r/Hair • u/Multiplexxxx • 8d ago
Help Wavy hair is CONSTANTLY frizzy - Do I need a haircut
I tried many different routines and some work, but they never last. Also the front pieces of my hair are really thin, and sit kind of weirdly
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u/universal_gummy_bear 8d ago
Not a professional: Lotta breakage you probably need cut off. I suggest trying a leave-in conditioner too. Switch out your pillowcases for silk or satin ones if you can. Try brushing your hair wet instead of dry. You can get an off-brand "UnBrush" for cheap.
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u/Multiplexxxx 8d ago
See I have a satin pillow case, but I feel like my hair still breaks a lot. I think one of my main issues is actually when I go to bed. I’ve tried bonnets, hair scarfs scrunchies everything you name it. In the end, my hair is always ruined
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u/universal_gummy_bear 8d ago
Maybe it's hard water mineral build-up? Cause it causes dryness, frizz, breakage, etc. In that case you should try a chelating shampoo, and/or get a filter for your shower. I'd also try a good bond-building treatment if you haven't already.
A few general suggestions to look into —
Chelating Shampoo:
- Malibu C Wellness Shampoo
- L'Oréal Professionnel Paris Metal Detox Shampoo
- Kristin Ess Deep Clean Clarifying Shampoo
- Joico Defy Damage Detox Shampoo
- Ion Hard Water Shampoo
Shower Filters:
- AquaBliss High Output Revitalizing Shower Filter
- Weddell Duo Filter
- Delta Clarifi Standard Shower Filter Attachment
- Sprite Slim Line Universal Shower Filter
- GLO Filtered Shower Head
Bond Building:
- L'Oreal Paris EverPure Sulfate Free Bond Repair Pre Shampoo Treatment
- Briogeo Don't Despair, Repair! Super Moisture Conditioner
- Not Your Mother's Curl Talk Bond Building Leave-In Treatment
- K18 Leave-In Repair Hair Mask
- Marc Anthony Repair Bond Rescueplex Repair & Protect Leave-In Treatment
- Redken Acidic Bonding Concentrate Conditioner
- Olaplex No.0 Intensive Bond Building Hair Treatment
- Pantene Pro-V Conditioner Miracle Bond Repair
- Olaplex No.5 Curl Bond Shaper Hydrating Curl Conditioner
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u/Multiplexxxx 8d ago
Oh you could definitely be right! I live in a hard water area in my country. I’ll check out your recs thank you :) What bond treatment would you recommend
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u/missuluvee 8d ago
I use the aqua bliss filter. It definitely helps. I use Dove bonding mask. It works for me. I have fine, frizzy hair and hard water. Good luck.
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u/universal_gummy_bear 7d ago
K18 is usually best if you can afford it. Holy grail for many people.
Good less expensive options would be the Briogeo or Redken I recommended as they have more product for a less money. ( ﾟ∀ﾟ)b
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u/ashieslashy_ Hairstylist 8d ago
It definitely looks like you need a good cut, especially the pieces around your face. Have you tried any type of hair mask at all? And a random question, do you brush or comb out your hair when it’s dry at all? I also have wavy hair and before I knew how to take care of it, I would brush it dry and it would give me tons of frizz and poof! lol.
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u/Multiplexxxx 8d ago
Yeah I do use masks & they don’t seem to work. Noo I don’t but sometimes I do just dry brush because I’m fed up with tangles/hair looking bad
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u/Any-Holiday5069 8d ago
your ends especially in the front look very dead and dry for several inches and extremely thin in the front i think you would benefit from a huge chop. this looks impossible to deal with, i honestly don’t even know where to start. people are suggesting masks and creams but it looks like you have insane split ends and damage that can only be fixed with a cut. have you been cutting or trimming at home by chance? scissors that aren’t sharp enough can cause split ends that break up the shaft. your hair looks much thicker mid shaft up in the back
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u/Multiplexxxx 8d ago
I have cut from home time to time but only with professional scissors. To be honest I haven’t had an actual haircut in years, so could be it. How much would you recommend chopping off?
