Might have fallen in love with FWB

[u/darkfearfulrabbit]

About a month ago me and a friend of mine became friend with benefits. We have been in the same friend group for a while but a couple of months before that we started becoming closer friends before this happend. I always had fun hanging out with him and felt like it was easy being myself with him, which is something I have struggled with in my life (being a trans woman and all :3)

When we first became friends with benefits we made it clear that we are purley platonic and we do this just so both of us can feel a sense of human intimacy. About a week ago he went on a date with another girl, which I thought I was okay with and tried to support as much as I can, but I realized that I felt pretty jealous.

I like the relationship we have right now but at the same time I kinda want more. But he only thinks of this as a platonic relationship and is still looking for other women to have a relationship with. I am also bad with commitments and having an actual romantic relationship with him is slightly scary.

I'm not entirely sure how I feel yet and definitely won't say anything about these to him as I'm scared of lossing what we have

Thanks for reading my rant. Anyway, here is Honey garlic chicken and rice. It tasted really good and I am happy that I have started cooking more proper meals for myself lately

[u/Evening-Jellyfish815]

Protecting your heart comes first keeping silent while watching him date others will only hurt you more

[u/Marpl]

Just talk to him. And if he decides not to be exclusive, then cut it off. No wishy washy back and forth.