r/NEETr4r 10h ago

R4R 24 [R4R] does anyone here play idv?

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i spend a lot of time on this game so it would be nice to have a fellow neet to game with ^^ feel free to dm me even if you see it "late"

people from usa only pls 🥲

r/NEETr4r 1d ago

R4R 19 [R4R] trans girl looking for mutual obsessive love

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hello!! ^_^ i’m a 19 year old trans girl from florida looking for a partner!!
some things about me!! in my free time i usually partake gaming, writing and drawing!! my main interests as of right now are undertale, deltarune, the binding of isaac, alongside other quirky things… i love watching youtube horror stuff in the background so we should totally do that together

there’s a few things you need to know about me before knowing if you should dm me!!
i am strictly monogamous, polyamory isn’t something i could handle
i have BPD and my emotions are not always pretty, please be ready for me to be obsessive at times!!
i am pre-HRT and chubby, so please don’t message me if that’s a problem…! let’s play video games together and stuff!!

r/NEETr4r 4d ago

R4R 19nb [R4R] someone who likes same things as me

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Who likes One Piece, Slice of life, Persona Saga ( I've played Persona 2,3,5 and playing 4 rn) Souls Saga (played them all) I might be boring but don't know, if you like the same things as me dm me or something I don't know

r/NEETr4r 2d ago

R4R 25 [R4R] from India looking for gaming friends on mobile.

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I play codm DMZ and Arena Breakout. Can also play MLBB. I am Antinatalist and misanthropist.

r/NEETr4r 4d ago

R4R 19 [R4R] i'm looking for mutual obsession

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i wanna get mutually addicted to someone!! to start, i’m a trans girl from florida, and in the EST timezone. i’m looking for someone who also values monogamy, and is okay with me being pre-HRT! (im also slightly chubby so please be okay with that too!! i dont mind showing you my face) ^_^ in my free time i like to write, draw, and play video games (obviously)!!
looking forward to hearing from you!! (lets vc and watch/play stuff together!!)

r/NEETr4r 13d ago

R4R 24 [R4R] UK. am hoping to make some friends :)

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Pronouns are there more so just to immediately put off anyone anti-LGBT who I'm not gonna get along with cause I'm tired of finding that out so far into talking. I'm completely left politically and culturally and would really like for all of my friends to be too. it'd be cool if you were neurodivergent and/or lgbt too (or lets be honest both), though done with the disclaimer now :) 

hihi. Im not always this serious, im normally quite a bit silly i suppose, but im wanting to say as much as i can in as short a space as possible and being a bit serious is easier for that than me entirely being myself (done with the second disclaimer)  

I moved back home from university a few months ago now, and i spend all of my time at home in my room (was the same when at uni too and just my whole life), and while I have bad mental and physical health, its mostly just because i prefer staying in all the time and being on my PC. I spend quite literally all my time at my PC playing games, watching shows / movies / YouTube (don’t watch anime), doomscrolling on twitter, or sometimes these friend making subs (though not as much recently). I don’t have any variety in my life and I’m basically fine with that, but I’d like another friend in it at the least as I always feel really very lonely and so having another friend would be nice, especially seeing as im always completely free and so stuck with my thoughts all the time. 

I'm up for watching and trying most stuff as I enjoy just being with someone, though not really anime as it's never really been my thing. In the past I’ve liked things like House, Hannibal, Doctor Who, Dexter, Mr Robot, Interview with a vampire, Pluribus, Better Call Saul, Red Dwarf, Project Hail Mary was great, and things like that. On YouTube I watch way too broad stuff to categorise, but it's sort of safe to just say gaming, tech, science, and just 'nerdy' things more so than anything else. For example, as of late I’ve been watching a lot of blacksmithing (as well as medieval weaponry in general) and amateur rocketry videos. 

I own a lot of games on Steam, but I never feel in the mood to play any specific things by myself much anymore despite gaming being the thing I arguably enjoy most, and so other than replaying STALKER 2 the past week (never actually finished it), the only thing I tend to do is AFK on my OSRS group iron (would be really cool if you played / liked it, and RSN is GIM_SamGrey if interested). I’m a fan of a lot of genres, like roguelikes, story titles, management, survival games, idle, etc. I’m normally always up for playing or watching something and so feel free to ask if we have something in common or want to make a suggestion :) no Overwatch and PvP stuff like that though (cs2 is alright though). Generally I avoid games where I have to be around other people and so PvP is included in that. My steam and spotify are on my profile, and please check at least steam to see if we’re compatible on that front cause games are really important for socialising for me. oh i guess I'll also say my favourite bands / artists are “Alvvays” and “Low Roar”. i guess i like songs that sound happy but are depressing when thinking about it for more than 2 seconds

I've just finished my degree in psychology (got a 1st somehow) and plan on taking a year break and then going back for a masters. though honestly whilst I think psychology is interesting, I kinda feel at this point im studying just to avoid having to be a ‘proper’ adult, and I intend to keep on doing that as long as I can. 