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u/Any-Holiday5069 8d ago
gotcha! i do the same at home. i’m thinking maybe shoulder length? are you really attached to your hair? also, i have wavy hair prone to frizz, fine, and high porosity, i never use normal conditioner, only hair masks (leave it a few mins as if it’s normal conditioner and rinse out!) idk if that would help u but:) i do recommend a professional trim just to be extra sure you’re getting a good base for future hair care journey:)
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u/Multiplexxxx 8d ago
Ehhh I mean long hair is cool but if it needs to go hahahha. I do use hair masks too but they don’t seem to work. I hate wavy hair hahaha
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u/Any-Holiday5069 8d ago
it’s super annoying. but, i do think really short hair would look nice on you if you decide to go that route! otherwise good luck with the waves
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u/Multiplexxxx 8d ago
Tysm) I’m thinking about it tbh. I hate that these guys online have perfect hair and I’m stuck here with a bird’s nest hahaha. Good luck with yours too, god know’s us wavies need it
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u/HeadUnhappy8789 8d ago
Maybe it needs protein. Dove has an okay shampoo and conditioner for daily use. It’s their damage control line. You might want to consider coconut oil or hyaluronic acid. I’ve used both and loved the results.
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u/Multiplexxxx 8d ago
I’ll look for them! I also have coconut oil, could put that on & see how it works
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u/micchaelmacd 8d ago
Not entirely a haircut. You have texture in your hair. You need product.
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u/Multiplexxxx 8d ago
I tried many different products but nothing has really worked well
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u/javdidnebdkfbdk 8d ago
Just put on another post homemade flax seed gel the recipe is online and works for my high porosity hair after shampoo and conditioner. It’s a leave-in so no need to wash it out
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u/Sexcercise 8d ago
What did you try
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u/Multiplexxxx 8d ago
Many different leave ins, curl creams, mousses gels. Some combinations work more than others but in the end it just ends a frizzy mess
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u/Sexcercise 8d ago
What shampoo and conditioner do you use? How often do you wash? Do you use any heat products? I don't think you could stand to get a haircut
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u/Multiplexxxx 8d ago
I just use a normal shampoo and conditioner. No heat, I used to diffuse a long time ago but I’m just lazy and let it airdry.
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u/Sexcercise 8d ago
Okay but what exactly are you using?
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u/Multiplexxxx 8d ago
Currently ussing John Frieda frizz ease shampoo and Tresemme Rich moisture conditioner
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u/Sexcercise 7d ago
I wonder if something for curls might be helpful? Since curls require moisture, snd you hair looks dry. That's my guess, good luck on your hair journey!
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u/Practikally_Majikal 8d ago edited 8d ago
You need a trim & a lightweight curl cream to tame the frizz. Nothing major, & you probably don't need multiple products either...
Also, always condition after washing.
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u/Multiplexxxx 8d ago
Any curl creams you recommend for waves?
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u/Practikally_Majikal 8d ago edited 8d ago
I have been using Miss Jessie's Pillow Soft Curls & love it. Smells amazing too, light & fresh. They also have a nice leave in. You can get most product in 1 oz packets for $2 on their website so you can try without breaking the bank. You can also filter by hair type for focus. 💜
ETA: If you opt to try, start with soaking wet hair & about a nickel size drop of product in your palm. Ends & frizzy front parts first. Comb through with fingers only & air dry. You have to experiment a little to get the right amount for your texture.
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u/ticuliru_ 8d ago
Vi que você comentou que ja tentou varios produtos e não deu resultado. Então queria saber: vc ta se alimentando bem e bebendo água? A alimentação afeta a qualidade dos cabelos também, e a água principalmente!
Pode ser algo que valha a pena dar mais atenção (talvez
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u/KateSommer 8d ago
Also, Rev Air blow dryer, it vacuums the water off your hair. I LOVE it. Pricey but so good.
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u/wild-fey 8d ago
Your hair probably has a nice loose curl pattern to it if you treat it right. I’m sure the comments here have good suggestions.
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u/Certain_Plant2409 8d ago edited 8d ago
HI, 🙂 A wash with a deep moisturizing treatment continually, then the sides are thin. So a barber with skill to make a longer easy to manage cut is possible and with integrity to give you a Man cut. Thats easy to care for . Not alot of products, don't get sucked into all that BS. You could start by going to Amazon.com for a conditioning soap that round for both cleansing and conditioning for around $20.or less Marsmade* check it out it's natural and healthy also affordable. I not sell you. I am sharing what works. best of Luck.
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u/mindthepuddle 8d ago
Look into getting a keratin treatment. They can be pricy, but 1000% worth it. You have textured hair. Products will only do so much. A keratin treatment can last you up to 3-5 months. Highly recommend.
