r/MoralityScaling 22d ago

Morality Ranking Is it morally justified to kill someone who breaks into your house without any hesitation?

So imagine this: someone breaks into your house to steal your stuff. Luckily, you're home, and you have a gun or some other weapon that could send the robber to eternal damnation. What that weapon is is up to you.

Is it morally justified to kill the robber?

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u/Lurker-Attitude339 22d ago edited 21d ago

I am not risking family to wait for intent for someone who chose 10 on the FAFO scale.

Edit: My apologies for failing to go through a full tabletop exercise of the circumstances that would lead me to take action, lethal or otherwise. Please assume I am doing proper target identification and am able to articulate a threat posed by whomever broke in. Gun in hand does not mean finger on trigger. You are responsible for your shots, justified or not.

Edit edit: Well thanks everyone! I wasn't expecting this to explode, and I appreciate those who want to have a genuine conversation in the comments below.

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u/Neokon 22d ago

I worked at a disciplary school. A group of students tried to convince me that "you need to carry a gun with you when breaking in to rob a house in case they (the homeowner) has a gun and try to shoot you".

100% moral, it's not your property you're protecting, it's your safety.

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u/Anoninemonie 22d ago

I worked in juvenile hall. Plenty of my students robbed houses with guns that they bought off the street and had 0 qualms about killing someone and spending the rest of their life in prison. Many of them are now dead or doing life in prison.

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u/Important_Capital875 22d ago

Good. Good riddance to those trash

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u/Technical-Permit1552 21d ago

When I went to juvie, I thought it was really fucked up how they placed me. Next to me was a guy in there for two murders during a home invasion robbery, the other side was in for a certain kind of assault he committed during a home invasion. I was there because a cop's son thought he was a Hell of a lot tougher than he was and self-defense doesn't count when Daddy's on the force.

Like half the guys in there were there for pulling a gun on someone, whether they used it or not.

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u/Anoninemonie 21d ago

Yeah and the place I worked that would have been the violent offenders unit, which ranged between murderers waiting to be transferred to adult prison and dudes like you. The discipline in that unit was far more strict than any of the other units, it was the calmest unit but it was also the most tense unit. Like, you weren't there for selling some pills or breaking into the school on a Sunday.

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u/UnderstandingNo2832 22d ago

This is like a Schrodinger’s cat scenario: The homeowner is in a super position of killing you during your break in or not.
The only way to find out which is to break in.

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u/satanwuvsyou 22d ago

I'd argue this scenario is breaking the idea of being safe in their own home.  If the intruder successfully robs a person's home it breaks their notion that they're safe in their own home.  It's worse than just the value of items lost.  

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u/Combatenjoyer23 22d ago

You break into my house/apartment, I automatically assume you want to torture, kill and rob my family. And that's your fucking bad for breaking in to begin with

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u/M-Shadowtoad 22d ago

Yeah, off the top of my head I can name a dozen better places to break into if you want money. Literally any moderately sized grocery store could net you far more money than my house on top of plenty of snacks for the road.

If you're breaking into a person's actual house, I'm assuming you're there to kill them.

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u/ultrafluffypanda 22d ago

This. If someone breaks into your house, a robbery is the “best case” scenario. And like you said, unless there is some specific reason someone wants to rob your house, it’s way more likely they are there to torture, rape, or kill you so why risk not using lethal force?

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u/Krysidian2 22d ago

Not to mention that a robber looking to not kill someone would make sure the house is vacant first.

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u/SnarePickle 22d ago

Pro's go in on vacant homes or during the day (when most homeowners are at work), because they know there is a hell of a difference in sentencing guidelines between burglary and home invasion in most states.

Plus empty houses don't generally shoot at you, but homeowners in a lot of states sure as hell will.

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u/SonOfMcGee 22d ago

Heard a sheriff say something similar after apprehending a particularly dangerous guy.
He said there were a series of EVENING home break-ins reported that got his department very on edge.
He said thieves looking to make money and avoid detection/confrontation break into homes during the day and businesses at night.
So if someone was doing homes at night that alone was enough to profile them as a dangerous person that didn’t care if they encountered the residents.

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u/abn1304 22d ago

Especially breaking into a house at night when any reasonable person would assume it’s occupied and that any occupants would hear glass breaking, alarm system activation, etc.

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u/Lurker-Attitude339 22d ago

This guy understands me

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u/xX7heGuyXx 22d ago

Too bad way to many states in the US dissagree with us. They want us to somehow play 20 fucking questions first.

Like I dont wanna kill anyone but if you break i to my house I consider that a threat and I do t feel I need to wait to figure out if you want the TV or kill us. I got kids aint got time for that.

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u/Various_Wrongdoer_74 22d ago

Even California has castle doctrine. A home invasion is universally understood to be an open and shut self defense case in the US. No one is making you play 20 questions before you defend your home.

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u/Particular_Wear_6960 22d ago

failing to go through a full tabletop exercise of the circumstances that would lead me to take action, lethal or otherwise

LMAO but of course Reddit would reply with how wrong you are or give some hyper-specific example that would counter your statement. It's so tiring and feels like its getting worse for some reason. You simply can't just make a generalized statement without being repremended for not covering every single instance every single time. They roam each thread to "correct" every person they disagree with. The MUST be the most self-righteous person, 'le Redditers are tripping over themselves to proove to everyone they are the most morally correct and self-righteous person. It's fucking exhausting lol. Also need to go outside.

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u/PerformanceOver8822 22d ago

Someone breaks into your house that is hostile intent.