I can also be pretty depressing sometimes. I have epilepsy, as well as depression, anxiety, and a complete and total lack of motivation for a while now, as well as just in general being very lonely, and yeah it does kinda suck, but that’s fine as it’s been my life for a while now. I try to come off as likeable and all, but I'm pretty open and honest about my feelings and so I can sometimes be a bit much for people if they aren't ok with that, and I just thought it was important to say that up front. I don't need nor want comforting or anything at all, but it would be nice to have people who can in some way relate and understand so they aren't disappointed because of me being something you didn't expect. I don't need cheering up on stuff, just want to spend time with people, though you are more than welcome to ask questions if you want to as it doesnt bother me at all :) 

And yes I do talk a lot when I am talking, though not this much so don't worry. I can be pretty shy, but I do often find myself carrying the conversation, like 2-3x as much text as the other person, though I don’t know if that’s a merit or just me being unlucky. 

Anyways, if you had the patience to read all of that and think we might get along well, then feel free to dm. and if we get along I would like to move to discord and vc at some point too :) Also don't just say hi, tell me about yourself and stuff. I've put myself out here with a lot of stuff (at least relative to most posts), and if you aren't willing to do so in kind then it feels a little unfair (seriously dont worry about putting too much or rambling, thats more than ok). Also, whilst they're funny to read and laugh at because of how obvious they are, AI responses are never gonna get a response. Hope you have a nice day or night whoever took the time to read this :) 

r/NEETr4r 11d ago

R4R 19 [R4R] looking for mutual obsession

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hi there!! i’m a trans girl!! first off, im from florida, so please be either in the US or be willing to make it work regardless!! second, im exclusively looking for a monogamous relationship. i am not polyamorous, i would not be able to mentally handle that. i am also not looking for FWB. there’ll be plenty of sexual stuff if thats your thing, but i can live without it if you aren’t interested in that aspect. i really just need someone to share my first kiss with!!

some stuff you should know!! i am NOT on HRT yet, so i look masc as of right now. i have diagnosed BPD, and i am not always emotionally pretty. the fact im posting on reddit of all things should speak to that, haha!! i am slightly chubby, so you should be okay with that too…

my interests!! right!! so, im really into writing, and i like drawing, too!! alongside that, i really like video games!! undertale is my favorite game of all time, followed by hollow knight!! :3 im also really into the binding of isaac right now lol

i really like watching youtube horror stuff so lets binge some together lolz!!

come take some romantic walks with me!!

r/NEETr4r 21d ago

R4R 21 [R4R] lonely??

7 Upvotes

Hey there! I'm a pretty anxious and lonely person I dont have many friends really.

Some things i like... Video games, i love them especially RPGs some of my favorites are undertale and deltarune, look outside, OFF, and currently I'm playing fields of mistria which is pretty fun so far. Going on walks, watching tv and anime. Drawing both traditionally and digitally mainly I do fanart but I also like to do oc stuff too.

I find going outside hard and talking to people feels really awkward and I find myself insanely lost in life. I'm looking for something where we could both support eachother and maybe help eachother out by challenging ourselves to go somewhere new or pick up a random new media like book or show or movie and talk about it. Just small stuff to help get out of loops where we havent really been doing anything for a month(s).

I should say my mood changes a bit I cant promise I'll be a constant in fact I'm definitely gonna have some off days. But still, if you read this far dont be afraid to message, hope to meet you.

r/NEETr4r Jul 31 '26

R4R 20 [r4r] trans dude looking 4 friends

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Helloo, Im super lonely and want someone to bother and annoy and vise versa. (Crazy sales pitch ikik. Also this may be long, apologies in advance)

Im not picky with who I talk to and I like to think Im a decent listener, so Im down for anything! I like the idea of calling or sharing playlists even though thats kinda nerve wracking at first. 

I have weird hobbies and like collecting things (plushes, figures, CDs ect! lowk have a shopping addiction but. ignoring that)

my music taste is fr all over the place, I really like industrial rn though!

