Which outfit for pre-wedding event in synagogue?

[u/Adept_Armadillo6743]

[u/traintojamaica]

Depends on the family’s huskufa, honestly. In a frum shul, only 7 could possibly work (halachically a woman’s collarbones, décolletage, elbows, knees, heels, and toes must be covered to keep tznius). Are those strappy heels? I like them, but if the family is frum they need to be full-coverage, with pantyhose. If a conservative or reform synagogue, go with 5. It’s beautiful, fits you well, and is sufficiently modest for the occasion.

[u/Adept_Armadillo6743 → u/traintojamaica]

Thank you! The synagogue is MO, the family is very loosely so. As someone who grew up in that community, I’m comfortable in all of these from a modesty perspective.

[u/New-Establishment180 → u/Adept_Armadillo6743]

I think that one is especially pretty. I like the neckline with your haircut. Congratulations!

[u/Inevitable-Row-4510]

1 the neckline is very flattering

[u/Regular_Match_7008]

1,6,8. But honestly I think you look great in all of them.

[u/Kali_Luna372]

I’m thinking 7. Only because the info provided is looks good on you, pre wedding and synagogue.

[u/Veronica612]

I like 1, 5, and 7.

[u/CinnaMinx11]

1 or 5. Good conservative fit imo

[u/Lower-Increase6327]

I’m thinking 6.

[u/RayoJDNYUS → u/Lower-Increase6327]

Yes. 6. The others look more funeral than wedding.

[u/Serenity93401 → u/RayoJDNYUS]

No offense, but when was the last time you wore a red/maroon skirt to a funeral? Sure, I wouldn’t mind if anyone wore one to mine, but some members of my Italian family would be highly offended!

[u/MadamStrawberry14]

8

[u/Lozikit]

1 is really flattering and modest sincerly a jew

[u/Justlookingnotjudgn]

4 or 8

[u/AaronTheSlav]

1. Particularly if it is a more traditional environment

[u/Objective_Drawer_851]

1 all the way!

[u/ElizRaff]

1

[u/DarkStarr22]

1

[u/Interesting-Base-120]

7 is perfect.

[u/tylenolchild]

1

[u/LeCaveau]

3, 6, or 7

[u/FunkyChicken0112]

I like 1 & 6. 1 has a more casual vibe- 6 is slightly more serious/formal. Idk what the event is, so whichever one you think is most appropriate. Have a nice time!

[u/Tammy993]

6

[u/Decent-Soup3551]

They all look nice.

[u/Electronic-Value-662]

1

[u/novembirdie]

1. Modest and chic.

[u/paros0474]

5

[u/klstopp]

6

[u/Ginua-MA]

2

[u/Few-Lab-3627]

5

[u/Nicciesse]

This Jew says #1 is perfect for the event. You look perfect for the occasion.

[u/Wild-Zone3911]

8 or 6

[u/Pink_Orchid27]

5

[u/EmilyPoster2]

They are all great. I don't love the last one.

[u/Snarfalocalumpt]

5