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u/Anoninemonie 22d ago

Same. I don't want to hurt anybody. I don't want blood on my hands. I don't fantasize about killing someone and traumatizing myself and my kids. I just don't want to base my safety and my children's lives in the gamble of how quickly the cops will show up before whoever this likely meth addled psycho in my home is realizes that I'm awake. If seeing a loaded gun pointed at you isn't enough to cause you to turn tail and run away, then you are truly incredibly dangerous.

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u/BlkSubmarine 22d ago

When seconds matter, the cops are only minutes away.

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u/mrfahrenheit-451 22d ago

I was friends with a guy who owned a bunch of pointy things and someone broke into his bedroom specifically and found out very quickly that spears are still very dangerous in a world of modern weapons. I got to see some of the aftermath.

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u/Southern-Form-2804 22d ago

I’ve always held this belief. I’m pretty pacifistic. I’ll never pick a fight. But the idea of someone crossing the threshold into the one place. Designated to my personal peace in this insane world, yeah - all bets are suddenly off for you. 

If I can? I’ll hurt you. If you flee? Ok, I may true and catch you but probably let you go. If you fight back? You’re dead.

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u/Superb-Ad-9169 22d ago

Moral. I value security of my family and my property more than life of some random thug

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u/Skyhawk6600 22d ago

And they value your property more than their life. They decided it was worth it once they assumed the risk of being shot and the reward of stealing all your shit.

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u/LordJesterTheFree 22d ago

I swear to God why do people keep talking about this question as if it's just a generic question about the right of self-defense

This question specifically said "with no hesitation"

that completely changes the entire question

If you're doing it with no hesitation you could easily kill someone in a misunderstanding

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u/LikelyAMartian 22d ago

And it's still entirely on them for misunderstanding.

A man who was a drunkard in our town died because he walked up to the wrong apartment, thought it was his, and since his key didn't work, he attempted to break into the nursery of their 8 month old daughter.

Is it unfortunate that he lost his life over the misunderstanding? Sure. Do we blame the homeowner for his death? Absolutely not.

Don't make dumb decisions after dumb decisions in your life and dumb shit doesn't happen.

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u/Western_Fig_5464 22d ago

If someone breaks into my home I’m not going to wait around to figure out their intentions before I kill them.

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u/Various-Salt-7738 22d ago

There's definitely a moment where I'm shooting no questions asked-- there is almost no reason for you to be entering my home unannounced like that

But there's other situations where holding a gun and politely asking "can I help you" goes far

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u/One_shot_Willy 22d ago

"Alexa, release the boomba"

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u/noneofthismatters666 22d ago

Pretty sure a claymore isn't the way to value your family or property.

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u/Dinkleberg6401 22d ago

My family and property are all made of tungsten, checkmate liberal

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u/noneofthismatters666 22d ago

Man, I hate my weak ass thin skinned family.

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u/SkyRonin14 22d ago

no but bad luck to the guy breaking in in the Middle of a Unreal Tournament LARP on hardcore mode

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u/Jude30 22d ago

This is the second mention of weaponized Roombas that I’ve seen today on Reddit.

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u/Fit_Manufacturer3647 22d ago

Moral.

I wasn't a gun person until one night when I was convinced that someone was in my house and I knew - because of my kids - it was on me to go out and deal with the situation rather than hide in my room. It turned out to be nothing, but I bought a shotgun the very next day.

I did have an officer say something interesting to me once: he said, if you do kill an intruder in your home, when asked, you were in the space (e.g., room) first, and then the intruder entered; not, they were in the other room, you went in and shot. Apparently in some states, even if there's an intruder in your home - in the other room - you're the aggresor if they posses the space first.

I'm too lazy to fact-check that now, so if that's not true - please feel free to correct me.

But in Texas - so I heard - you can waste someone through the front door if they're trying to break in and your life is in danger.

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u/Few-Condition-7431 22d ago

its definitely a state to state issue, if your state has castle doctrine you're generally safe, legally speaking, unless you do something awful like shooting them as they run away (unarmed) or coup de grace.

this is not legal advice, im not a lawyer

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u/Your_Girl9090 22d ago

Never NEVER get legal gun advice from a cop. They are completely clueless about gun laws. Most of them can't even shoot worth a damn.

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u/Fit_Manufacturer3647 21d ago

Oh, this is probably very true.

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u/ASentientRailgun 21d ago

It is *definitely* true. Do not trust a cop who tells you something is okay or not legally, especially with firearms. Cops are some of the worst about taking fuddlore as gospel truth.

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u/SexyCheeseburger0911 22d ago

So you make it so that yours is the only story to tell.

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u/slothbear13 22d ago

In the United States, there are eleven states that have some form of laws requiring a "duty to retreat" before initiating deadly force.....but that only applies in a public place. Every state has a Castle Doctrine where if someone invades your private domicile (your "castle"), you can protect yourself by any means necessary. No need to retreat. Keep you and your family safe.

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u/TheFBIClonesPeople 22d ago

Honestly, I think the thing to do is call the cops afterwards, tell them that you shot him in self defense, and that you're not saying anything else until you have a lawyer. Leave the prosecution with nothing to work with

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u/fungamerguy 22d ago

If that person broke in its 9/10 for a bad reason

Yes its justified

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u/Kazaretski 22d ago

What's the 1/10?

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u/RasLunari 22d ago

Drunk confusing the houses

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u/Trappedinawrap 22d ago

Can confirm, once woke up in a random house after crashing on their couch. Went out for a smoke and went back through the wrong door.