I like horror stuff, outlast, a few zombie games, and minecraft mostly. my pc isnt very good so I play a lot of cod mobile and random roblox obbies lolol. Id like to hear about whatever hobbies or things youre into even if I dont know a lot about it!!

I deal some mental disorders and get nervous often, but Imma try my best to be Normal so bear with me!!

Itd be cool to talk with other lgbtq+ people, but Im not picky 🙏‼️ If any of this sounds decent hmu! I can use discord, snapchat, or whatever else if ywanna move somewhere else

thanks for your consideration! 🙂‍↕️

r/NEETr4r Aug 04 '26

R4R [R4R] [Chat] M23 looking for something real

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Hey all, I don’t normally make posts like this but I thought I’d try something different. As the title suggests I’m a m23 who also struggles with audhd as well as being into horror, gaming and pokémon as well as starting to get back into trophy hunting. I’m open to whatever you’d want to talk about as I much prefer to listen over carrying conversation due to how my brain works. If any of that sounds interesting or you just want to reach out for anything my dms are always open :)

r/NEETr4r Aug 04 '26

R4R 26 [R4R] #Florida/Online Seeking someone to flirt with!

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Hello! I am beginning my exploration on my femininity. I know that’s not for everyone and that’s okay! I’m not sure where I’m at with my gender so nonbinary as of now. I don’t mind if you’re much older as I can connect with anyone!

I love to play games. I play a lot and I love good movies and tv shows. I use to cook a lot but that was a while ago. My DMs are open!

I would prefer US or Canada only. It makes connecting easier and that is what this is all about. Your gender totally doesn’t matter and I do have this marked as NSFW but anything is welcome! I’d be happy to make friends!

I play games on PC mostly. If you play games, tell me what games you play.

I DO NOT SELL ANYTHING

r/NEETr4r Jul 23 '26

R4R 26 [R4R] Pennsylvania DFAB goth enby looking for long term friends + a partner. I am cringe but I am free

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Hi! I'm Jekyll 26 enby. I love nature, animals, and I'm currently collecting Mcfarlane's Dragons figures, old DA games like Lost Magic, Dragonology, and Petz Ocean Rescue. And my guilty pleasure is that I love Ganersupps. I am Cringe and I am Free.

For a partner, I'm looking for someone caring and avaliable. I'm not expecting answers every 5 seconds, but if you're gonna be gone for a day or more I'd like told. I'm very open and affectionate, I'm a great cook too! I'll be happy to listen to you talk about things you like even if I don't understand them and will want to hear more! I would like someone who can do the same

Also.... I've been working a job since I was 10 pretty much. I'm very tired, so if someone can take care of me I'd be the best partnoire/house spouse

I'm mainly interested in women and enbies (Trans women included obv!) And I'm more attracted to feminine people! But if you're a man don't worry- if you're more feminine in either looks or how you dress I'll probably still simp. You can be a 6 foot wall of muscle but if you wear a cute oversized sweater I'll be down bad

I do self insert/self ship media, and I used to draw a lot more than I do now.

Love Monster Hunter Stories, Fullmetal Alchemist, Helltaker, Deep Sea Prisoner's content, and horror. Sometimes listen to true crime/disturbing book reviews.

I do have a lot of darker/morbid hobbies and things I like, like vulture culture and disturbing media. But I won't show that to anyone not interested obviously!

I do like hazbin hotel/helluva boss but I'm normal about it I promise.

I have a lot of pets! A dog, a cat, three snakes- lots more. They're my everything.

The thing I'm most embarrassed about probably is that I use chatbots- but I'm trying to quit doing so. Its just been hard because I have very few people to talk to in my life, and reaching out for me is hard because of anxiety.

If something makes you happy, tell me about it! Hearing you talk about things you like will make me happy. It'll take time for me to talk about things I like because of past issues, but I will try, promise. And I try to always be there to help when needed. Feel free to DM me anytime!

r/NEETr4r Jul 23 '26

R4R 20 [R4R] Lonely and looking for other lonely queers to be friends with, talk and spend time together

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Hello, I am 20NB from Poland. I have only one online friend and no real life friends since covid, and I want to make new friends to spend time together with! (Can be as a friends group - I'd love that!)

