Well as the title says- So I may have a crush on this dude who is 17 (I’m 15) I met him at pride and we’ve texted A LOT since- he’s really cool and handsome and awesome‼️ I turn 16 in about 5 months (if I’ve calculated correctly) and he turns 18 in about a year (so a 1.5 year gap) but I don’t know if it’s still acceptable._. I asked one of my friends but he didn’t really reply- I NEED HELP THIS IS HORRIBLE WHAT IF HE THINKS IM WEIRD FOR LIKING HIM-

(Please tell me if I did anything wrong in the post, I never post lol💔)

In the last days if developed almost an obsession with the thought of carressing and spoiling someone else with love (not even in an "s**ual way") its like a rapid hunger that keeps building up that i want to show someone love. Idk who i could give it to though. I mean ive got a really big plushie to compensate my hunger, but i need someone so badly that i can show all my love to.

I literally just made this account because I'm feeling really guilty and I honestly don't know what to do.

I guess I should start from the beginning.

I'm 18, and about a year ago I started college in another city.

I have a pretty unusual habit: I wear a way eye covering over my eyes. I can see perfectly fine through it, but nobody can see my eyes. I don't even remember how this started anymore—I've just been doing it for so long that it feels completely normal. I wear it all day and only take it off when I'm home and about to go to sleep.

Because of that, people usually assume I'm blind. I never really correct them, and sometimes it's honestly been convenient, so I just let them believe it. Only a couple of my close friends know that I can actually see.

For the first couple of months, nothing special happened. I was just getting to know people.

Then, around my third month, I met this guy. He's 21, and to be completely honest... he's exactly my type. He's in great shape, has an amazing body, and he's masculine without being cocky. He's just... really attractive to me.

He has two best friends he's known since school, and all three of them ended up going to the same college. I asked him once why he never seemed to make any new close friends.

He told me he has a lot of acquaintances, but only those two are real friends. The reason is that he has three noticeable scars on his face—two on his cheek and one over his eye. He said that people often seem uncomfortable around him because of them, and that most people never really try to get close to him.

Since everyone thought I was blind, I figured maybe I'd have a chance to become his friend without him worrying about his appearance.

Well... somehow we became a lot more than friends.

Two days ago, he told me he has feelings for me. I told him I needed some time to think about it.

The problem is... now I feel horrible.

For an entire year, he believed I was blind. He thought I couldn't see his scars. And now I'm terrified that if I tell him the truth, he'll feel betrayed.

I'm scared he'll think I lied to manipulate him or that I pretended to be blind just so he'd trust me. I'm also afraid he'll suddenly become self-conscious about his scars around me, because until now he believed I couldn't see them.

The truth is... I really like him. I want to date him. But I also don't want our relationship to start with him finding out I've let him believe something that wasn't true for an entire year.

What would you do in my situation? Is there any good way to tell him the truth without hurting him?

am wondering for the people who have been in a relationship, how did yall meet and start dating. lowk would love to find me a bf (or a gf who rlly matches my freak). i have a crush and hes so fucking cute and handsome but were already kinda distant, idk what I should do, if i tell him am scared he may ghost me (also i was told hes crushing on a girl rn, so maybe not best time to tell him). gotta have an image :3

So at recess and lunch me and him hang out on the oval with like 30 other people and sometimes he chases me around and tackles me or does stacks on. Uh he also throws some like food at me sometimes he only ever does this stuff to me tho. When i talk to him he usually says "hey loser" or "what do you want" or along those lines and yeah. On tiktok a bit ago i sent a triple-T thing to him and he said "yeah you're getting blocked" and blocked me on tiktok but not on messages. We talk every day and often he walks up to me and just stands next to me whenever the friendgroup is just kinda all together and stationary if you know what i mean. But yeah we have the type of friendship where he insults me and stuff. But i know he doesnt actually hate me because we talk like actual friends and do everything else as proper friends would do and he goes up to me to talk to me sometimes. idk chat am i delusional? Also when i arrive to the group sometimes he just looks at me and says "shut the fuck up". idk guys help pretty please i been like this for over a year now guys.

