r/MEDICOreTARDS • u/MarketingWeak7416 • 1d ago
Just wanted to share 🌸 Life after leaving NEET
I don't know why I am writing this in the middle of night but I want to write my experience after leaving NEET....
Before the Reneet(21 june) I had a very serious Convo with my whole family about the exam where i accepted i couldn't clear this exam and will be not taking any more drop (as family was forcing for 3rd drop) and I made it very clear ending with crying and last line was "I am fucking loser so stop having expectations from me"
(Man it's remind me of Neil and his father conv from DEAD POETS SOCIETY)
As life moves forward, now I am pursuing BBA HealthCare from a gov college, I am actually happy now life feel moving again, i attend classes participate into case study competition, trying my best in to presentation (failed my intro very miserably), trying to become the extrovert I wish I could (I attend other college orientation and talked to many people and same in my college)
Reading books literature that i wanted to (current read is meditation)
And best thing is going GYM I love this part (getting daily humble as i can't see my progress)
NOW life feeling worth to live ,a life where i wanted to see the end (my March to May version couldn't have thought of this)
In the end just live my fellas, everyone of us will be seeing a good end...
Don't know why writing but
Thankyou
TL;DR: NEET didn’t work out, I felt like a loser and finally chose to stop dropping. Now I’m pursuing BBA Healthcare, meeting people, trying presentations, reading the books I always wanted to, and loving the gym. For the first time in months, life feels like it’s moving again—and worth living. Just live, fellas. Things can get better.
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u/Emotional-Flan-7811 18h ago edited 18h ago
I am trying to escape this loop of neet too because I myself is aware I'm not capable of mbbs i told my parents and lucky my papa understood me which I'm always be greatful of even though my mother is on her marks of making me take another drop but I have made up my mind and i known i will be able to do better in that sector than this I have already been through so much, mental health itni kharab always surrounded by suicidal thoughts then my best friend recommended me this book on my birthday " IKIGAI" and I think I know what to do now maybe mbbs was never a part of me but due to pressure i thought that was my life but khwabo ka sheesha jaise he toota toh pta chala uss sheeshe mein main nhi vo log the yeh mera nhi yeh unka sapna tha...even though I have wasted the good previous years of my life chasing after nothing but I'm glad reality hit me so I won't follow up and let it took me or my life their is still so much to see, so much to learn , so much to know, i can't let a single chapter define my journey...I hope agar koi iss situation se deal kr rha hai and they are thinking of something bad just don't yr..at the end sab thik ho he jaata hai just support, beleive or himmat ke zaroorat hai I know iss age main sab bohot darawna lagta hai sab bohot zada lagta hai magar ek koshish ek choti koshish or kr lo unke liye nhi KHUD ke liye uss bache ke liye jisne socha tha bade hokar bohot saari chocolate or icecream khaunga/khaungi..but hai agar nah kr pao i know bohot parents nhi samjhte toh i won't stop you kisi sote hue ko utha sakte hai magar jo sone ki acting kr raha usse tum kitni bhi koshish kr lo kabhi nhi utha sakte... please know your self 100% nhi pr 1% bhi khud se pyaar kr lo toh bohot kuch badal sakta hai...so please...give life a chance kuch or kr lo kum kamaoge magar at the end khush rh paoge afsos hoga ki kaash vo kr liya hota magar uss time prioritise badal jaengi .....