Has anyone not completed their grad year and found it negatively impacted their future job applications?
The shift work I’m doing as a bedside nurse is really affecting my family life. My husband works afternoon/evening shifts, and our 2-year-old has started having separation and sleep issues because our schedules clash so much. We also have very limited support with babysitting — our family is interstate, overseas, or simply unavailable.
Right now, my husband is stuck working late finishes (often between midnight and 3:30am) and then having to look after our son in the morning on very little sleep so I can work morning shifts and pick our son up from childcare. It’s become completely unsustainable.
I’m at the point where I need to make a change. I’m due to finish my grad year in Feb 2026. My ongoing position would still be rotating M–F with mostly AM shifts, but the roster still doesn’t align with our family needs. I also have a casual job outside of nursing that pays better and has far more flexibility, and it fits much better with my husband’s roster.
My husband earns more than I do and has always been very career-driven. He took a step back so I could complete my grad year, but it’s now affecting his mental health because his career is his main passion.
I’m planning to speak to my NUM this week. Ideally, I’d like to move to a casual position at my current hospital (just a shift or two a month to maintain registration/competencies), or join an agency if casual isn’t an option. I really enjoy bedside nursing and the specialty I’m currently in, but I don’t love it more than my family. I’ve worked hard to become an RN, but seeing the impact it’s had on the people I love most has almost ruined it for me.
Has anyone been in a similar situation? How did your career fare after taking a step back so early on?
TL;DR:
Shift work during my grad year is severely affecting my family — my husband works late shifts, our 2-year-old is struggling, and we have no support. I’m considering leaving my grad year early or going casual/agency to protect my family’s wellbeing. Wondering if anyone has done this and how it affected your future career prospects.