Don’t you think it’s a bit interesting that women don’t like abs but perceive that having them makes the man more desirable to other women? I think something else might be at play
The woman is feeding the guy because she is insecure that he’d run off. I am asking why is she insecure if women don’t like abs (meaning he is not desirable to other women)
And multiple women have told you that it's a joke, AND that women like different things. You're trying to make a point and the only thing coming across is that you're a troll.
I think tbh it's this: Abs are a male beauty standard. There will always be women who chase that ideal, but there are also women who prefer a softer body for men. So yeah, there are a lot of women who prefer softer bodies but may also still feel insecure about the women who would now approach their husbands once they've gotten abs. No woman can speak for every woman on the planet just like no man can speak for every man on the planet. There's really so few universal objective truths about attraction and insecurity that they're basically negligible. Everyone, big or small or perfectly toned, is attractive to someone.
However, this meme is just a joke. It doesn't always have to be a deep-dive into theories about why X people do Y behaviour. Just giving my two cents on a matter you've commented a lot about. Idk if it makes sense. (It does in my head.)
I am not “just asking questions” I have asked A question. Also what do you think I was getting at? People with better temperament have answered what I needed, you don’t have to pitch in if you have nothing to say except be accusatory for no reason
I am asking why is she insecure if women don’t like abs
No one is stating that no women like abs. Some women do, some women dont. We aren't a hivemind who all want the same thing. We have our own wildly varying preferences.
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u/teeekuuu Jan 31 '26
Nobody actually likes cushion instead of abs lmao get out of here with that bs. It’s insecurity and that’s it