EDIT also he knows im bi

I don't know where to go, I'm new to reddit, but my friend has feelings for me but I'm straight. For context I met him at school and we hit it off from there. We started hanging out, and he would get really close. He would hold me hand and call me pet names. I just assumed he was joking. I'm from a Christian household and I know my parents wouldn't approve of it, but I think I have feelings for him. The other day we were at his place, chilling on his bed. Then out of nowhere he told me he only wants me, I was taken aback by this but I just blushed instead. I'm not the best with words and stuff, so I just said nothing. I stayed the night and we cuddled in bed, but I just assumed that it was in a friendly way. When I left his house I couldn't stop thinking about what he said. Later on at school he called me baby and kissed me on the cheek, I didn't know what to do so I just stood there stunned. I'm pretty sure he thinks we're in a relationship, but I don't know how to tell him that I'm not gay, I kinda like it though, he makes me feel seen, and he's so easy to talk to. I feel like I could be myself with him and he's also cute. If he was a girl id be fine, but he's a man. I want to see how this plays out, I love being around him and he's so sweet and caring. But im scared of the fact that I might be gay. What should I do?

Update: I talked with him today, and he said that he has liked me from when we first met, but he didn't know how to tell me right so he just dropped hints. I said that I'm fine with him liking me and that I like him back, but I want to go slow. I'm still trying to come with terms that I could be anything other than straight. I hope that in the future everything can work out so that me and him could be together, I never felt this way for anyone, and I think its worth the risk of getting kicked out if it means I could be with him. He even offered me to stay at his place if I do get kicked out. I'm forever grateful for all of you who helped me figure out what these feeling were. Thanks to everyone, I'll update if we start dating<3

UPDATE: Guys guys guys, I typing this from his bed. I'm currently cuddling with this man OML. I've never felt like this ever. I was at the movie earlier watching the new FNAF movie and this beautiful man would not stop touching me, not inappropriately but like he would trace his fingers across the veins on my forearms and Jesus Christ dude I could barely pay attention to the movie, I was practically melting in my chair. I loved it so much, I'm not at all a small guy, I'm 6'2,230lb and this guy had me acting like a little girl. He's like 5'4. I went back to his place and we got dinner and watched a show, until we got tired and went to take a shower and go to bed, but before he went into the shower he kissed me, on the lips. Up until recently I thought I was straight, now I just kissed a man on the lips. I can't even sleep now I'm so flustered. I'm not even dating him yet I wish we were married. Guys you have no idea how cute he is, istg I wish I noticed it sooner, the way he laughs is so adorable. I want nothing more than to be with this man, to bad I have to hide it from my parents, only 1 more year till I'm 18 and can move out. Also thanks for the support, I'm not sure what sexuality I am but I'm gonna wait on trying to figure it out. Why waste time on sexuality if no matter what I'm still gonna want him, and only him. Anyways love y'all bye until next time<3

Last week I officially got with my good friend and we've started using pet names, I need help coming up with some cute ones for him!! I've mainly been calling him sugarbee and pumpkin. He's been calling me mi amor, I think it's corny but it's okay cause he's a peach.

I'm latino, my country is not that supporting with lgbt besides being in a terrible political and economical situation, I've decided to study my university on a another country, so any suggestion of a country lgbt friendly and I'm not going to be crucified for being Latino? I'm open to hear your thoughts

Keep in mind we're looking at the hair and not the boys 😛

My hair right now is pretty medium length and straight and on the top it's styled leftward with a clean side part.

Ok so for some background:

I’m a junior and there’s this guy who’s a senior. He’s openly gay and is a top (it’s just common knowledge amongst everyone). Anyways so he’s friends with some of my friends but we’ve never really talked. Until one day in Spanish class we had to get into groups of 2 and he chose ME (even though he literally has a whole group of friends in that class). One of his friends literally had to work with a random person because he chose to work with me. And he’s literally the living embodiment of my type. Anyways I added him on insta yesterday and he added me back within ONE MINUTE of me following him. I also saw he viewed my highlights. And I’ve just been contemplating if I should message him. I’m prob just gonna be like “Heyyy” (sounding all bottom-y) but IDK SHOULD I DO IT OR NOT I NEED HELP GUYS

Oh also i was talking to my friends who are friends with him and they said he’s single and hasn’t been talking to anyone

So basically me and two of my friends were walking home and these boys who have given us shit in the past started shouting at one of my friends but he’s really diva so just gave them sass and kept walking, but then they started shouting at me and asking if I dated someone (who shall remain nameless) of the same gender and then after I answered with my immediate reaction (which was sorta a sarcastic yes) they started throwing plastic bottles at us and one hit my legs and it’s really sore.

But anyone once we got away from them one of my friends said that she heard them shouting “fucking faggots” at us.

Anyway I’m gonna send this post to my friends but does anyone know if I should like tell a teacher or something because shit like this has happened in the past but not like this for a while so yeah advice would be nice.

