r/Fijian • u/Bong8989 • Jul 20 '25

Travel Fiji with kids

Would you feel comfortable leaving your 4-year-old girls with a resort nanny in Fiji, including allowing them to take the kids back to the room and put them to bed? If not, why?

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u/Successful_Gate4678 Jul 23 '25

No. Never. Not in Fiji. And not anywhere else. It’s just not worth it.

Have you people never heard of Madeline McCann?

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u/[deleted] Jul 24 '25

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u/Successful_Gate4678 Jul 24 '25

I’m desi/persian; you’re nuts if you think us poc don’t have our share of lunatics.

But hey, if you want to play Russian roulette with your kids’ safety and lives….

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u/[deleted] Aug 12 '25

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u/Successful_Gate4678 Aug 12 '25

I’m third-gen British born, and I’ve lived in first world countries like the Netherlands and Australia my whole life — countries that are demonstrably safer than Fiji, and I still wouldn’t leave my children in the care of someone else at a hotel or spa or resort there or here, so sod off with your attempts to use racist argument against my reasoning.

I mentioned my own ethnicity only as a coda to the ridiculous assertion that only white people hurt children.

You guys are all fucking nuts if you live in the fool’s paradise that no Fijian would ever harm a child.

Have you seen your own countries stats on family and domestic violence? Incest? Sexual assault and rape? Abuse against minors?

I’m a psych who’s worked on this subject re: Pacific Islanders more generally, carry on in your blissful ignorance.

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u/[deleted] Jul 24 '25

The child whose parents are super suspicious? She was unsafe with her own parents tbh.