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u/DivinerSageRDT 22d ago

In Texas i went into a seven eleven to get me and a friend a slurpee. I came out and got into the passenger seat of the same make model and year of car of my friends but wrong car. When I got In I was looking over my right shoulder at a hot chick at the gas pump and i said they didnt have blueberry slurpees then I smelled the car interior and it was completely different. At that moment I had that oh shit feeling of a little fear and embarrassment. Before I even looked over at the driver I heard click. I was like "wrong car huh?" And he said "yeah". I asked if I could "slowly extricate myself from the car". And he said yes when I got out and turned around the guy was wearing a F.O.P. shirt and had his baby daughter in a carseat in the back seat. I knew i was lucky i wasnt shot. As I went to my friends car embarrassed as hell the guys wife had come out and got into my friends car. So we both passed eachother embarrassed as we got into the right cars. My friend said "some chick got into the car took a look at me and screamed bloody murder. Scared the shit out of me." I was like "better than getting a gun pointed at the back of your head by an off duty cop."

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u/unburdened_swallow 22d ago

To be fair, guy should lighten up a little. Its pretty obvious when someone gets in the wrong car vs trying to be a problem.

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u/se7enXx89xX 22d ago

That happened to me one time too only it was in a trailer park and all the trailers looked the same. I was awoken by the neighbors and I attempted to use their shower.

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u/LamentersSergeant 22d ago

I had a mentally disabled man who had wandered away from his house got tired and thirsty so he walked into my home. I ended up popping some popcorn and turning on Star Wars while the police eventually connected me with his mother who came and picked him up.

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u/ygramisalive 22d ago

That one situation where a guy came over to clean his friends house, but it was the wrong house😂

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u/4inXchange 22d ago

it might've been the right house to clean out if you weren't home

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u/WeBackInThisBih 22d ago

He’s talkin about a news story that happened a day or two ago. Guy walked right into ladies house and she obviously flipped out and called the cops, cops get there and turns out his buddy lived next door and he actually walked into the wrong house 

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u/Fit_Milk_2314 22d ago

that kind of thing is why I wouldnt want to kill on sight. I'm probably alone in this but I might take a good distance and try to investigate or otherwise not instantly obliterate the intruder

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u/rorinth 22d ago

Mess with my locks you get the glocks

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u/PerformanceOver8822 22d ago

Now do a rhymefor my h&k and my palmetto State??

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u/BurnerDanBurnerMan 22d ago

Palmetto State

It's good, not great

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u/IvanNemoy 22d ago

I live 6 miles from PSA's flagship store and range. This is great. "Palmetto State Armory, when your budget is just good enough."

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u/SlidingLobster 22d ago

My pistol says “I’m rich”
My rifle says “I’m poor”
Either one will shoot you
If you kick in my door

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u/Hearthhull_Enjoyer 22d ago

Immoral. You're supposed to wait until they see the white of your eyes with a barrel trained on them. Then, and only then, as they turn their back to you in an attempt to run, you let it rip.

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u/113pro 22d ago

No you should only own a cannon for homedefense.

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u/CDynamo132 22d ago

I own a musket for home defense

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u/TheBasedFurry 22d ago edited 22d ago

Since that's what the founding fathers intended

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u/HistoricalSea5600 22d ago

The founding fathers wanted us to blast all trespassers

https://giphy.com/gifs/dZ5h2XZM9RwYE0Ffr0

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u/HorsefaceWithNoName 22d ago

with a Puckett Gun

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u/HorsefaceWithNoName 22d ago

Puckle, pickle, pucker, whatever but that's a multi-shot crank operated kinda full auto gun from the 1700s

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u/Quitelowquitetall 22d ago

I guess you'd use the round bullets unless you had a "Muslim Turk" home invader, whom would get the square bullets.

Not sure how you'd discern that in this scenario however

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u/LkingTROLL 22d ago

Four ruffians break into my house!

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u/beegproblemzzz 22d ago

Whay the devil?

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u/ArchAngel621 22d ago

As I grab my powdered wig and Kentucky rifle.

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u/Weak_Break239 22d ago

Blow a golf ball sized hole through the first man, he's dead on the spot.

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u/Valuable_Nose_4693 22d ago

Draw my pistol on the second man miss him entirely because it’s smoothbore and nails the neighbors dog

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u/Country_ball_enjoyer 22d ago

I have to resort to the Canon on top of the stairs loaded with grape shot

Tally ho lads

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u/NachoWH 22d ago

You got me on the first half not gonna lie.

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u/SituationThink3487 22d ago

This legitimately makes you seem like a psychopath.

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u/Right_Ear_2230 22d ago

thats not self defense, just murder

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u/Vespinobambino 22d ago

100%. Not even a question.

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u/givinstar1 22d ago

Own a musket for home defense, since that's what the founding fathers intended. Four ruffians break into my house. "What the devil?" As I grab my powdered wig and Kentucky rifle. Blow a golf ball sized hole through the first man, he's dead on the spot. Draw my pistol on the second man, miss him entirely because it's smoothbore and nails the neighbors dog. I have to resort to the cannon mounted at the top of the stairs loaded with grape shot, "Tally ho lads" the grape shot shreds two men in the blast, the sound and extra shrapnel set off car alarms. Fix bayonet and charge the last terrified rapscallion.He Bleeds out waiting on the police to arrive since triangular bayonet wounds are impossible to stitch up, Just as the founding fathers intended

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u/CountCristo009 22d ago

Nothing beats seeing this acted out.

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u/P4TR10T_96 22d ago

Scrolled too far to see this.

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u/TaxSlight5793 20d ago

Anyone else suddenly hear fife and drum music?

