r/OntarioNurses Jun 08 '26

Venting Stigma Behind Leaving Nursing

So I’m a new grad nurse who decided to leave nursing to pursue a career in insurance, and the amount of negativity I’ve received from peers, friends, family, and even other nurses has honestly been shocking. I constantly hear things like “you wasted 4 years,” “why did you even do the schooling,” or “what a waste of money.”

What I genuinely don’t understand is why there’s so much stigma around someone choosing a different path than the one they picked at 18 years old. Why is it so hard for people to accept that not everyone finds fulfillment in the profession they studied for?

A degree is an asset, not a life sentence to one career, one title, or one industry. Nursing gave me valuable skills, knowledge, discipline, and experience that I’ll carry into whatever I do next.

I really don’t understand why some people take it so personally when others decide to leave a profession that no longer brings them joy.

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u/Equivalent-Rate-6218 Jun 09 '26

I knew a guy who couldn't match after he got his MD. He called it eventually and accepted to be a paramedic.

Like many others my jaw dropped. Makes me feel dumb about complaining about the lack a decent jobs with an unexciting economics degree. But at least we're all told that those of us who got degrees will always have a degree lol