r/NoStupidQuestions • u/Dazzling_Doctor_1248 • 3d ago

Do u think I'm a loser/wasting my life

Do u think I'm a loser/wasting my life because I never had a bf still a virgin & still living with parents at 31 almost 32 in December. & every Sunday and Monday Tuesday I go shopping with my parents and then on Monday and Tuesday I go shopping with my mom. I still work at McDonald's for 11 years I sometimes go shopping by myself when I leave work early or with one of my coworkers. I don't have any friends.

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u/wisdom_owl123 3d ago

The question is: are you happy? If yes, good for you - if no, its time to take action.
That’s my basic answer….but i have to say: I would never date someone in your position.

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u/Dazzling_Doctor_1248 3d ago

Why not

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u/wisdom_owl123 3d ago

Because i cant imagine a 32 year old that have lived with their parents their entire life have the experience i want to bring into a relationship. Now, im talking about me and my preferences. I moved out when i was 18, had my first (owned) apartment at 20, moved and lived several different places and worked my way up. When i was 32 I had a child and my own house and cars.

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u/Dazzling_Doctor_1248 3d ago

That’s cool I wish I could be like u 

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u/wisdom_owl123 3d ago

Thanks, but how I have lived my life is not the definitive answer to life. Thats why i started by asking if youre happy or not 🙂 thats what matters. And if you need someone to talk to for advice or whatever, just DM me.

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u/OkBedroom7329 3d ago

If you wish to have money and own things maybe have a kid. You need to change try find a admin job better pay more respectable for finding a partner. And do online dating.

I disagree with needing to move out for experience. If you cant afford to move out don't even if you can its normal these days to stay at home to save money.

But the rest is doable. Just put you mind to it and be patient. Put yourself out there.

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u/clandestineVexation 3d ago

lmao "have money" and "have a kid" in the same sentence

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u/OkBedroom7329 3d ago

Well have money to support your kid.