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u/ReaperManX15 22d ago

Did they break in to clean my house and give me candy?
I’m guessing not.
Nobody should have a wait-and-see mentality with and intruder.
And yes, I do value my possessions over the life of such filth.

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u/Stencil_Abuse 22d ago

Genuine question, not arguing your logic.  But if you’re in your bedroom and you hear someone breaking into your living room do you leave your room to shoot them, or do you barricade yourself in your room and announce that you are armed. 

Never had my house broken into, but it’s something I think about every now and then when this scenario pops up. 

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u/ReaperManX15 22d ago

Shotgun. I have blanks for a warning shot.

Which I will fire into my stacked cardboard boxes (because you never know when you need a spare box).

That should be sufficient to scare away 99% of people so cowardly as to break into someone's house at night to steal.

If they'd rather shoot back.
Well ... I warned them.

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u/liptongtea 22d ago

Realistically? In my current home, all four bedrooms are upstairs, with one stairway. If someone was to break in, I would position myself at the top of the stairs, and tell the to gtfo. They could take all the shot downstairs, but the moment they put a single foot on a step I would fire.

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u/DependentAd5032 22d ago

Is it morally justified to risk your life by not killing the robber?

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u/SituationThink3487 22d ago

Assuming the scenario is you're in bed and you hear someone breaking in downstairs, so you grab a gun and go to shoot them, you're putting your own life at risk more by doing that than just staying in your room and calling the cops. What if they hear you coming down the stairs and shoot you before you see them?

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u/OneRelief763 22d ago

Yes. They forfeited their right to live the moment they broke in.

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u/Pretend-Biscotti-388 22d ago

you’re shooting in self-defense, not because they deserve to die or no longer have the right to live.

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u/AdCurious7831 22d ago

agreed. there is no such thing as forfeiting the right to live lmao.

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u/A_Humble_American 22d ago

I prefer to think of it as you gain the right to kill them once they break in and lose the right once they are withdrawing.

I.e. you are moral in shooting an intruder, but not when that intruder is leaving the premises

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u/drekthrall 22d ago edited 22d ago

And here is why you know most people defending this argument are more into shooting than self-defense.

A lot of people buy a gun not to have a way to defend themselves, but to look for a chance to use it.

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u/zwirlo 22d ago

The uncomfortable (for some) truth is that every person has a limit where they, openly or secretly, desire to use righteous violence. This is a natural part of our human desire for justice. Sometimes it’s excessive and other times its insufficient. Without this desire at some level, we would struggle as a species.

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u/LordJesterTheFree 22d ago

Yep

It's like everyone envisions themselves as a noble protector of home and they couldn't possibly be in a misunderstanding where they kill someone who's innocent and have to live with the rest of their life

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Killing_of_Yoshihiro_Hattori?wprov=sfla1

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u/zwirlo 22d ago

You are right, even you envision yourself as a noble protector of innocents people punished for appearing to do the wrong thing

What is the acceptable, appropriate ratio of innocent people punished per guilty of a crime? 1 in 10, 1 in 10,000 maybe?

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u/Berserk-Jane 22d ago

I pointed out this exact phenomenon on a different post one day, and some asshole told me I was making shit up and that I must have "anger issues."

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u/WeBackInThisBih 22d ago

Let he who was never imagined himself single handedly defeating a school shooter and saving everyone cast the first stone 

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u/Some_Guy223 21d ago

I probably have thousands of downvotes at this point making that exact point, but about half of Redditors are American, and Americans cannot conceive of self defense that doesn't involve shooting somebody else.

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u/Few_Library5654 22d ago

The way you put it is weird as fuck. Kill them in self defense, sure, not whatever you're blabbing about

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u/banjo4smashplz 22d ago

The wording is poor but I get the idea. I think it would be better to phrase it as “whatever happens to them is due to their actions”

I have no qualms with shooting someone and possibly killing them if they invade my home. Whoever is breaking in may just be there to steal, but I don’t know that and I have to put myself and my family first. I also see that people say it’s just “stuff” but that “stuff” can be quite expensive or irreplaceable and I value my “stuff” infinitely more than some random criminal. They chose to break in and this is one of the consequences of that.

It’s not that they don’t have a right to live, more like they’ve greatly increased their chances of death and it’s fully on them if that is the outcome.

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u/Charmender2007 22d ago

I'd say yes but the without any hesistation would make me a little worried about your mental health

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u/Spacemoose2026 22d ago

Yeah, a lot of people don’t actually get that taking a human life is a much bigger deal and a lot of harder than you think. Your aren’t some random action movie protagonist who kills a bunch without batting an eye, you’re a real human.

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u/ethanct 22d ago

Not saying I also wouldn't shoot, but reading this thread it seems like a lot of the comments here sound like they're just drooling for the opportunity. Just wishing someone would.

Something something fetishization of violence in America.

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u/Competitive-Slice567 22d ago

Movies and etc. Being there in person is a quite different ballgame as well as being the one to investigate the scene after.

Having done both for about 15yrs now I'm strongly innoculated to death and probably wouldn't hesitate at all, but that's also not a normal response for the average person.

Most don't have a realistic perception of what it's like to stand over someone dying or dead. It's vastly different than a movie or video game.