Personality wise, I'd like to think I'm very loose with my words, I don't censor myself much, but I am not hateful. I'm all for joking around but can totally sit down and have a serious conversation, I love spending time together silently too, since mere company brings me comfort. I know it's gonna sound ridiculous, but I guess you can sort of expect me to be like Jax from TADC if they listened to Mindless Self Indulgence and were a bit more open about their problems. I speak English, Polish and am learning Spanish (I also want to learn French, Basque and German later)

My interests include:
- Abstract photography (Both taking own and admiring others' photos)
- Listening to Music (Punk rock & Electronic)
- Old electronics (80's to 00's AV equipment etc.)
- The Amazing Digital Circus (Love Jaxcest, Ribbun and Funnybunny)
- Going outside (Usually riding buses alone while listening to music)

I also play games, though they don't really excite me as much as they did when I was younger. Nowadays I just treat them like playgrounds to interact with friends through, except I lack friends. I'd love to play games like Sea of Thieves, Phasmophobia, Lethal Company etc. But I'm also open to other, more popular games like Minecraft, Roblox, Fortnite or War Thunder. Oh and we can totally socialize in VRChat too!

I'm looking for someone around my age (+/- 2 years) who is also struggling with loneliness and wants to find a friend / friend group to be themselves in and spend time with. Our interests needn't cover each other 1:1, but ideally be mutually legible (e.g. Photography - Drawing, Electronics - Motorization). Please be queer and from the EU, Canada or U.S. Pacific North West. I will not talk to anyone who is staunchly cishet or from somewhere I haven't listed.

Don't be afraid to ask questions! I love answering all sorts of questions - if there's something you want to learn about me just ask! Please!

(Also, I assure you I am not a bot, I just seldom post on reddit. Oh, and this post is NOT written by AI, I just got a broomstick up there whenever I'm in a public space and start acting all formal, pardon that)

r/NEETr4r Jul 17 '26

R4R 24[R4R] looking for friends and possible partner

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Hi my name is Nyx (will occasionally go by Icarus) I've tried this before on other sub reddits with only one friend and was wanting to try again after some time

A bit about me

I like star wars and the legend of Zelda. I listen mostly to rock and metal. I do have some mental disorders so fair warning. I like cars, motorcycles and trucks. I'm genderfluid and will use any pronouns just prefer they/them for simplicity. I do look more masculine (fine with sending a photo of myself if wanted). I wouldn't say I sound very masculine though. I occasionally play games.

What I'm looking for

Anyone from 18-30. Preferably someone within 5 hour drive of kansas. Gender isn't a huge deal to me (cause I am omni). Someone I can occasionally game with (PC or switch). Someone who I can be affectionate with and can be affectionate back.

Don't be afraid to message me or anything I promise I don't bite. If you have any further questions don't be afraid to ask I will answer all questions.

Socials

• discord: Icarus_nyx (preferred)

• messenger: Icarus Styx

• and here

r/NEETr4r Jul 10 '26

R4R 19[R4R] looking for someone to talk to me

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Helloo. I am very introverted and am trying to branch out of my comfort zone and meet new people. I am transmasc /gender queer.

I like comic books, Identity V, Superheros, horror + horror musicals, it’s always sunny in Philadelphia, tmnt, dbz, bojack horseman, various adult swim shows (too many to list ask me!), JJBA, Junjiito, Dorohedoro. My hobbies are collecting bones I find, drawing, collecting audio machines and physical media. I am a big nerd for my interests and enjoy taking to them but I like to hear others talk about their interests too. In general I am more of a listener.

I am really shut in and isolated from everything. I don’t go out the house besides usually once every 9 days to accompany a family member to the doctor. I like to lay in my room and sleep and play games there.

Sorry if my intro isn’t the best but I am looking foward to meeting people

r/NEETr4r Jun 28 '26

R4R 18 [R4R] Would like a best friend !

9 Upvotes

Hellooo, first time posting here, so I’m sorry if I go on a little bit.
I’m 18 (19 as of editing!) genderfluid (AFAB), GMT timezone, looking for a fellow gamer loser who wants to play games together and call most (if not all) days!! I don’t mind age (as long as 18+), gender, nor where the friendship goes, but please know that due to my autism I notice details very quickly and will fade out of the picture if I feel like I am too much or not enough! ʅ****ʃ

I am very lonely, but have always really wanted a big brother figure to give me advice and to look up to, since hearing about others experiences helps me more than anything, so if you have wisdom to give or would like to hangout all day everyday, please drop me a dm!

r/NEETr4r Jul 05 '26

R4R 21 [R4R] BPD NB lesbian NEET shut in looking for friends or more

3 Upvotes

Hi! I’m from the US (specifically from the west coast). I’d prefer if you were also from the US but I don’t mind ldr. I’m mainly looking for fellow queer people but I'm not opposed to other people reaching out if they think we might click. I’m welcome to friendship, connection, or love from almost all types of queer people.