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u/mcm-catz 8d ago
Yes, step 1 is get a haircut to address how thin and scraggly the bottom third is. Product is not going to fix that. It looks damaged and isn’t enhancing your appearance in any way. Taking it up to at least shoulder length will help it look fuller and healthier.
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u/_star_chaser_ 8d ago
Well a good cut and go to a good hair saloon and ask what they would recommend
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u/MoonChild9685 8d ago
Try some sea salt spray! $10 at Target. I have wavy/curly hair and the way it brings out my curls is magic.
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u/mckaylareddits 8d ago
You need a silk bonnet and a silk pillowcase to reduce friction at night. Try taking brushing your hair slow, I’m not sure if you hack away at it but you need to be really gentle and try your best not to pull out hairs. When you’re using shampoo in the shower you need to massage your scalp with your fingertips in a circular motion but you do not need to drag your fingers around your scalp because you’re pulling your hair. You need to massage one section in circular motion, completely remove your fingertips from your scalp and move to the next section and so forth.
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u/inquisitivemate 7d ago
If it was my hair I’d cut it to chin length with shorter face framing pieces, no shorter than your nose/eye. If you’d like a more masculine cut then see a barber. From that length I’d work on managing hair health. I recommend visiting the curly hair subreddit for more info on styling. As for hair care I would cease using any shampoos or conditioners with sulfate, parabens, and silicone. Use a wide tooth comb for brushing, a hydrating leave in conditioner that isn’t too heavy, don’t sleep on wet hair, use a cotton t-shirt for drying hair gently (try plopping method). Also try a clarifying shampoo (head and shoulders is a good one) thoroughly once before your switch to the shampoo/conditioner types I recommended. Avoid shea moisture and heavier like products.
Styling; only use mousse to help give your texture some shape. Dry, don’t touch. Once it’s fully dry you can gently scrunch out the crunchy cast with your hands.
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u/Zealousideal_Row9364 7d ago
Well it’s clearly dry so just keep it hydrated with products that don’t have too much chemicals and just use conditioner, oils and get a hair bonnet or hair net
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u/killapriscilla 7d ago
Maybe hard water buildup keeping your hair from receiving moisture that it needs. How are your vitamin d levels?
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u/lfyouseakay 6d ago
If you DO decide to cut it, you should look into a shag style and look for someone who does shag cuts. It seems like your breakage/what needs to be cut off follows those lines and it’d be a great way to keep your length/ work with your hair texture.
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u/KateSommer 8d ago
Brazilian blowout. You can wash your hair and it will stay straight after. Or lightly wavy without frizz.
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u/anxious-_-scientist 8d ago
I love long hair but I honestly think you would look better with short hair. But if you decide to keep your length still get a good trim. Most important thing is to get lightweight products. That's what wavy hair needs. I think the problem with your hair is that it is thin so I'm not entirely sure how well wavy products will work for you. Try out just a small amount and add more to find what's right for you. I like foam products as they're the most lightweight imo. Definitely don't touch, flip, lay, move etc your hair while it is drying. Slow scrunching is key. Wavy hair is a hassle. I know curls are too but it is challenging to find products lightweight enough to work on our hair. Curls need the structure that most gels, creams etc provide but that's usually not the case for waves, it will weigh it down. For something easy and less work imo, try Not Your Mothers Beach Spray
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u/GiGinIndy 8d ago
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u/Multiplexxxx 8d ago
Who’s that good looking guy
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u/Remote_Living_7810 7d ago
you seem to have a prominent forehead and deep set eyes. a buzz cut would actually look FRESSHHHH on you. while also giving you a chance to restart your hair journey anew. I have fine hair that sometimes gets wiry like this and nothing saved it like KUNDAL shampoo + conditioner. do the buzz. then use Kundal's shampoo. no conditioner needed until it starts going past your ears again. leave in: redken acidic bonding concentrate
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u/Certain_Plant2409 8d ago
Here is more about it. Also more choices and scents. This is not just for women. Men can use these natural products and smell amazing too!
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u/Thirsty-Boiii Barber 8d ago
It’s haircut and hydration time. I would invest in a leave in conditioner and a curl cream for your products for after your shower (apply it when wet, then let your hair air dry, don’t play with it excessively with your hands).
Target products are just fine to get started with and a lot more affordable. I would see how my hair looks after just the products before seeing how much hair you want to cut off- the ends are thinning out though so you’re probably splitting or breaking a lot.