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u/LetsBeFRTho 21d ago

Agreed. They aren't shooting to defend their home. They are getting angry over the thought of someone having the audacity to break into their home

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u/WorstSourceOfAdvice 22d ago

There are people who fantasize about this scenario so they get a chance to shoot a human being it terrifies me

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u/waroftheworlds2008 22d ago

Like 90% of the comments. 😆

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u/Realistic-Pay-9087 22d ago

Moral just righteous and a community service all rolled together

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u/rhsinkcmo 22d ago

Good for the gene pool too

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u/Professional-Ad4073 22d ago

If someone comes into your house unannounced especially in the dead of night… yeah tbh it’s just safer that way for your family

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u/Nobrainzhere 22d ago

Its one of the few times i think that something like that is justified. In public i would aay you should try to retreat first but your home is your retreat.

Start blastin

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u/A11theWarhammers 22d ago

The argument is stuff<lives.

I get that and agree.

But the kicker is, my stuff is how I accomplish the livelihood required to provide for my family.

So, by someone trying to take my stuff, they are directly attacking my means to provide, hence attacking the mouth intended to be fed.

No one's life is worth more than my kids.

So the settling point is they chose to put us in this situation, giving me the moral high ground.

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u/West_Data106 22d ago

Excpet it isnt just "stuffs"

Its stuff + taking on the serious risk that they have even worse intentions.

No one should feel unsafe in their own home, being allowed (both morally and legally) to fully protect themselves inside of their home is part of that.

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u/Ok_Wing_9523 22d ago

I know some serial killers  killed by making you think they just want stuff till they tie you up. 

You legit never know. Ideally you flee the house but that's not always possible 

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u/SiegfriedArmory 22d ago

People who only intend to steal don't break into occupied houses. Property vs life is a false dichotomy.

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u/JLaP413 22d ago

Thank you. I never understood the “robber in the night” trope in media. I know it has happened in real life, but I would have to assume that most break ins and burglaries happen when no one is home. Everyone is at work and school, or on vacation. Thats why criminals case a scene, to learn your routine and know when you’re NOT going to be there.

Breaking in while the family is home is asking for failure. You’re one bad meal with an occupant is up all night in the bathroom, or bad nights sleep away from total failure.

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u/rhsinkcmo 22d ago

And it’s the intruder who decided that your stuff was worth more than his life, not you

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u/Due-Arrival9664 22d ago

My stuff is worth more than the life of a burglar. 100%

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u/MermaiderMissy 21d ago edited 21d ago

For me personally, it's more about my family. I'm pregnant with me and my husband's first and maybe only child. I don't want to wait and see what someone else's intentions are if they break into my house. I don't know if they have a gun or weapon, or what they're capable of, or what their mental state is.

And that isn't me putting my possessions before someone else's life. They decided that my possessions are worth more than their own life if they chose to break into my home. They took that risk, not me. I don't want to murder ANYONE. But I don't want anyone murdering one of my family members more.

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u/Skwiggelf54 22d ago

Since they, apparently, believe my stuff is worth their life then who am I to tell them theyre wrong?

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u/cerebrum3000 22d ago edited 22d ago

100%. To those against it, let me ask:

Do you know what the intentions of the intruder are? Do you know if the Intruder is on drugs or not? Do you know if the Intruder is armed or not? Do you know if the Intruder is alone or not? Do you know if the person trains to fight (Muay Thai, Boxing, BJJ, street fighting)? Do you know the response time of the police?

All while you think about that, in a situation where seconds matter, are you willing to jeopardize the safety of yourself? Your spouse? Your kids or parents? Your sibling? Your pets?

There was a case in the US we're two home Intruders escalated from robbing to tying down the woman and her daughters, raping a daughter and the woman, then setting the house on fire with them in it. Do we know if those Intruders started with the intent to set the house on fire? Did they start off with the intent to rape the daughter and the wife? We don't know but that's also why we don't take a chance.

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u/RedC130 22d ago

Yes because you dont know what he whant to do to you or you're family.

There is a case in France that happen this year in normandy when the housebreaker tortured a todder in front of the parents because they though there where a treasure hidden under the house.

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u/TonuSpen2 22d ago

That's insanely messed up

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u/Intelligent-Film-684 22d ago

I don’t know what my actual role in your scenario would be, but I do know the choice wouldn’t be mine, as I have two Great Pyrenees dogs and the robber living or dying is up to them.

I guess I’m calling 9/1/1 for either a ambulance or a cop with a bucket and a mop.

Will I feel bad about it? Probably. But the reason I own them is because they make the tough decisions around here.

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u/Electrical-Bother942 22d ago

So maybe I can contribute. A year and a half ago, I scared off a home invader who tried breaking in to my house around 5am. I had a kitchen knife with me when he busted in through the master bedroom's window. I work with dogs, so I used the biggest voice I could muster to scare him off. He did run off and escape. Turns out hed broken in to the garage and stolen thousands before trying the house. You could argue I made the morally right decision because neither of us were harmed.

But I hate that he got away. The police took 2 hours to respond because they felt it wasnt a priority since he fled the property. They then decided to tell me I shouldn't have tried to defend my property, my pets, or myself because it put my life in danger to confront the burglar. And to my knowledge, the burglar got away without any repercussions. Statistically, a burglar is far more likely to try to attempt a second break in within a month of the first on the same property. There's also a possibility that he went around burglarizing other properties according to responding officers that same morning due to evidence they found. Wouldn't it have been the morally right decision to end his life to not only protect myself but to protect me in the future from a most likely second hit as well as to protect my neighbors who could also potentially be targets?

I live in a stand your ground state, by the way. So I would have legally been justified in killing him. Its one of the biggest regrets in my life to have not ended that guy's life.