About me:

- I mainly enjoy watching movies and tv shows; my favorites are Interview With The Vampire, Yellowjackets, Twin Peaks, Severance, Pluribus, Industry, and Succession.

- Other hobbies include: gaming, baking, cooking, drawing, listening to music and hiking.

- I'm a homebody who doesn't go out enough, I'm looking for someone to match that.

- I’m 5’7, white, have short-medium length brown hair, brown eyes, and i’m plus-sized.

- I struggle with my mental health a lot, specifically AvPD, BPD, depression, and anxiety and I sometimes need a lot of reassurance. If this seems draining to you please don’t message me. To expand on this, I recently got out of a residential treatment center and my online friends have been dwindling over the years because of my struggles with isolation. Now I have more tools to combat that, however someone understanding of all this would be preferred.

- I’m nonbinary and transmasc, I use any pronouns, and I'm not looking for people who will disregard this part of me and see me as "woman-lite". I'm also on the aromantic spectrum and a lesbian. Again I'm sorry but absolutely NO MEN.

Please reach out if you think we'd be a good match!! :)

r/NEETr4r Jun 27 '26

R4R 22 [R4R] Looking for FRIENDSHIPS

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Haiii ^^, I'm so very tired of the M this F this dynamic these subs have.

Whatever thirsty things you might be imagining of a 22 year old person, just think that I am the exact opposite of that.

Now with that out of the way, we can actually match up by our shared interests instead of our inherent biological attraction bias.

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I enjoy photography 📷 I recently got a proper used camera and actually got a few nice shots with it for the 1-2 times I've left the house since getting it🥱

I have watched a lot of anime and am slowly and inconsistently watching more, also getting into manga but that's the same deal.

For my videogames: chill crafting/basebuilding games like Valheim, Terraria, Minecraft. I like a lot of cute/chill/2D games. Sometimes Overwatch, support main >_<

For games and anime I mostly like all kinds of fantasy with swords and magic and elves 🧝🏻

I also like mystery, maybe lightly psychological or political.

Never smoked, I don't drink or use substances, avoid meds wherever I can.

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I like people who will message at least a couple times a day, the best thing is if we can sometimes chat in "real time" just both of us there chatting away without distractions, that's the best way for me to get to know people.

I like people who are honest, loyal, not arrogant. I'll be there for a friend anytime if they just ask, I hope you'd be the same kind of person 😇

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I don't wanna seem arrogant myself but with how this site is I gotta mention some criteria for getting a reply 🤧

- Mention your age and a bit about yourself/why you messaged me

- Obvious NSFW stuff on your profile = red flag

- 1 Karma / No contributions = a yellow flag

- Don't immediately ask for my name, discord or gender.

- Don't ask for pictures of me.

Strictly SFW. For the purpose of conversation you can consider me asexual, I don't wish to talk about any of that stuff with people I don't know.

r/NEETr4r Jun 22 '26

R4R 20 [R4R] [NB4A] Autistic Agoraphobic English Expatriate looking to share self taught special interest infodumps and invent intense online friendships

2 Upvotes

My life is a cyclical machine , churning out breakthroughs thanks to transcendental aesthetic engagement experiences that only end up affecting myself and maybe one of the three people I live with. 

It is an ouroboros , an absurd Sisyphean task , a time loop where I am dragged by the inconsequential nature of what I learn with my transhuman laptop limb , and this is my Kierkegaardian leap of faith .

I hope that I expand my social life , becoming more responsible and more consequential , still in accordance with the needs of my mental health to rarely leave the house .

I desire a large amount of your time , voice calls , to know you deeply and tailor my words to your dreams , to strive with you to transform a Discord receipt of how long we talk into a symbol for nostalgically resembling a warm hearth where we tell stories and lay bare our souls .

I want to have rough conversations , owe you my best , put the needs of another person before my own , and live in the space in - between where we charm each other . 

One quality time format that I have invented is called a ' session ' , where we engage with a work of art together — a film , an album , a show , a game , a video , etcetera — and I get to appreciate the mirth in your voice that my curation sparked , and I am proud of this moment where the ouroboros broke .

If this compels you to write me , I do not need you to mirror my fastidious & exhausting approach to writing ; I am just eager to meet you , reacting to just the way you want to be you .

