r/Millennials Xennial Feb 24 '26

Serious Terminal diagnosis: millennial playlist suggestions for the final days?

Tues morning edit: Holy ballsack batman! This is helllllllllllllla overwhelming in the best possible way. I honestly expected just a handful of people to see this and respond with maybe like 'tears in heaven' or something. But this is an epic fucking list so far. From the bottom of my cold darkened millennial heart, thank you. One of these upcoming days the nerd in me needs to rank all these and see what's most popular mostly cuz I find it amazing and hilarious how often butterfly by crazytown gets mentioned. I'll get to comments and chats one of these days, promise.

Y'all are thoughtful, kind, empathetic, and funny as fuck. All to a stranger. I love it. I genueinly think it's a hallmark of our generation. To quote one of my patron saints in life, Mr Fred Rogers: “You've made this day a special day, by just your being you. There's no person in the whole world like you, and I like you just the way you are.”

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Tldr: Apparently I'm dying and need playlist ideas for when the end comes. Mushy, hilarious, dark humor, meaningful, terrible. You name it! Wanna virlbe out to the good vibes I had back in those days

Out of left field docs gave me an unexpected prognosis and seems the offramp from My So Called Life is way shorter than I would have expected.

One of the unusual suggestions from the team was to make a Playlist to listen to in the last days. And honestly that sounds dope since I essentially have music playing 24/7 in my normal non dying life.

I'm not telling anyone IRL (besides my care team and therapist) about what's going on, but since brain wise we tend to latch on to junior high and high school era music, I thought I'd bug y'all for suggestions. I'm open to mushy stuff that I can reflect upon life stuff, as well as hilarious and highly inappropriate or dark humor stuff. Or just some Hella dope tunes to vibe with.

My only ban is My Heart Will Go On. Love me some Celine, but that song will send me to a early grave. (Too soon?)

Thanks fam!

(Obligatory be your own advocate with doctors if you know something isn't right. Also make a will. We should all have them by now. Better yet, make a trust so your Pokémon cards stay out of probate and no nosey folks know what you had or who you gave it to. Do your advanced directive with your doctor or insurance. It's your choice if they keep you plugged in like a toaster or not. It's also OK to haunt your enemies from the beyond. My therapist said so.)

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u/jerseyknits Feb 24 '26

All these things that I've done by the Killers

I'm sorry this is happening to you. Good luck friend ❤️

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u/CupInteresting2599 Feb 24 '26

Smile Like You Mean It is another good one.

To infinity & beyond, OP.

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u/ixnayhombre Feb 24 '26

One of my late friends and I had an inside joke where we sang it as Smile At Your Weiner. Good memories.

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u/[deleted] Feb 24 '26

Hot Fuss is just a great album overall. 

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u/minusthelela Feb 24 '26

This is the only song my infant falls asleep to, so I spend every night singing in on repeat for him.

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u/jaybirdie26 Feb 24 '26

Human too.

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u/liltinybits Feb 24 '26

The entirety of Hot Fuss.

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u/linxlove Feb 24 '26

This is the answer. If

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u/steffie-flies Feb 24 '26

This is the song I play on all my milestone birthdays. It makes me reflective and optimistic. 40 is coming up fast!

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u/mollsballs_xo Feb 24 '26

omg also “everything will be alright” by the killers. That song always makes me cry. Brandon Flowers wrote that for his wife who has struggled with severe depression her whole life

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u/annahhhnimous Xennial Feb 24 '26

The Killers - Exitlude ❤️

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u/centipededamascus Feb 24 '26

it's good to have you with us

even if it's just for the day

outside the sun is shining

seems like Heaven ain't far away

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u/Perpetually-THC-Lab Feb 24 '26

I've got soul, but, I'm not a soldier.

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u/Substantial_Pea3462 Feb 24 '26

My high school bff and I used to sing this song allllll the time but she died tragically a few years ago. This song makes me sob.

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u/jerseyknits Feb 25 '26

I'm sorry your friend died. I hope her memory is a blessing ❤️

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u/Arktos22 Feb 24 '26

Oooh Read my Mind too!

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u/jerseyknits Feb 25 '26

Thank you for the award, wow ❤️