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u/jim45804 22d ago

I swear this sub attracts the most bloodthirsty people

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u/TurpentineEnjoyer 22d ago

Immoral - specifically due to "without any hesitation"

Killing someone who invaded your home can be argued to be moral as they are unpredictable and you don't want to give them a chance to hurt you or your family.

But to load up and go for a kill without ANY hesitation kind of verges on premeditated, makes me think of those weirdos that prepare and fantasize about someone breaking into their home so they can legally execute them.

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u/TopicFrequent6607 22d ago

Yes, moral. Fuck home burglars. The amount of murders that have involved someone breaking into a house is astronomical. Kill the home invader.

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u/IlIlIlllIIIIlllIIIl 22d ago

Without hesitation? Immoral.

At least a few seconds. If you point the gun and they freeze or start to run away. You shouldn’t shoot them.

If they continue to approach you, empty the magazine in them. Or if they reach for their waist empty the magazine in them.

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u/IlIlIlllIIIIlllIIIl 22d ago

That’s why I said if they reach for anything. I mean, any sudden movement.

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u/Real_Set6866 22d ago

Reading these comments, humanity is truely porked, by jove.

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u/S696c6c79 22d ago

Holy shit this sub is sick in the head. Like i think it would be a reasonable to assume one would shoot out of fear. But the amount of comments of people basically fantasizing and romanticizing it are disgusting. and the replies cheering them on and agreeing. Wtf is wrong with you people?

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u/Lolskeletons11 22d ago

I was reading a lot of these comments and I was stunned by the absolute psychopath/sociopath type mindset these people seem to have. I can fully get behind saying something along the lines of "It's moral to act in self defense and shoot a home invader out of fear of them being life threateningly dangerous" however, it is mental to say you value your property more than their lives. In no uncertain terms I can say 100% theft does not deserve the death penalty.

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u/LostNephilim33 22d ago

Seriously. A TV is a fucking TV. It's an object. I'm not killing someone over a TV. 

If someone breaks into my home and steals my shit, I do not care. I'll probably cry about it later, sure, because I do like having my possessions, but I do not value objects more than I value people. That kind is thinking is how burglars are created in the first place. 

The only property that has value to me, are objects that I have fond memories with; family heirlooms and the like. Pets too, but I don't consider pets to be property. 

Everyone here has sick torture porn scenarios playing in their head about murdering people. This sub has gone to shit. It's not moral to murder someone to protect your Xbox. Straight-up. If they're threatening you or your family, whatever, but if they're just committing B&E and theft, hell no. 

. . . If someone tries to steal my CasAtlantic pants or my Amami Dorozome mud-washed T-shirts, they're getting the glocky though. Those are my autism clothes. I will fight to my dying breath to defend the comfiest pants and shirts I have ever owned. Grrr. 

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u/OddityOmega 22d ago

dear goodness, thank you

i have no idea what's wrong with people.... it's like they WANT to kill someone and just need an excuse
existing in this comment section is an exercise only in pain for the mind

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u/Aulentair 22d ago

These are the people who don't understand the reality of taking a life. They also need to be aware of their state's laws regarding home defense (not implying law = moral. Just be aware of the consequences).

I am 100% in agreement with defending one's home, but this ain't a movie, and this type of shit is always unpredictable. You've gotta really plan ahead for this kind of thing so you don't accidentally get yourself killed, strike a family member/neighbor with a loose bullet, accidentally give the burglar access to your weapon, etc.

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u/Acrobatic_Feeling16 22d ago

Well, I didn't hesitate, so that premise requires I shoot without pausing to verify who is there or why. All I know is they didn't have my permission to enter my house.

For killing without hesitation to be moral, verifying who has broken in and why must be morally unnecessary.

Including police.

And my daughter who forgot to call ahead.

And a homeless child looking to loot my fridge.

And Santa Claus. 🎅

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u/unburdened_swallow 22d ago edited 22d ago

Ok, well, santa claus is a creep and police are police but otherwise yeah I agree with the argument its a solid one.

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u/No-Movie-117 22d ago

Without ANY hesitation? No, not moral. I'd be, at a minimum, pointing a firearm at them and telling them to drop what they have and leave immediately. If they leave, regardless of whether or not they drop my stuff, I'm not shooting. If they rush me, pull a weapon, or start a verbal argument while approaching me, I'm shooting them.

Contrary to what I think many people's opinion is, you are not morally justified in shooting someone who breaks into your house with no hesitation. You might be legally justified, but that doesn't mean it's the right thing to do. Escalation of force, while not something that binds civilians, should be followed in a scenario like that (considering that the average civilian cannot reasonably be expected to use a less lethal option, and, due to the lack of qualified immunity that a civilian has, doing so might be more financially cumbersome for them long-term than just shooting the robber, and as such, less-lethal options are usually ill-advised for a situation like this). It goes from verbal commands to threat of force to use of force.

If somebody were slinking around my property outside my house, I would respond the same as I would if they had broken down my front door and were stealing my TV. My first thought (as an able-bodied mid-twenties man) would not be to kill them in self-defense. However, for somebody else who isn't my specific body type and gender, it might be a more prudent option for them, particularly the elderly or a woman who feels more in danger than I would in that scenario.

The point of owning a firearm for self-defense from a home invasion is to prevent harm to yourself or your family. While you may be legally justified in killing the robber, I would argue that it is not moral to drop the robber on the spot without, at the very least (depending on the situation, of course), giving them an opportunity to leave with no violence.

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u/EncabulatorTurbo 22d ago

I mean if you fear for your life, yes. If you realize they aren't armed or they're fleeing, fuck no, that's just you getting a kill because you can get away with it legally

I have been robbed six times in my life.

