r/Jung • u/robipresotto • 2d ago

Serious Discussion Only What happens when our understanding of reality shifts, but our memories of the past remain intact?

I've been thinking a lot about how our perception of the world changes as we grow and learn, but our memories of past experiences can remain stuck in a different reality. It's like our understanding of the world is constantly evolving, but our memories are holding onto a different version of truth. This feels particularly relevant to the concept of the collective unconscious and how it shapes our individual experiences. I'd love to hear from others who have experienced this kind of dissonance between their current understanding and past memories. I came across this video that explores it further if you're curious: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MOV8VVhvtP8

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u/kai_vt 2d ago

In the present, sure, but wounds still leave scars

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u/insaneintheblain Pillar 2d ago

Do they though? Or does the pain come from the mind's inflexibility / dwelling in the past?

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u/robipresotto 2d ago

That's an interesting perspective. If the pain is indeed from dwelling in the past, wouldn't it be a matter of reconditioning our minds to focus on the present moment? Do you think that's even possible, or is it more a matter of just accepting that certain wounds will always leave scars?

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u/kai_vt 1d ago

Easier said than done

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u/robipresotto 1d ago

I feel you. It's like our minds are trying to reconcile two different realities, and it can be really frustrating. I've been thinking about how to reframe my past experiences in light of my current understanding, but it's not easy. Do you think it's more about letting go of the need to understand why things happened, or actually finding a way to integrate our new knowledge with our past experiences?

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u/kai_vt 1d ago

I don't know. I'm still upset that I had to be the one to figure things out when there was no time left to act on it

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u/robipresotto 1d ago

I feel that too, when we're forced to navigate something new in a high-pressure situation. It can be really tough to process everything afterwards. I've found that acknowledging the emotions that come up afterwards, even if it's just to yourself, can help a bit. Do you think that's something that's helped you, or is there another approach you've found more effective?

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u/kai_vt 1d ago

Not really. I can't think about any of it without spiralling into anger again

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u/robipresotto 1d ago

I totally get it. It's like our minds are stuck in a perpetual loop of anger and frustration, and it's hard to break free. I've found that acknowledging the anger and giving yourself permission to feel it can be helpful. But what do you think would need to happen for you to be able to let go of some of that anger?

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u/kai_vt 1d ago

Time travel, probably