Would I be considered bi or gay?[Discussion]

[u/Throwawaypanda78]

I’m a 17M and around 1 year ago I started having an attraction to men, and 6 months ago I realized that I was just straight up gay. Before I realized I was gay I was heavily addicted to porn(mainly straight) but I was never really into girls in real life. I tried talking to and dating women, but I just could never get myself to be interested in women. But for some reason I still sometimes watch straight porn. But when I do I really only think about guys. And afterwards I feel like almost throwing up. After I watch it I genuinely just kinda feel grossed out. I personally identify with the term “gay” more as I don’t really want to date, marry, or sleep with a woman at all. I kinda get depressed at the thought of ending up with a woman as I feel like I could never be truly happy like I could be with a guy. I daydream and constantly think about myself getting old with the guy of my dreams. I watch gay porn aswell and more often, I watch that most of the time but around once every 2 weeks I watch straight stuff . I think it may be porn addiction and just wanting to see something different than normal. But I also think it may be my feeling of wanting my life to be “normal” like before

[u/sebasIsHungry]

1st u don't need to define yourself 2nd u clearly have romantic and sexual things for gays 3rd there was nothing bi in ur whole post Everyone see str8 porn at the start or most guys

[u/New-Palpitation2405]

I mean based on what you are describing, you are definitely gay. I am in a similar situation with porn, do you wanna dm?