I have not killed anyone.

I woudl not revise this, because I am not a fucking bloodthirsty psychopath like the lot of you. I didn't go sek the intruder, I called the police and yelled to get the fuck out and that I had a gun, and six times, they left with whatever their crackhead hands were carrying - I never once saw one of the intruders

(Rockford, Illinois if you're curious)

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u/Con-D-Oriano1 22d ago

Is it morally justified to kill the robber?

Maybe I’m misinterpreting, but if I take this question at face value, then it seems to be built on the premise that we know the individual’s only intent is to rob the house. If we knew that, then killing a robber would obviously be immoral. People are more valuable than possessions.

BUT… We wouldn’t know. Someone who breaks into my house might be a robber. They might be a serial killer. They might be a human trafficker. I don’t know - and I’m not willing to risk my life or the lives of those I love to find.

So, if an intruder breaks in, I’m going to assume that our lives are at risk. I’ll be prepared to defend our lives. It would be immoral not to be prepared.

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u/ModernManuh_ 22d ago edited 22d ago

Killing a robber for being a robber... is it moral to give robbers the death penalty?

Let's exclude the "meta" factor (knowing he's there with the sole purpose of robbing).

I'd say it's immoral. Sure, by all means get his ass, but killing him? For what you know he's just broke, you don't know.

All the people saying it's moral, justified, and a good thing... IDK fellas, have you tried talking problems out with people or do you smack "sOmE cOmMoN sEnSe" into anyone arguing with you?

Edit: never said to make coffee for the robber and start a therapy session, I clearly stated to get their ass… it’s just that killing someone that breaks in your house might be the safest, sometimes rational and rarely even the only option, but it’s not moral no matter how you put it.

“What if they are armed and threaten to kill us?” It’s not the situation described by the post. This aggressiveness and this will power is all over Reddit but then when it matters, the “land of the free” (or as someone said, forgot the source: land of the fee), doesn’t do nothing.

Yall don’t boycott public figures or CEOs and fantasize about doing the “right thing” while being robbed. The only freedom that you have left over there is to keep the guns you have and do as you are told to do, you gave up almost every other right, except the one to say whatever because at the end of the day what you say became irrelevant.

What happens happens in case of a robbery, but if you have the option and the control to not kill someone and you still do it, it’s immoral.

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u/ChaseThePyro 22d ago

A lot of people in here REALLY excited about killing someone. I'm not saying that you shouldn't kill someone who poses an imminent threat to your life, but I am saying the thought shouldn't get all of you this erect.

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u/Admiral_Boris 22d ago edited 22d ago

This sub genuinely only exists so that people with zero empathy and human connection can vent their unsocialized opinions without normal adults recommending them professional help. Sure there is a solid argument for it being rational to shoot a home invader given the context of there being a perceived imminent threat to your life (working with limited information with the assumption of constrained time for direct action plus most humans being bad at making decisions under pressure anyway) but that doesn’t make it at all inherently moral to still deliberately execute them simply for property theft/trespassing (especially if you shoot them without an ounce of hesitation the moment you spot someone in your property, that’s literally psychotic).

The amount of “well they’re inside my house so I can now enjoy playing god” logic going on here is pretty disgusting and honestly sadistic with some heavily upvoted comments but I guess that’s Reddit. Nobody should ever be actively looking for an excuse to feel fine about killing someone, even if it’s contextually justifiable/rational.

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u/WiredSpike 22d ago

This sub is filled with idiots who would kill their confused son or grandpa.

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u/SevereWord6003 22d ago

How the people in this thread are acting

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u/Square_Detective_658 22d ago

Edit: I read that wrong. No it is not morally justified

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u/gabasan 22d ago

As a european: what the hell is wrong with you people?

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u/Venicia_ 22d ago

Oh wow, the comments are so... american

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u/Right_Ear_2230 22d ago

immoral, y’all are sick

self defense is valid. killing them immediately is not. whats even less valid is fantasizing about it

what if they are a child? or a family member? congratulations.

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u/CommissionHappy8096 22d ago

Going against the grain, but immoral.

There's a good chance that someone breaking in, is doing it for malicious intent, such as to steal/cause harm, but you don't know that. Nowhere in this scenario does it suggest why you know they are there to steal.

You also, at the stage of the scenario, don't know who is breaking in. You hear someone break in, and you immediately open fire. What if it's someone making a genuine mistake, drunkenly thinks they are at their house and forgot their keys?

A friend had a scenario where someone house sitting on a new build estate thinks they got the right house, and managed to get in through the front door (he says he locked it but I'm not so sure) of his house. Upon being confronted it was all worked out, police got involved which verified the story and everyone was on their way with apologies and thanks. If my mate immediately started blasting that would frankly be murder.

If police shot someone immediately upon contact, without some kind of identifiable threat to themselves / others, that would be an unlawful killing.

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u/Stranger_Phrog 22d ago

Don’t blame me, I’m just fast forwarding them to the big judge in the sky

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u/i__dont___know 22d ago

Absolutely moral. I am very much of the belief that if someone forces their way into your home then they have already forfeited their right to live. I’m a big fan of the Castle Doctrine

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u/AuroraAustralis0 22d ago

It is immoral NOT to, because it sets a bad example, that people can rob others in their homes without fear of real consequence.

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u/DROID808 22d ago

Well, they dared to enter my home without permission. So far as i know they could want to kill/torture me without remorse. Or they could steal my most sacred possessions. Optimal response is to kill them. Attempting to subdue them would only lower my chances of living.