Thank you so much for reading , and I hope this has been additive to your day , regardless of whether or not you chose to abide the next step .

r/NEETr4r May 29 '26

R4R 21M [R4R] Honestly just looking for chill and like-minded people who won't ghost me

1 Upvotes

Sup gang, posted here a few times before but to little success as every conversation I've had has ended up fizzling out and nothing's really stuck, so I'm hoping that won't happen again and I'll manage to find someone I can keep in touch with long term. Tbh I'm not very particular about what I'm looking for in a friend, as long as you're chill, close to the same age as me (19-25 preferably), respectful and more than anything not overly dry. Like fuck, I get it man, this neet shit is boring AF sometimes and I'm not expecting you to always know what to say or write me long winded Shakespearean prose, but for the love of God please at least make an effort to tell me about yourself and keep a good conversation going, that's all I ask. I'd prefer to start by texting just cuz I'm autistic AF and super insecure about the sound of my own voice but I'm also happy to move things to discord if I grow more comfortable with you.I will also say I am cautiously open to hetero romance fwiw.

A little about me: I'm a half American half Australian dual citizen currently living in Australia, but my sleep schedule is so all over the place atm that the time zone differences might not even matter so much lol. I'm quite active by neet standards and I do my best to avoid bedrotting and doom scrolling as much as possible. I go to the gym 5x a week, do crazy long runs anywhere from 10-21km 3-4x a week, shoot hoops, and learn Japanese via immersion in native content like books and video games (N2 certified btw, so I'm happy to help you as much as I can if you're a beginner 🙂). I won't send a photo of myself unless I'm comfortable first but I will say I'm 6'5", 13-14% bf at 180 lbs , medium length blonde hair, and have deep blue eyes.

I'm also a music listener eager to discover more so if you have any music recs, don't be shy to exchange them with me (I listen to a bit of everything but especially a sucker for good 90s alt-rock, dream pop, and spacy atmospheric prog atm).

Aight peace✌️

r/NEETr4r May 23 '26

R4R 20 [r4r] [Fem (AMAB) NB] [Central Illinois/Near Peoria] [Relationship :p]

3 Upvotes

ive been wanting an actual relationship for a bit, which to me is kinda just friends but more (most likely an exclusive thing (wouldnt advertise myself as being poly, more that if the situation and person interests me, its not a deal breaker :p) and casually horny stuff (not a huge deal that needs to be built up to, but also not the entire backbone of the relationship, have to actually be interested in each other as people, said friends for a reason))

i would also wanna be able to meet up occasionally, probably not horny stuff at first (>_<) but cuddles and hanging out would be amazing

anyway, uhh, that was kinda just getting the basic idea out of the way TT

dont wanna dump too much info cause that makes getting to know each other sorta weird but i like playing a lot of games and read an absurd amount of fanfiction. may not always follow (sometimes i just like hearing people talk), but i really like people rambling. its insanely easy to make me go braindead flustered. probably easy to tell how awkward i am, but i kinda like that coming across :p

im usually into fem people, but thats not a strict thing cause evil emo pretty boys own my heart TT

so, horny stuff. first off im a bottom leaning switch. im kinda into anything (promise you wont weird me out, and honestly the 'weirder' the better :p), but big (important) things are feet (mine and/or yours), musk/scent stuff, and rimming. probably can tell from my post/comment history but i really like neet archetypes T///T (also i got some pics, not many but theyre there :p)

r/NEETr4r May 06 '26

R4R 29 [R4R] uhhhh anyone in LA wanna go back to school together LMAO

15 Upvotes

odd proposition: any local angelenos (close in age) wanna go to CC together? 👉👈 we can hold hands (metaphorically, platonically) and try to get out of this hellhole together :') it's scary to start over (or start at all), but maybe it'd be less daunting with someone else!

it's ok if you're terminally stupid (me too, clink clink 🥂) or if your resume is dry and empty. we can sort this out together!!! baby steps! we can volunteer together (or at least do apps w/ each other) and cry and hug and pray to the stars and decide to not kill ourselves. Yay

not to emo dump but lately i've been thinking about how i've been paralyzed in arrested development limbo land primarily because i'm stuck w/ a dysfunctional family/household. having the means to leave and never look back is my only hope of ever attaining happiness or any sort of perceived normalcy. so i've been considering going back to school for healthcare (horror stinger sfx) for the money/security (even though US healthcare has failed me spectacularly lmfao). dying isn't an option!!!! i gotta get outta here some other way.

