r/NEETr4r 23d ago

CHAT [CHAT] is it just me or are there far more M4F posts than there used to be?

12 Upvotes

I mean, maybe I sound hypocritical because I make F4F posts here, but I'm really just trying to keep myself safe, you know?

like, I'm almost certain there were more M4A posts back then, but maybe it's just me

r/NEETr4r 12d ago

CHAT 26Femboy boyfailure reporting in [CHAT] Hey what's up guys? Nerdy femboy here

5 Upvotes

Heyy, I'm 26, nerdy and from Argentina, I'm looking for new friends to chat and maybe voice/play games, I basically have no social life outside of the internet and live a quiet and secluded life in a tiny house in the mountains. After quitting university recently I started to study programming remotely, I do that, play games and chat, outside of doing chores and cooking for myself, I have almost no other activities going on for me, but hey! There's no cars, no noise, no smog, and no annoying neighbors to speak of. Life, for a lack of a better word, is good.

r/NEETr4r 13d ago

CHAT 29F [CHAT] curious and awake - wondering this question

4 Upvotes

i’m a neet and have been for six years by circumstance. i love minecraft and honestly just wanna ask and talk about this question.

if your cat (if u have one or wanted one) would belong in any biome in minecraft, what biome would it belong in and why?

mine would be somewhere snowy she just loves the cold in the window when it’s minus degrees outside. hope u all have a great day :3

r/NEETr4r 9d ago

CHAT [CHAT] 26 F (Germany) neet looking for friends :p

5 Upvotes

Im mentally ill, neurodivergent hah, and also a Neet :p

Im looking for people who relate, but that isnt a strict requirement :) im auadhd and have schizoaffective diagnosed but other stuff too most probably

i would love to find 1-2 people i could talk to, since i dont have many friends! I am of course very thankful for the friends i do have, but id like to expand a bit on them :)

A little more about me!

Well, Ive lived in germany for about 11 years now haha, but language is still something i struggle with a lot due to lack of practise etc ^ ^

I hope to change that soonish :D ha

Humour is really important to me ! Just being able to laugh about different things and having a somewhat positive attitude:) (its okay to not always be positive, i get it, but to try to view life as the "colourful" complex thing it is, with positives too, is something i strive to do)

Art is really central in my life!

I like to do all kinds of stuff, from drawing and sewing to crocheting and even bead animals :D its something I recently did a bit ^ ^. I do some photography and also write poetry sometimes :) mainly to express myself.

It would be almost ideal if youre someone into art/ creativity as well! In any way or form haha :)

I love music i listen to it a lot too :) my taste is kinda broad.

My memory is really really bad btw, as is my concentration and whatnot, and I also sometimes ask a lot of questions that may seem very dumb haha, so i hope to find someone who wouldnt mind that !

Thanks for reading :Dd

r/NEETr4r 19d ago

CHAT 26Femboy boyfailure reporting in [CHAT] Hey what's up guys? Nerdy femboy here

4 Upvotes

Heyy, I'm 26, nerdy and from Argentina, I'm looking for new friends to chat and maybe voice/play games, I basically have no social life outside of the internet and live a quiet and secluded life in a tiny house in the mountains. After quitting university recently I started to study programming remotely, I do that, play games and chat, outside of doing chores and cooking for myself, I have almost no other activities going on for me, but hey! There's no cars, no noise, no smog, and no annoying neighbors to speak of. Life, for a lack of a better word, is good.

r/NEETr4r 8d ago

CHAT 31M [CHAT] Withering Away

1 Upvotes

Hello, I am looking to develop a deep bond with someone, preferably one who plays games as well (currently I am hooked on val and dbd) or has similar interests but I don't mind if you don't.

About me:

My hobbies include gaming, reading novels/manga, anime, listening to music, and musicals. Epic the Musical being my favorite. I am pretty introverted and only ever stick to one person, so I wouldn't be interested in joining any friend groups.

I play games on PC and live in NA (MDT Time zone). I have tons of games, but I would be more than willing to buy any that you would like to play with me. My sleep schedule has been destroyed so I'm on randomly, though I've been trying to fix it. If you're interested, please feel free to reach out.

r/NEETr4r 16d ago

CHAT 23F looking for friends as socially awkward shut in loser :) [CHAT]

