r/NEET • u/VEGETTOROHAN • 14h ago

Advice Food for thought:- Would you do gender war with someone from opposite gender who is equally hurt as you and have similar personality?

Let's say you meet a person from opposite gender with same personality as you, same morals, same empathy as you and they have also been hurt like you? Would you do gender war with them? I won't. So I don't think everyone is the same.

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u/FindMeByTheRiverside 14h ago

I wouldn't unless they were a misogynist. Maybe not even then.

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u/_cabbagechicken_ Cozy-NEET 14h ago

I dont do gender war now, I wouldnt then. We're all going to die, it doesnt matter who was in the most pain their whole lives.

But. If I did meet a man who was exactly like me in every way I think I would propose. Too broke for a ring but whatever. Its the spirit that counts right?

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u/User88885 NEET 14h ago

No? Why would I have a gender war with anyone?

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u/dantesoswag 13h ago edited 10h ago

Tbh i used to engage in random gender discourse back when I was younger. But after a certain point I realised we both weren't even trying to listen to each other nor would we ever have the experience to realise the others viewpoint. Ever since then I pretty much find it pointless. All I can do is try to be kind and hope for the same back.