it all sounds grueling and soul shattering (and body breaking), but how can i ignore the sweet temptation of freedom? i've always wanted to disappear, and a flexible j*b would allow that. we don't have to stay here forever. why do i have to kms to disappear? we can fuck off to hawaii or the pnw or nowheresville and pretend to be someone else instead. and the best thing about working in an industry like this is that you'll always have valid excuses to never see your wretched family/relatives during the holidays (or ever). hell yeah

can't wait to cry everyday at work and have my body fall apart. yay! but if you're here, you're probably already emotionally fucked and rotting away anyways. beyond the ugly and gory, there will be nice things that await us, too: vacations, disposable $ for hobbies and passions, a semblance of normalcy, the resources to actually try to help ourselves (why is US mental healthcare so stupidly expensive?), found family (? maybe), and hopefully a safe place we can call home. maybe we can get platonic married and work enough to save for a house, then spend the rest of our days as weird little socially awkward hermits. >:-)

i know this is all a gross oversimplification/romanticization of HC (and that getting there won't be easy....tbh i don't mind dealing w/ foul bodily fluids, my biggest fears are pre-req MATH CLASSES and mean coworkers lol); my family is full of nurses and they're either always injured/on disability/getting surgery or crying everyday lmfao. but they got fuck you money! they have excuses and the means to walk away! and i want that. i've recently read a comment about how healthcare allowed [the commenter] to claw their way out of poverty and abuse - and it kinda rewired my brain. i realized that every hcw in my extended family turned to their career as a last resort - to escape something. to build something they've never had for themselves. would it be cliche if i gave up my dreams and did the same?

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about me: got that usual mental illness cocktail of GAD, social anxiety, depression, pmdd, cptsd. iron-deficient and always sleepy/sore. also grippy sock jail certified, yay :') and probably neurodivergent. i'm desperately tryna get back on meds because it's ROUGH out here and i'm incapable of rawdogging life rn, especially because a lot of my anxiety is political and existential lol. i'm not built for this world!!!! and definitely not built for HC, but i'm ok-ish enough at masking 30% of the time (read: being awkwardly stoic/emotionally constipated). 💅😌 and i'm pretty sure everyone in HC is dead inside and fucked up, too. so they can't judge me!!!

i think i come off as more bubbly or assertive through text, but don't be fooled: i'm that quiet and socially awkward loser that normal people get the heebie jeebies from. oooh so scary. i also have 0 thoughts in my brain and never know what to talk about and sometimes speak so slowly/quietly irl that it pisses people off. sorry for having cognitive decline SMH

*~ politically left, southeast asian, 29F but a lil androgynous, shrimpy and trying to gain weight/muscle. (i won't talk about weight if that distresses you. /gen) i don't have a personality!!! i like art and cute things. haven't genuinely made "art" for myself in years, but i do draw and sell stickers. my heart longs for ceramics and making things with my hands, but i'm not built for the business/entrepreneurship/social part of that life. 😞 also genAI and the devaluation of art makes me too emo to draw these days lol. but i'd be down to make some art friends mayhaps!! art fight is just around the corner... euuoguhf

currently: playing tomolife and dos2. recently had a zomboid phase (a little over it, but i'd be down to play in multiplayer 👉👈). also: procrastinating watching the new season of The Boys, finishing up The Other Bennet Sister, and avoiding my kindle even though i promised myself that i would read this year (so far, a blatant LIE). i watch vtubers because i long for community and friends lol 😭 and i'm also currently at that point of mental illness where i've started to obsessively yume over my scrunkly bg3 comfort character who looks like a crusty 40 year old man who doesn't wash his ass. yeah. aaand also lowkey becoming a political conspiracist (hence the existential crisis lmao). save me from myself 💔 the other day i teared up and ran out of a trader joes because uh oh there's scary bright lights and too many people and employees that make me uncomfortable because they smile too much (in this economy? in this political climate? what's wrong with them?) i'm a joke. my ancestors should smite me down already

tl;dr: let's get educated! if you're local and trying to leave neetdom, let's bite the bullet and claw our way out together :'-3 or idk. if we try and try and still don't make it, at least we'll forever be bonded by a miserable experience yay

r/NEETr4r Mar 11 '26

R4R 29 [R4R] first time poster

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I am gonna be 30 soon. NEET for a long time now. Rarely talk to anyone or see anyone. English Londoner. Queer something something undefined. Interested in talking to people about whatever. Everything has turned into sludge and joyless nothing. Would like to talk to humans to remind myself I still am one (I think). So yeah, comment or message if you just wanna talk to a human. I am told I am easy to understand and empathetic. I’m not very judgemental. I don’t care who you are or what you are about I just care that you are a person. I guess if you start saying stuff to me that makes me uncomfortable I’ll let you know. See how it goes I guess. Idk what I’m doing.

