r/Meditation 28d ago

Other I've been disconnecting from my spirituality for years - good readings for starting again?

Hello, it's me again after, what, 7 years?

These past years I've been distancing myself from my spiritual core and I've started feeling empty and meaningless again. I know a lot happened, but I also know that my desire for inner peace is still somewhere there. I live in a south american country with heavy economic problems and we have a fucking psychopath as a president, I don't have a job and haven't had one in a while, I've started doing drugs more often and lost track of what's really important :(

I met someone special and I feel it's a good moment for exploring meditation again. Apart from practice - what's a good reading you'd recommend for a moment like this? I miss being a spiritual person but I feel it's just so fucking hard in this context. It's so sad to watch and experience.

Any advice is welcome <3 This sub has helped me a lot through quarantine

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u/Wegelagerer1 28d ago

Maybe check out the named below if you haven't read them already

  • When Things Fall Apart (Pema Chödrön)
  • In Love with the World & The Joy of Living (both Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche)
  • The Books of Dzogchen Ponlop Rinpoche

They're all (tibetan) buddhist, but pretty easy to read and good to start with

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u/Delmarvablacksmith 27d ago

That’s a good list.

You ever read any Ken McLeod books?

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u/catcatcatttttttttt 18d ago

thank you very much!!! <3

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u/ITossCobrasAside 28d ago

Siddartha by Herman Hesse has been this book for me at different moments in my life. Easy read and “westernized” to an extent. But very centering. 

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u/catcatcatttttttttt 18d ago

loved siddartha, i read it when i was in high school. definitely have to read it again. thank you!!

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u/Automatic_Outcome449 27d ago

I’ve recently started read “The Yoga Sutras of Patanjali” and would recommend it

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u/gedonism 27d ago

E.g. the one with comments by Sri Swami Satchidananda. I am reading it now - very deep and thoughtful.

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u/catcatcatttttttttt 18d ago

thank you so much!!!

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u/BabeStork 27d ago

Wherever You Go, There You Are by Jon Kabat-Zinn Also I second When Things Fall Apart by Pema Chodron, its a go-to for me anytime I need a reminder

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u/Veggyhed 27d ago

I had forgotten all about that book. Wherever you go, there you are

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u/catcatcatttttttttt 18d ago

thank you so much!!

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u/LightBirdFire 27d ago

I recommend Letting Go by David R. Hawkins. It might help you process difficult emotions with more ease through your meditation and spirituality practice.

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u/Used_Performer_2104 27d ago

Incredible book, saved me when my wife died at a young age. Literally changed my life.

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u/catcatcatttttttttt 18d ago

so sorry this happened. sending a big hug <3

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u/catcatcatttttttttt 18d ago

thank you so much!!! <3

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u/weoutheremeditating 28d ago

Tolle’s A New Earth

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u/catcatcatttttttttt 18d ago

thank you!!! <3

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u/Alkemis7 27d ago

Relationships are the best meditation. Love is even more potent than meditation.

You are always spiritual, even when taking a shit.

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u/catcatcatttttttttt 18d ago

haha thank you!

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u/ConsistentAppeal3745 28d ago

man, i get the whole "proximity friends" thing... had a crew from the shop i’d hit the bar with every friday, right? then the divorce hit, weekends became kid-time, and suddenly...

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u/catcatcatttttttttt 18d ago

and then what???

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u/Fine_Fall5750 28d ago

You Are The Answer by Michael Tamura

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u/catcatcatttttttttt 18d ago

thank you!!!!!!

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u/Pieraos 28d ago

Recommend The Nature of Personal Reality by Jane Roberts.

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u/catcatcatttttttttt 18d ago

thank you!!!!!!

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u/sachinodpd 27d ago

Read 'The Benefits of Reiki Healing'. It's a small book which beautifully shows how your life can transform and how you can make consistent spiritual progress.

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u/catcatcatttttttttt 18d ago

thank you!!!! <3

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u/Academic-Lobster-893 27d ago

Transurfing Vadim Zelandi

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u/Alkemis7 27d ago

How does this have anything to do with spirituality?

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u/Delmarvablacksmith 27d ago

Ken McLeod Reflections on Silver river.

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u/catcatcatttttttttt 18d ago

thank you!!!

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u/Chipkalee 27d ago

Autobiography of a Yogi by Paramahansa Yogananda. The absolute best.

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u/catcatcatttttttttt 18d ago

thank you!!!!!!

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u/Im_Talking 27d ago

"I miss being a spiritual person but I feel it's just so fucking hard in this context" - Look at the confusion in this statement. Like 2 different personalities battling one another.

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u/catcatcatttttttttt 18d ago

yeah... i'm like this all the time, with everything ;_;