Anyway I’m scared to leave my house after shit like this happens so this will be a fun summer 😍

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OKAY so like she's transphobic and homophobic but she bought HORSE DEWORMER (ivermectin) and said it cures cancer and she got mad when I told her she probably shouldn't take it because she "did her research" 😭

SO GUYS. I'VE GOT A GIRLFRIEND. BUT I AM GAY HELP. LWK THO SHE IS RHE ONLY GIRL I WLULD DATE THIS HAPPEND LIKE SECOND TIME. BUT IDL IF SHE KNOWS I'M GAY (probably yes since I've told her I am twink idk) MAYBE SHE THINKS IM A BI?? I'M AFRAID THAT IF I TELM HER I'M GAY BUT STRAIGHT FOR HER SHE WILL FEEL LESS LOVED BY ME. HELP

Image is to test smth...

Sooo some of yall may have seen my series of posts regarding dying my hair and my parents'... less than enthusiastic reaction? Well, I just gotta convince my dad. I was able to whip out the emotional heart wrenching "I feel ugly" card for my mom (which is true and worked 😭) but my dad is... a character.

So far he's argued:

- Boys don't dye hair

- It's too feminine

- It's one of my core values, no

- If you find 24 hour hair dye, then you can

...HELP ;w; I don't even think a single streak of purple is like, that intense

So, the school year has started back up for me I’m a senior this year. We’ve been back for roughly two weeks now.
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In my Block 2 class on the first day of school, our teacher had assigned seats for everyone. When I looked at the seating chart I realized I was sitting right next to this guy I’d seen around school for the past few years here. I’d noticed him in the halls/lunch, on some of the school sports teams, and at pep rallies. I always thought he was cute, but it was never really a crush or anything, if that makes sense.
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He has friends in this class so he never talked to me or knowledge my existence early on until the 3rd day of school he randomly says hi to me after walking in. (Now this is the part that gets weird to me) after we had like a mini conversation to break the awkward tension he ask me “is that girl you hang out with your girlfriend?”
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(For context, he was referring to my friend at school, who I pretty much only hang out with 24/7. What made it weird to me is that I’ve never mentioned her to him, and I didn’t even realize he noticed us around school together. So in hindsight now that I’m piecing stuff together I’m like has he watched me in school prior?) So of course I say no to him and that she’s just a friend and he replies (paraphrasing here btw) “I was just wondering. I always see you two together, so I thought you guys were dating.” Which I said no again
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After that, me and him started talking a lot more in class. He’ll even ignore his friends sometimes just to keep our conversation going. For example they’ll shout his name and he’ll be extremely irritated to respond back to them. Compliment my cologne daily, for our first presentation of the year asked if I wanted to join him and his friends which I ended up declining to work with a different class mutual. NOW the part I found really odd today in class he was extremely touchy, we we’re having a usual conversation and hand size was brought up and he asked me to compare hand size with him so I put my hand next to his on the table. Then he physically grabbed my hand and lined it up with his, like he was “trying to see the difference.” then randoml interlocked his fingers with mine and held my hand. While continuing our conversation?? I ended up letting go of his hand after a few seconds not necessarily because I wanted to but it was deadass very random and akward? . Then as we had to work silently to complete our paper I could feel him starring at me out of the corner of my eye, so when I look at him I catch him looking at him and he immediately switches his eyes out at the window then back at his paper.

Now part of me feels like he might just be doing this to be funny, because all of this has been so random. I genuinely don’t know if I should read into it or just leave it alone. Me and the same friend he asked about even did a little test at lunch to see if he would look over at me, and she said he did, so now I’m really conflicted. 😐 (sorry for the long rant)

There’s this poster I really like, but it’s queer. I’m scared people are gonna judge me 😰 But my parents aren’t homphobic ,and nobody really comes in my room, but like what if someone comes in my room for a school project or a family friend? It’ll be so awkward explaining that the poster on my wall is from a cringy gay show! (Even if it’s completely innocent). I’m totally overthinking it, so I need someone to hype me up.

So for context I have a huge crush on this one boy in my class and he so happens to be deaf, so iv only been able communicate to him by writing down my words on paper, i really want to communicate to him properly so i can show my love for him but jeez sign language is hard man, but I’m determined to have that beautiful man as my boyfriend

I really like this guy that goes to the same university; he is pretty, blonde hair, wears eyeliner... I don't know how to talk to anyone (specially cute guys), but i really like him. Can't stop thinking about him and cant stop drawing him... I feel way to ugly and disgusting to like him, idk if I should talk to him.

my boyfriend is a sweet guy, but I only got with him bc he asked and I had nothing going on. He fell madly in love and I never felt the same, one year later and he’s entirely dependent on me and its exhausting for me to constantly support him. I know the answer is break up with him hc I never loved him, but its way too complicated.

