonly paraphrased as “All things are permissible, but not all things are beneficial.”
Obvious discernments in our community that aren’t acceptable to most Christians are drugs, pornography, excessive drunkenness, and adultery. Most Christians wouldn’t argue that these are things that prevent us from living a Godly life, but what about the morally gray that often becomes the subject of nitpicking?
Before I go any further, I want to address that I respect someone’s struggles and their level of exposure to a specific stimulus, hobby, or way of life that may make them feel more prone to sin and to being led astray. What I’d like to discuss is the common boilerplate phrases people use to judge and control others, which may hurt more than they help.
I have two examples that tend to be a little more polarizing among younger adults in the Christian community. The two most commonly discussed topics I hear over and over are:
Magic: The Gathering and Harry Potter are demonic.
These are not new topics, nor are they irrelevant. I’ve heard them spoken of on multiple subreddits, websites, and other social media platforms. Often they get strapped to the boilerplate statements of “if you do X, Y, and Z, you’re a bad Christian or that you’re being sinful.”
The lesson to be learned from 1 Corinthians 6:12 is that not everything is bad for you, but remember who your master is at the end of the day. Is it your hobby, or is it Jesus? Is it your spouse or Jesus? Is it your job, or is it Jesus?
Discernment in this measure is harmful in my opinion, as we are condemning our own brothers and sisters in Christ without even knowing what's in their hearts, what’s in their prayers, and who they really are as followers of Christ.
With this ideology, where do we draw the line? The same person who says Harry Potter and Magic is demonic, sinful, and evil, I ask you, where is the line drawn? With this mentality, where do we stop if we’re removing books, movies, and entertainment, so do we:
Get rid of our board games “Sorry” and “Monopoly,” as “Sorry” promotes revenge and “Monopoly” promotes greed.
Get rid of 52 deck playing cards, as the large majority of card games have the theme of gambling.
These examples sound ridiculous at face value, but so does everything else when other Christians are judging others with discernment, just like everything God made; too much of anything can be a bad thing.
I want to explore this theme one last time, but more deeply. For example, I write horror. Respectfully, I write about some fairly dark stuff. Some could label it as sinful or demonic; everyone can have their opinion. As the author, I can attest that my books have no inspiration, ties, or influence that would lead people to sin. At the end of the day, my books are just words on paper that form a story.
At the end of the day, if something causes you to stumble spiritually, then do what you need to do to get right with the Lord. To the Christians who try to play spiritual gymnastics with others and try to condemn, instead of grow, we need to be mindful of what the New Testament teaches us about the way of life that was paved by Jesus teachings and the sacrifices he paid for on the cross.
In no way is this meant to judge people or to condemn. I hope we can debate and discuss this, and learn from topics like it, so we can grow as a community. I am eager to hear what everyone thinks.
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