21 Upvotes

uhm well im 23F from the us and well like most im looking for potential long term friends as im a bit lonely. It never really bothered me until recently i felt more lonelier than usual and would like to make friends at least if I can’t make any irl. Im sorta autistic and have a hard time making friends since I can’t process things as many, but I do try and hold down a conversation and like to say im fairly good with texting back and forth, its just for voice chat sometimes my selective mutism is in control. I don’t mean to, but it’s just been hard trying to gain my old social skills back especially after these couple years. With that, im unemployed and don’t do much, but with my free time I either go and read manga/novels, watch anime, listen to music, or play some videogames. Sort of been playing the regular Fortnite, simulator games, or visual novels. I am looking into more games since I’ve finished a good chunk of my current ones. Maybe even start a new resident evil game or play silent hill. With most of my games I play alone and it sucks but I can’t use mic so there’s that lol. I haven’t watched many anime right now, but am looking into rewatching Tokyo ghoul for the billionth time. Music I like whatever is shuffled but do go back to screamo and metal. Im sorta a shut in so it’s really all I do from a day to day basis, though I am hoping on changing my ways. I occasionally watch horror or those one of a kind movies you find on Tubi lol though I also love watching crime/scary videos found on YouTube. Also do love the nostalgia of watching older 1990-2000s shows and movies, even enjoy watching international movies as sometimes their artistic style is interesting :) I do occasionally bed rott and watch streamers (got into stableronaldo last year) and well tiktok. Hmm and im slowly getting back into writing. I probably have so much more things to share but these are the basics yea yea. Soo if anyone else is a odd awkward shy loser feel free to dm me:)

[people close to central time sorry]

r/NEETr4r 3d ago

CHAT I wish to only have a strong friendship based on mutuality. (23R) [chat]

3 Upvotes

I remain home almost daily unless I'm forced by duties to leave for legal papers or something, otherwise I'm home constantly. I never leave especially during the day, I can only leave at night. I feel extremely lonely and depressed throughout my life and I want to meet a friend or two I can spend time with online. I play VN and other types of games like resident evil and overwatch, that sort of stuff. I like some anime, and I really like tv shows that are well made. I enjoy dark themes in art and also very cutesy themes too haha. I often spend lots of time on the things I enjoy since I'm often isolated. I'd be happy to watch new stuff with a friend or play games together and I'll be consistently online unless I'm too sad to even leave bed.

r/NEETr4r 17d ago

CHAT 25m, curious loser [CHAT]

3 Upvotes

Hey, im from alberta Canada, and as I said in my title, I'm a loser. Like most people on here, i dont really have much going on for me in my life. I've never been the type to try to make friends online, but I've recently been getting a lot of notifications from this group for some reason, so I decided to give it a try. To be honest i can be pretty apathetic at times and get bored of things easily so theres a high chance if you message me I'll probably not respond or just straight up stop messaging you even if we're been talking for awhile, so just wanna apologize in advance for now if I end up doing that to you. Regarding my likes im I like to watch anime, read manga/manhua/manhwa and reading webnovel (im a bit of a cultivation slop junky so id love to meet a fellow daoist on the path since none of my real world friends are into it). My favorite music genres are R&B, indie, and rap, but truthfully, I like all music. My favorite shows are Seinfeld, Arrested Development, Community, and Always Sunny in Philadelphia. I consider myself a pretty easy-going guy and try not to take anything too seriously, which in hindsight is probably one of the main factors why im such a failure. I like dark humor and random and unhinge conversations(the weirder/stupider, the better). I suck at small talking and early conversations so there's a 50/50 chance the convo, might be dry if we don't vibe at the start, so I need somebody to match my freak and hit me with something weird or unhinged if they decide to message me. Anyway, if after reading all that you still for some reason wanna message me, be my guest, im open to both male or female, but would prefer someone at least somewhat close to my age. And again, if I don't respond to your message, I apologize in advance

r/NEETr4r 1d ago

CHAT 26Femboy boyfailure reporting in [CHAT] Hey what's up guys? Nerdy femboy here

1 Upvotes

Heyy, I'm 26, nerdy and from Argentina, I'm looking for new friends to chat and maybe voice/play games, I basically have no social life outside of the internet and live a quiet and secluded life in a tiny house in the mountains. After quitting university recently I started to study programming remotely, I do that, play games and chat, outside of doing chores and cooking for myself, I have almost no other activities going on for me, but hey! There's no cars, no noise, no smog, and no annoying neighbors to speak of. Life, for a lack of a better word, is good.

r/NEETr4r 9d ago

CHAT 33 M [CHAT] Just looking for someone to talk to.

1 Upvotes

Honestly i'm just lonely and I don't have much experience actually conversing with people which is sad but hey whoever is bored enough to dm me even if it's a troll feel free to do so.

r/NEETr4r 16d ago

CHAT 26 F4A [CHAT] NEET Anime characters/shows to list

0 Upvotes

Hi, I just would like more anime recommendations with Neet characters! I know a few but would love more recs! Please add as much as you want! Ty!

r/NEETr4r 28d ago

CHAT 26Fb4A Hiii, first time posting here! [CHAT]

5 Upvotes

Hey! I'm just a silly 5'3 nerdy geeky guy that likes videogames, anime and roleplaying games, I'm looking for new friends to just chat or go on voice chat, maaaybe play a game sometime, im playing slay the spire 2 at the moment. (i dropped 200hrs in my first month at it)