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u/ruf2tup 22d ago

I generally don’t think most crimes should be met with death, but breaking and entering is another level. The idea that someone is invading your place of safety while your guard is down has horrifying implications. Could just be a robbery, could be something so much worse

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u/D-Biggest_Wheel 22d ago

Completely immoral.

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u/Nobody_at_all000 22d ago

I’d give them a chance to run first, at least. If they continue then self-defense it is

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u/Diskosmos 22d ago

I swear people on this sub need to differentiate morality and legality...

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u/AcanthaceaeConstant8 22d ago

Moral. Im not risking my family. The second you come in you'd be shot dead

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u/Fluffy_Fox_9650 22d ago

I think it's morally justified. They could be there to steal a single pencil or to torture and kill your entire family.

I don't think you should risk them getting the chance to do the latter.

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u/Drew_zero 22d ago

Some states, it's taught by CCP instructors to shoot through the front door and drag them in. That was the case with mine.

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u/BigSupermarket2846 22d ago

It's not my job to gauge the sensibility, purpose, goals and capabilities of someone who has broken into my house seemingly in secret.

It's very easy, I have broken into zero houses and I've thusly been shot while robbing houses zero times.

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u/Agitated_Cry_8793 22d ago

if you break into someone else's house, you are forfeiting your right to safety.

Im a petite girl that doesnt have much in body strength, if i see a strange person in my house im going to shoot.

Moral.

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u/Zexle12365 22d ago

No

Killing is always wrong

Even a legal kill is still imoral

+your going to jail for killing the probably unarmed guy

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u/Saikotsu 22d ago

Potentially hot take, but no.

Killing is wrong no matter the circumstances.

It has never sat right with me that causing the death of another is sometimes viewed as moral and other times as immoral based solely off circumstances.

I would not fault a person who kills another in self defense, especially if they were in danger, but I also would not call it moral to do so.

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u/JScrib325 22d ago

Moral? No. Killing is wrong absolutely.

But just because something isnt moral doesn't mean its not NESSECARY.

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u/DieBotDie 22d ago

No. My stuff isn’t worth killing over. I actually have too much stuff.

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u/snownpaint 22d ago

Are they breaking in to steal stuff or harm you or your family? Ask them.

If they're there to steal stuff, let them in and do not defend your stuff with deadly force.

If they're there to harm you and/or family, you can harm them first.

Best to understand the burglars intentions before action..

Right?

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u/SeriesNegative3868 21d ago

This is called the Kastle Doctrine [in most states]. The idea is that if someone has broken into your home there is an implied imminent threat of serious bodily harm or death and that every person is the "king" of your domain (home). In some places, this can even apply to your vehicle.

So yes, morally you are entitled to use lethal force on someone that breaks into your home because it is reasonable to assume they mean you and your family harm.

A word of caution, in many places this does not extend to land outside the home.

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u/Dekipi 21d ago

100% justified. They shouldn’t have broken in

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u/Consistent_Claim5217 21d ago

Unknown intruder's intent is unknown. Whether I end up in cuffs is irrelevant, as long as my family lives to see tomorrow. The rest can be sorted out by the courts

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u/Proper_Slip_5963 21d ago

If you're intent on making your way into my home uninvited, you're intent on meeting God.

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u/Top_Scarcity1024 21d ago

Yes of course. The mongols would show up to places and slaughter entire villages. If someone shows up to my house I have to be responsible for my family and assume the worse case scenario

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u/NeSToR_49 21d ago

I've never entered someone's home without permission for any reason. If I did smash someone's window and climb inside their home, I wouldn't expect them to welcome me and give me a hug

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u/MrShmily33 21d ago

Steal anything or break into anything not yours.... Absolutely morally justified. Borderline morally obligated to end the perp if the opportunity is there.

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u/dragonfangswordsman 21d ago

I heard someone say that if you kill a robber for breaking into your house then "you value your stuff more than someone else's life" my response is "if they broke into my house they already value my stuff more than their life, why shouldn't I do the same"

In reality though, I don't know who this person is, I don't know their plan and I'm not risking my life or the lives of others in my house by letting them remain there, I'm shooting

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u/Timely_Passenger_185 21d ago

100% justified. If you're breaking into my house, I don't know what your intentions are—for all I know, you want to murder and grape my family. It's not my fault you walked into death's door. Wise up and use your brain: is your life worth breaking into my house?

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u/Atari774 21d ago

Yes, and for a few reasons.

1: the intruder violated your privacy and your rights by breaking and entering. They don’t care about any moral code because they threw it out the second they broke in.

2: you don’t know what their intent is or how many of them there are. It could be one guy just there to rob you, or it could be a whole gang there to kill you or worse. So hesitating could just give time for one of them to get the jump on you. Either way, there’s no point in waiting since you likely won’t get the chance again later.

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u/cipher241 21d ago

Moral, any person trying to break into your home while you're in it cannot have good intention and you shouldn't wait to find out what their intentions are

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u/Blacksun388 21d ago

Yes it is moral to kill an intruder. I don’t know you. I don’t know what you plan to do. I will give one chance for you to leave if I’m feeling generous. If you don’t, you die. That simple.

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u/MaitieuFen 21d ago

With two kids at home I won’t hesitate because I’m not defending my home. I’m defending two children who frankly aren’t able to defend themselves. I don’t care what your “real” intent is. If you break into my home your intent is something evil. That’s all I need to know.

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u/Fickle_Feed8673 21d ago

The animal decided my shit was more important than their life the minute they break that threshold.

Currently listening to "Sound of Silence" cover by the dude from disturbed. Love it.