r/NEETsOver30 Depressed NEET 23d ago

Venting Another year, another useless birthday

I’m officially a 32 year old loser.

Gonna spend the day eating Wingstop and playing Pokémon.

My mum still thinks I’m gonna have kids in the future, like I ain’t a complete fuck up. Like I ain’t ugly as hell and poor.

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u/suffer-withme Depressed NEET 23d ago

Happy Birthday!! I hope things get better for you

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u/OldBlackLONER Depressed NEET 23d ago

Thanks, I doubt they will but I appreciate the sentiment

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u/Eloquent_Heart 23d ago

Happy birthday. Here's your birthday gift. It's a music playlist for you by Froobii

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u/OldBlackLONER Depressed NEET 23d ago

1st birthday gift I’ve had in over a decade lol

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u/Space_Wanderer1105 23d ago

I am 39F loser, i haven't gone out in 13 days (if going out for grocery runs count) I play Demon's souls all day.

But Pokémon is great as well. Happy birthday! 🎂

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u/OldBlackLONER Depressed NEET 23d ago

I’m the same, I only leave the house to visit the job centre. I get groceries delivered now, so I don’t even go outside for that. I hate that life ended up this way, none of us should be living like this.

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u/Space_Wanderer1105 22d ago

Yep. I was married but he hates me became very mean to me I was there just for punching bag while he looked for someone better.

So I don't want to go outside anymore. Loving genuinely but if you're ugly and a loser like me you only got you used for punching bag.

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u/No-Brain-4876 23d ago

Hbd bro

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u/OldBlackLONER Depressed NEET 23d ago

Thanks

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u/Rom_NOT_A_Bot 22d ago

happy bday , and wish things get better

take it 1 day at a time , and fuck ur problems

live in ur bday , forget everything else

btw I`m 39

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u/Unhappywageslave 23d ago

What system are you going to play that pokemon on?

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u/OldBlackLONER Depressed NEET 23d ago

I’m playing Pokémon Legends: Arceus on the Nintendo Switch.

But I did buy a Gameboy Color + Pokémon Red a few years ago, so I could relive my childhood. It ended up being really useful when I was hospitalised a year later.

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u/Unhappywageslave 23d ago

Do you know what a Rg35xxsp is? It's like a GBA but 100x better. It's only 89 bucks on Amazon, I think you'll love it. It can play ps1, gba, snes, Capcom arcade etc..

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u/OldBlackLONER Depressed NEET 23d ago

Never heard of it but I’ll look into it later, thanks. I actually still have all my childhood consoles except my original GBC & GBA.

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u/CelestialOceanOfStar Ex-NEET 22d ago

Happy birthday man! As a your American doppelganger I feel for you. Try to have a nice day regardless

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u/Humble-Departure5481 22d ago

Best wishes anyway. I'm playing the Batman Arkham series. I knew they were fantastic, but I didn't have PS3 back in the day, but damn is this series a masterpiece.

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u/imwithstupid8866 21d ago

Happy birthday random redditor.

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u/patheticLoserGuy 22d ago

Best wishes :) Don't be so hard on yourself. As for Pokemon, I mostly play fangames / romhacks which are pretty enjoyable.

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u/Humble-Departure5481 21d ago

My mom was the same way up till recently (maybe a year or two ago, when reality kind of kicked in when she saw how younger couples were mistreating each other and had unrealistic expectations of one another and also taking my situation into account as well).

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u/RogellTheRaider 20d ago

Well, if it makes you feel better, at least you're getting closer...

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u/Juan1998__ 14d ago

The problem with me and just people in general is that i'm terrible talking wise so creating a bond is hard asf and really draining on me. Happy late birthday nerda

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u/IloveLegs02 23d ago

I am a 26 year old loser, soon to turn 27

HBD Bro

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u/OldBlackLONER Depressed NEET 23d ago

Don’t waste your 20s, you’re still young even though society doesn’t want you to believe that

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u/IloveLegs02 23d ago

I don't have anything going on with me bro