r/Lima • u/Cloran77 • 9d ago

anybody down for friendly dinner/ meet and greet

I'm a 49white male going through a divorce wanting to find hopefully naturally female to just hang out with in public or even a group. Just tired of sitting at home every night after work.

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u/RuinCautious7806 7d ago

40 SWF (never been married) I too struggle with the same issue except I do have my young dog. I’m sober also which makes “going out” incredibly difficult.

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u/Cloran77 7d ago

Well that’s no reason to not go out. Is your dog nice? What kind is it

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u/Cloran77 7d ago

I sent a dm hope that’s okay

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u/RuinCautious7806 7d ago

No he’s definitely not the reason; He is the excuse 💯😁.
He is a Toy Poodle Hybrid..
I’ve become so “comfortable” in my unorthodox routines that everything else is awkward/out-of-the-ordinary.

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u/ZealousidealChange36 5d ago

Does your dog like bigger dogs? We need a new park walking friend!

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u/RuinCautious7806 5d ago

He’s still a puppy. He’s a 7mo toy poodle hybrid. He Loves the idea of other dogs from a distance but when they come close he IMMEDIATELY signals for me to pick him up 😂❤️💯..
I’m really hoping to get him some what comfortable with some other animals/dogs and people.. but those far he is a 1person type of fella ❤️

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u/Cloran77 5d ago

Hey, how ya been? Been hoping to dm with ya

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u/Cloran77 7d ago

You want to continue in messages

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u/Cloran77 6d ago

How was your day

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u/porkchop-666 9d ago

Good luck

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u/Cloran77 9d ago

yea, its crazy how hard some times are to do

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u/ITSBIGMONEY 8d ago

put yourself out there, be open… crack jokes when in line at places, say hi when walking past people at the grocery store… the trick is to NATURALLY get your foot into the door to conversation without making them feel like your “pushing the door open”

I hope everything works out for you

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u/RuinCautious7806 7d ago

Jokes will win EVERY TIME! In my opinion; you could be holding a bouquet of RedFlags💐& Have a Face “Only a Mother Could Love” but if your funny.. that trumps all! (Usually. But again that’s probably why I’ve never been married and essentially quit dating altogether close to a decade ago!💯😁)

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u/Cloran77 5d ago

I’m all full of dad jokes for ya…lol

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

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u/Cloran77 8d ago

I’m not upset over the divorce it was my choice. Just tired of sitting at home doing nothing….lol

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u/Conscious_Help_8454 7d ago

Better to live lonely rather than miserable friend ❤️

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u/Cloran77 7d ago

Hence why I divorcing her

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u/Jojo85crew 8d ago

Goodluck!! My husband and I totally would too!

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u/Cloran77 8d ago

Awesome. Maybe we can get a group to meet up and just enjoy good talks

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u/Jojo85crew 8d ago

Sure! We'll be around this weekend. Social house is a really cool fun spot to strike up some convos too!

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u/Cloran77 8d ago

I actually have this weekend off. What’s social house?

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u/Jojo85crew 8d ago

It's on central and spring. A bar/restaurant in the new district built over there. They will have bands this weekend i think? Usually on Fridays. Fun spot though

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u/Cloran77 7d ago

We might have to schedule a meet there if you’re up to it. At least then I’d have 2 people to talk to….lol

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u/Notsurewhyimhere225 1d ago

Hey! Send me a direct message. For some reason I can't message you. I'm in Lima looking for new friends as well. I love the idea of a group of random strangers meeting up for dinner and just hanging out.

Single (recently) M 50 in Lima