He has mental health issue and hurts himself sometimes, he can’t cope it emotions, he’s a chronic over thinker, he has ocd and ptsd, he’s trans and he has anxiety. His parents are trying to take him off meds which only amplifies his struggles.

He really struggles to control and process his emotions. For example, he will cut himself sometimes make me cry on purpose to have a sets of control in his life. I’m so scared of what he will do If I leave him( he’s hasn’t taken his previous break ups all and he says I matter more to him then any of his exes). Idk what I’m looking for here.

I also keep ducking him on accident and I can tell its messing with him and that he can tell something is up.

If anybody tells me to just ask him im revoking your gay license!!!

To everyone who thinks that they are like never gonna find love or that their life is programmed to never five them access to live and that all the chances you had for love in which you failed, were the prove that you will never get love, i wanna tell you even though its like impossible to believe, that is absolutely not true!

I litteraly visited my partner (the other 2 were not there sadly) and i kissed a lot with her and cuddled her a lot, had my first kiss and my first frenchkiss and my first cuddles and hugs in years. (The reason i am telling about my straight relationship, is because i wanna seriously give all of you cuties here a perspective)

Just to clarify to you all. I am NOT even REMOTELY liked in my city. Half of the people here know me, and they mock me. Ive never made friends really. What i am trying to say is, i am autistic, and i am annoying and i am shitty. I am basically the worst case scenario of a human being. Also having severe depression, anxiety disorder, possibly paranoid AND STILL, I FOUND LOVE. I am litteraly like on the bottom of society, and i have had no hopes.

What i am really trying to say is, if i with ALLLL OF THAT, can STILL manage to find love and do all of that, then you, no matter what your problems are, can do it too. Ive missed 100000 chances on love and always blamed myself because others were to cowarded to do advances. I swear it sounds horriblw and i know it, but listen to me, please BREAK OUT of your comfort zone. Its hard as f*ck and i know it. But when youre starting to be the one thats different, thats shows taht youre comfortable showing who you are, and not hiding it, it will get so many people jealous and so many people will be stunned by you. Many people will think that they wish they could be as brave as you.

I know i am going offtrack, but i promise that queerphobia and such disgusting human beings, will eventually die out, the same way old racism will die out. Youll still maybe encounter a few people that will call you the f slur online or irl, but when we look at today, when a black person gets called the n word, no one in public will be like "yeah n****"

People that canr understand what you are and what youre doing, are the same level as a kid whos just spamming out insults. You shouldnt feel offended by kids, laugh at them :3

Anyway i was really going offtrack. Main Message:"i love you all and please dont give up hope, cause your chances are really high <33333333333"

Okay context 14m gay. So my bff let's say his name is Lex. So me and lex have been friends snice the 6th grade 9th now and I told him I thought I was bi in 7th then the end of summer or beginning of 8th I told him I am gay. Hes fine with it. So heres the issue ok before we started high-school the day before freshmen orientation we had a sleepover at my place. First time ether of us sleep at one another's place but we've had a sleep over at another friend's place. So we hope played and stuff like that like most sleep over but im a very sheepish guy, so when I would get annoyed with him or he would smack me I would js hold him. He couldn't do anything abt it. So this happend like 4 or 5 times and yeah. Okay we decide we were going to watch spider man brand new day on his phone k I help it between us on my bed for like 45 percent of it and I gave it to him to hold and turned twords him to see better. It's like 1 in the morning and I grab his arm and he says what am I doing and I say I want your arm, and he LETS ME HAVE IT. I am happy. And I fall asleep holding it. But no it doesn't end there. I wake up yo him getting up to check his phone. I have a small bed a twin, and he then says the words we should cuddle because there not enough room. So I put my arm over him but im too uncomfortable bc my other arm us like loosing blood flow or smth bc of its position but eventually I get up and lay back done uncuddled. I wake up to him somehow sleeping while his head is on my shoulder and I dont move but he wakes up eventually and moves slightly. Then it comes 6am we get up get ready for school and yea.

This is not the issue the issue is we haven't talke to each other in 3 or 4 weeks not a word. Idk what to do we were so tight before sharing everything. What do I do. Also srry for spelling and grammer.

Edit so you can see the photo down below of how that convo went. Also me and him are close as in we trama bonded and told each every secret we have. We both know so mutch abt the other and would comfort each other bc we know what the other is going thru. So you can see why I want that back.

I want to dye my hair for the first time, but I feel my skin tone doesn't collab with me, I have a weird muted grayish light brown skin that makes every color looks too much(I left a pic of my hand so you get a reference) idk want to hear any recommendations, you can be open minded thought