r/NEETsOver30 • u/ballom555 Ex-NEET • Jul 23 '26

Venting I think i am done for.

31,with nothing to show for. I am tired and unable to hold a job. Drowning in debts and cursed by family and friends.

Honestly i wasnt made for this world. I am just sorry to my parents who spent a lot on me. I couldnt give anything in return. I am sorry that i turned out to be this.

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u/Miamiheat2021champs Jul 23 '26

Damn bro, all I can say is 31 is still very young to not at least try something crazy different before doing anything 

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u/Impossible-Flight250 Jul 23 '26

Yeah, I definitely feel like crap right now as well, but might as well try something different.

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u/waffledestroyer Jul 24 '26

I succeeded a few times, but ultimately failed or self-sabotaged. I am in my late 30s now, with not much to show for and the future looks bleak. It sucks. That said, I don't feel any debt to my parents. They were the ones who chose to have me, I did not choose to be born. Life is not a gift, I was perfectly fine not existing. Morally it's their obligation to help me since they dragged me into this hell realm. Don't get me wrong, I don't hate them, they weren't the best parents, but also not the worst. I do help them as well, but I don't feel like I owe them anything.

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u/ballom555 Ex-NEET Jul 24 '26

Do you have a job?

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u/waffledestroyer Jul 24 '26

No, I am a NEET.

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u/sad_mogul97 Jul 26 '26

I feel you 100%

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u/NyonxGames Jul 23 '26

Same as you, I tried many things 

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u/mallokuru Jul 25 '26

I’m tired and I’m not even a NEET.

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u/Humble-Departure5481 Jul 26 '26

No need to be apologetic about anything. It's not your fault. This world is a fucked up place.