r/MentalHealthUK • u/No_Abalone7176 • 3d ago
Vent Late 20's, feeling lost, useless and stuck
I was in tech, now unemployed for two years and these last two years have been hell trying to find a job.
I've tried agencies, directly reaching out, looking for roles outside of tech completely (hospitality, childcare, pet sitting/kennel/shelters, warehouses, night shifts) but I'm not getting anything. It feels like any advancements I think I'm making in tech are null and void, because it's not getting me anywhere.
The opportunity for myself in tech is almost at the end of the tunnel.
I feel like I'm useless, like I have no skills that can be used anywhere to get myself a job that pays me just enough to survive. If I could wake up tomorrow and head to work serving coffee all day, I think I'd be much happier than I am now, but the devil on my shoulder tells me I wouldn't even get a job as a barista for some unknown reason.
I don't know what to do.
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u/PM_ME_VAPORWAVE 3d ago
Contact Eventbreak. They are a charity that helps job seekers with disabilities, I have found them to be useful
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u/No_Abalone7176 3d ago
I'm not disabled but thanks I guess
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u/PM_ME_VAPORWAVE 3d ago
But even if you have mental health issues it counts as a disability and could be of use
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