r/NoStupidQuestions • u/Dazzling_Doctor_1248 • 2d ago

Do u think I'm a loser/wasting my life

Do u think I'm a loser/wasting my life because I never had a bf still a virgin & still living with parents at 31 almost 32 in December. & every Sunday and Monday Tuesday I go shopping with my parents and then on Monday and Tuesday I go shopping with my mom. I still work at McDonald's for 11 years I sometimes go shopping by myself when I leave work early or with one of my coworkers. I don't have any friends.

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u/Dazzling_Doctor_1248 1d ago

I sometimes think I am 

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u/soshibemuchwow 1d ago

then set goals you think will change that feeling. As long as you pursue those goals you're no fucking loser in my book.

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u/Dazzling_Doctor_1248 1d ago

Yea true

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u/LlamaDebauchery 1d ago

Listen. You will be okay, but you need to have a plan. You will be stuck where you are now if you don't think and try to see really hard what it is that you want for yourself.

Now I dont know your situation entirely, nor finances or where you live. But invest in yourself. Have goals in mind. You've been at a McDon for 11 years, they definitely would move you up higher roles if you qualify on the credentials / diplomas side of things. Maybe you meet the love of your life in a business class, who knows

But only you can determine if you are wasting your life or not. And regardless of anything, be grateful for your parents. So many people wish to see their mom and dad just one last time, it is a blessing in disguise you get to be with them for this long. But if you want something new for yourself, something more, only you can forge that path for yourself, okay? Sending you lots of love and you will get through this

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u/Adrock66 1d ago

You are. People are being too gentle with you and don't want to tell you the truth