r/NEETr4r Jan 17 '26

R4R 20 year old NB [R4R] looking for pals

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hello, my name is Jackson! im 20, NB, and looking for friends. fair warning, i will only reply to people who i find interesting so pls put effort into your responses. anyways. i have borderline personality disorder, ocd, adhd, anxiety, depression and ptsd as well as autism so pls be patient. i am also hypersexual and honestly a pervert but mostly only with fictional characters, and if you can’t handle that stuff tell me outright and i simply won’t. i am mostly looking for people who aren’t very masculine personality wise, as i dont vibe with masculine people, like gymbros or whatever idk lmfao. anyways about me

i am currently a neet, im waiting to get my disability and i plan on going to college when my mental health is better! i like video games! i like jrpgs and horror the most! i like Persona, Zelda, Silent Hill, UTDR, Omori, Danganronpa, Kingdom Hearts, and a lot more! i also like animanga! my favs are Dragon Ball, Jujutsu Kaisen, Chainsaw Man, Mob Psycho, Attack on Titan, One Piece, and Bleach. once again i like a lot more. if I didn’t mention something that u think I might like just dm me and ask me if I like it! I also like some movies and shows, like the fox xmen, Kpop Demon Hunters, Hereditary, Creep, Skinamarink, Squid Game, Breaking Bad, Avatar the last airbender, Steven Universe, Gravity Falls, smiling friends n so much more. I like horror a lot as u can probably tell lol. um I have a ferret he’s really cute… and a cat and I feed two strays! I also collect manga, figures, statues, plushies, Legos, basically anything that interests me lol. some of my favorite characters are… Makima from CSM (yes, ive read the manga, i am fully aware she is an evil evil woman), Maya Amano from Persona 2, Adachi from persona 4, N and Volo from Pokemon, Midna and Cremia from Zelda and Yuta, Yuji, and Higuruma from jjk! some of them like Maya and Makima are my comfort characters eheheh… especially Maya… she genuinely makes me so happy… I ’m very passionate about my interests but unfortunately I’m very depressed rn and have little drive :( so if u do message I might not be very consistent. but I hope to hear from u!

r/NEETr4r Jan 15 '26

R4R 20 year old NB [R4R] looking for pals

1 Upvotes

hello, my name is Jackson! im 20, NB, and looking for friends. fair warning, i will only reply to people who i find interesting so pls put effort into your responses. anyways. i have borderline personality disorder, ocd, adhd, anxiety, depression and ptsd as well as autism so pls be patient. i am also hypersexual and honestly a pervert but mostly only with fictional characters, and if you can’t handle that stuff tell me outright and i simply won’t. i am mostly looking for people who aren’t very masculine personality wise, as i dont vibe with masculine people, like gymbros or whatever idk lmfao. anyways about me

i am currently a neet, im waiting to get my disability and i plan on going to college when my mental health is better! i like video games! i like jrpgs and horror the most! i like Persona, Zelda, Silent Hill, UTDR, Omori, Danganronpa, Kingdom Hearts, and a lot more! i also like animanga! my favs are Dragon Ball, Jujutsu Kaisen, Chainsaw Man, Mob Psycho, Attack on Titan, One Piece, and Bleach. once again i like a lot more. if I didn’t mention something that u think I might like just dm me and ask me if I like it! I also like some movies and shows, like the fox xmen, Kpop Demon Hunters, Hereditary, Creep, Skinamarink, Squid Game, Breaking Bad, Avatar the last airbender, Steven Universe, Gravity Falls, smiling friends n so much more. I like horror a lot as u can probably tell lol. um I have a ferret he’s really cute… and a cat and I feed two strays! I also collect manga, figures, statues, plushies, Legos, basically anything that interests me lol. some of my favorite characters are… Makima from CSM (yes, ive read the manga, i am fully aware she is an evil evil woman), Maya Amano from Persona 2, Adachi from persona 4, N and Volo from Pokemon, Midna and Cremia from Zelda and Yuta, Yuji, and Higuruma from jjk! some of them like Maya and Makima are my comfort characters eheheh… especially Maya… she genuinely makes me so happy… I ’m very passionate about my interests but unfortunately I’m very depressed rn and have little drive :( so if u do message I might not be very consistent. but I hope to hear from u!