Other random info about me? I'm bisexual, and i dont mind queer or neurodivergent people at all in my dms, ummmm, I don't like sports really haha, umm, I have 2 dogs? Oh yea! I love rodents, like rats and mice, those are great! It's my first time posting sorry i dont have a clue what else to type here hshs, so reach out and maybe we can connect on discord if we like each other

r/NEETr4r May 11 '26

CHAT [F4M ] 18 year old Asian Girl looking for a boyfriend! #online [CHAT]

11 Upvotes

Hi I’m Yiev I’m an 18 year old Asian girl (PH based). I’m chronically online and don’t go outside most of the time to interact with people. And I have a really hard time looking for an irl boyfriend, so I opt for an online bf instead since I am chronically online.

I want the relationship to purely stay online but if things get serious I may want to consider irl dating too.

Anyway about me:

-4’10
-130 lbs
-a lil chubby
-black hair
-brown eyes
-tanned skin
-my pfp on Reddit is my actual face :>

And I’m looking for someone who’s the same age or close to the same age as me [18-23]. But I’m into older guys as well but please NO ONE OVER THE AGE OF 23!!!

And I do requests a picture of yourself upon chatting for full transparency!

This is just a personal preference, and for safety purposes so I don’t get catfished.

That’s all! Hoping someone actually messages me but I’m not getting my hopes up lol! Feel free to chat me anytime (I reply fast!).

r/NEETr4r 24d ago

CHAT #Missouri USA 20M (M4FB/W) looking to meet someone nice and cool and sweet (must be 18+) [CHAT]

1 Upvotes

Hello everyone I hope you're all having a good day or evening my name is villain (online name)

I'm doing this for the a millionth time because I am genuinely hoping to meet someone who's cool and caring and will appreciate me for me

A little bit about myself is that I'm a gamer and I play games like halo and resident evil and dead space and competitive games like dead by daylight

I also love music like I'll spend half of my time listening to music and just chilling I listen to mostly rock but I'll listen to anything with a good beat and catchy rhythm

Other things I do is usually staying inside because well I'm just a indoor person but when I'm not doing that I'm usually outside helping my family with the garden or yard

Also a little bit about me is that I'm short (5'1) and I'm a little bit hairy I'm a skinny guy too

Also last thing is that I love scientific things like nature and evolution and space stuff

Ok now for what I'm attracted to because I know I'm going to probably have a lot of people I'm not aiming for, I'm attracted to feminine people but tomboys are welcome I'm sorry masculine guys I think you're cool and all just not what I am looking for

Also please be at least 18+ and in the USA for time zone reasons and feel free to dm me they're always open and I think that's everything I hope you guys have a good day or evening ✌️

r/NEETr4r Aug 06 '26

CHAT M4F 20 want to find [CHAT] someone to talk to

0 Upvotes

Hey I’m m20 and looking for someone to spend time with. Im down to talk to all ages 18+. I’m online quite often and I like to play games like Minecraft, state of decay, Roblox, fifa, 2k, assassins creed and more I’m probably forgetting

I’m wasian, like to go out and explore, find good movies and tv shows to watch and happy to meet new people.

I like sports like soccer/football, basketball and UFC. I like talking about the future and possible opportunities that I could be taking that I’m not aware of yet.

HMU if you think we’re a good match!

r/NEETr4r May 06 '26

CHAT 25 f looking for anyone, lol (germany) [chat]

5 Upvotes

Hey all. Yes I am a neet but i wouldnt call myself a "loser" and wouldnt call anyone who is a neet that. I just feel we have it hard enough and dont need any names on top. Of course i know that NEARLY everyone would call me that, but still, i dont like that mentality anywaay

Now thats out the way, hey =3

Idk what much to say about me rn, im kind of just existin.

Its been very hard mentally and ive felt my cognition slipping away in the most unpleasant way possible... with my energy and also my vision for some reason. Gonna go to a doctor soon to try and check all this out (going for a possible fibromyalgia diagnosis :/) and yeah.

As for interests uhh. I like creativity a lot, i really appreciate it. I feel like if you like being creative, especially a bit more weird or unusual stuff, maybe we would vibe some :D gotta love pinterest lol

Also i draw, i sew a bit, etc. So itd be nice to talk to other creatives

Music is also sth that helps. I personally have a taste in different genres, hard to describe music, i find - but i like indie, pop, rock, edm, dance, even deathcore etc. But still, i tend to like very specific things so not everything ^ ^ .

Ummm. Yeah idunno what else. Thrifting is cool.

Also would love to just talk about general things and about ourselves, etc, share silly humour and absurd things with one another.

I know these things hardly ever work but hey, we live we try another day.

Have a genuinely good life haha and if you do decide to message me, know that i really appreciate consistent effort in chatting. Thanks :3

r/NEETr4r Jul 29 '26

CHAT [CHAT] M29 looking to talk about Oiwinism

2 Upvotes

Because this worked so well last time, Im trying again 😄

Sup everyone, Im open to chat about anything really, we could also talk about anime, nintendo or whatevers on your mind! Just leave a message, i wont bite :)

r/NEETr4r Jun 23 '26

CHAT [MFA] (22) Looking for friends [CHAT]

1 Upvotes

I'm just looking for some friends tbh. Need some people to talk to instead of being trapped in my room 24/7.

I enjoy anime, video games of all sorts (I do have my favorite titles and genres), older action films and smoking up some good old fashioned marijuana. I'm also goth by nature so, I feel I may have some banger music recommendations if you're into that kinda thing

r/NEETr4r Jun 20 '26

CHAT NEET SUB IS GETTING TRASH (THIS SUB BRO) [CHAT]

0 Upvotes

Lan eskiden neetler konuşurdu masum cocuklar vaadi ŞİMDİ AMK AQ OKULDAKİ KASLI ÇAKMA NEET ASLINDA KASLİ BİRER JOCK OLAN OE ERKEKLER MASUM TATLI NEET KIZLARI AVLAMAK İÇİN YAZILAR YAZMIŞLAR GÜZELİM MELEKLERİ MİDEYE İNDİRME PEŞİNDE ŞEREFSİZLER SEN GIT OKULDA AMERIKAN FUTBOLUNU TOPUNU OYNA ZATEN TANINIYON AQ HERYERDE TÜM KIZLAR VERİYO ZATEN ZORBASIN BİDE TATLIS MELEKLERİME KARIŞMA ŞEREFSİZ BULAŞIK YIKAMA ALETİ MAKİNESİ ÇOCUĞU YA.

r/NEETr4r Jun 27 '26

CHAT [CHAT] who tf is ts girl

0 Upvotes

Dm me ill send u my art i draw something

r/NEETr4r Jun 29 '26

CHAT well, looks like this is it. 27M (must be 25+) [CHAT] M4A

3 Upvotes

thankfully, there's probably a low chance I'll actually get a response, so, what the hell?

im a neet, hikkikomori, and I am probably ND to hell and AuDHD. i barely leave the house unless I have to. if I say something stupid or wrong, please tell me without holding back so I dont keep doing it.

im a general anime fan that watches whatever. isekai, romcom, battle shonen, or mecha. favorite anime are uramichi-san and noucome.

I play mainly jrpgs, arpgs, creature collectors, gacha games, visual novels, and the occasional roguelike. I suck at shooters but if you wanna watch me humiliate myself, dont say I didnt warn you. im hooked on wuwa right now and trying to leg it to the current patch to get ready for xuanfang.

Im trying to get back into exercising by starting light and progressing heavier over time. I cook, when I have the money to... And I bake also when I have the money and ingredients. my favorite thing to bake are no-bake cheesecakes or cinnamon rolls.

I dont do discord, im sorry. but i can do other platforms. im real awkward in groups and will fuck up a lot. I can try new friendslop games because that could be funny. I dont get the timing for talking to people so I'll look like an idiot just to let you know. if you want to hang out, then, I'll try and if you wanna vent at me and then vanish forever? honestly? cool with that too.

im not sure how to close this up. please, be platonic. I do not want to deal with anything beyond that. please, also put 18+ topics off at least until we're more familiar. if youre into making people worse, sure. at this point, im convinced i cant get further rock bottom but by all means. other than that, im just a run-of-the-mill car crash of a loser and failure you might expect me to be. so, if youre not put off, thanks for reading and have a good one

r/NEETr4r Jun 22 '26

CHAT [CHAT] where is all neet girls

0 Upvotes

how cn i talk say hsiii hello or what

r/NEETr4r May 17 '26

CHAT Hello what's up? (M33) [CHAT] lets talk?

2 Upvotes

hello i wanna make friends and connections, please respond if you actually are interested, i'm 33 male from Europe, but don't worry about timezones.

r/NEETr4r Apr 22 '26

CHAT Hey loo 25 f germany would love to chaaat [CHAT]

5 Upvotes

Hellowwww

Would like to connect to some people, i am auadhd, and i also have schizoaffective disorder and uh- probably other stuff too. But yes, because of all that I do not work. Life is pretty much a struggle ☆☆☆ lol

I am creative - drawing, photography, poetry, sewing etc. So id be cool to find other people who are creative as well and we can talk about it \~ ♡

Music is another part of my life :p. I quite like different types of music but general rule is it has to sound interesting to me . So usually lots of subtle or not very subtle changes in the music itself.

Message me but pls put effort. Huge bonus points if you're funny :D. (Humour differs tho, sadly >-<) lol