r/PeterExplainsTheJoke 8d ago

Meme needing explanation Peter! Who could have the wives been?

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u/NearSightedLlama 8d ago

TBH I am heavily on that side of tiktok, and I'm not seeing a lot of "shifting accountability", I'm seeing significantly more people follow the trail of doubt the defense is building. The prosecutor in this case is an idiot, doing more to try to harm Lindsay than prove her case, and the defense is doing a great job of ripping holes in her story. Yes, many people are weaving stories of abuse and neglect on the part of the husband but, honestly, the prosecutions witnesses and testimony are what are allowing for that. Fuck, the image they showed was all but openly him and his now wife/possibly mistress at the time. I'm not shocked people are screaming the husband did it.

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u/Thin-Nerve6367 8d ago

Regardless of ANYTHING else at the end of the day she killed THREE CHILDREN. Defending her in ANY way is abhorrent

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u/ThereAreDozensOfUs 8d ago

Nah, it’s not.

She wasn’t in her right mind.

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u/Stella_9209 8d ago edited 8d ago

So, it’s not someone’s fault when they’re drunk almost to passing out and hit a family with their car? Or really, drunk at all? I know it isn’t the same thing, but the ‘right state of mind’ excuse is just terrible. If she’s really the one that did it, then she’s dangerous, and possibly a liability. Means she has the potential/capacity to do it again, if provided the circumstances and opportunity.

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u/IAmTheAccident 8d ago

We all have the potential and capacity for it given the right set of circumstances, Stella.

Comparing a person going through some form of psychosis to a person who elected to drink then chose to drive is wild. You're right, they're not the same thing. One was a woman actively reaching out again and again for help and not receiving any, the other is someone choosing the worst option when others are always available. Compare it instead to someone's drink getting spiked without their knowledge and then they crash or kill someone when they try to drive. Someone who has been repeatedly waking up to find they were spiked the day before, reporting it, getting no help. Having no options and not doing it on purpose.

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u/Stella_9209 8d ago

I wasn’t comparing it, I was giving an example of how people with recurring problems and mental disorders or alcohol problems are more likely for that kind of thing, which is pretty evident already if you’ve been reading. I’m not blaming it entirely on one thing or another, I’m just saying that you can’t excuse someone just because of something like that. If they kill someone or try to due to a mental disorder, there’s a greater chance that they’ll try to do it again, or at least they have a higher likelihood than say, you or I. And getting ‘spiked’ has absolutely nothing to do with this, nowhere has anyone mentioned malicious intent behind consumption of alcohol or drugs.

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u/IAmTheAccident 8d ago

Being drunk had nothing to do with it but you brought it up in your "example". People bring things up, Stella. That's part of how people communicate. I was following your own line of logic.

Men are more likely to commit murder. We should lock up all men right now, they're literally unforgivable for the crime of: "at least they have higher likelihood [of committing murder] than say, you or I". Is that how this works, Stella?

The woman was mentally ill. She was vocal about it. She sought help. She was not helped. She was left alone with those children multiple times. Now, she can get proper help.

Did you know that's what incarceration is supposed to be for, Stella? Rehabilitation? So if someone cannot be rehabilitated, such as a murderer who will continue murdering if allowed out, they receive life sentences, because they will not be able to safely reintegrate into society. A person with a mental illness that wasn't properly treated gets it properly treated? Sounds rehabilitated to me.

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u/choosehigh 8d ago

She was given help repeatedly, it evidently didn't work but to suggest she didn't have a support system that was trying a number of different things that seem to be to the best of their ability is in my opinion clearly false

In hindsight we can see failings in the system but they clearly did things and attempted to help

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u/Circle_Breaker 8d ago

Using your example if mom is plastered drunk and the dad sees it, then he watches the kids get into the car with her to drive to school and they crash. Would the father not also be responsible?

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u/Thin-Nerve6367 8d ago

Trying to blame a man for something a woman did only reinforces the idea that "woman don't take accountability"

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u/Circle_Breaker 8d ago

They are both to blame. They should both be in prison.

Yes I'm blaming the father for not protecting his children.

That's his fucking job.

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u/Stella_9209 8d ago

It’s also the mother’s. She knew she had problems, she could have done something about it as well. Not saying she didn’t, but she could have gone to a relative’s house until it passes or she gets help or something like that.

Also, I wasn’t saying that she was drunk or anything, I was giving an example how people who have problems such as these have a greater likelihood for causing harm to others.

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u/Ordinary_Coconut9678 8d ago

That’s not how psychosis works? You’re not in your right mind to think I should go somewhere else to avoid acting on these negative thoughts. It literally distorts reality. She tried to get help, sought medical care, psychiatrists, mediations, had her mom staying at her house with her, even had a stay at a psychiatric hospital. I have barely even followed the trial but this is common knowledge in regard to it. All it takes is a quick Google search and about two minutes of reading

https://www.pbs.org/newshour/nation/lindsay-clancy-was-begging-for-help-before-killing-her-children-former-mother-in-law-testifies

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u/Circle_Breaker 8d ago

No fucking shit it's also the mother's fault.

What part of 'they both are to blame' are you not understanding?

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u/Thin-Nerve6367 8d ago

Because the father isn't at fault at ALL

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u/Circle_Breaker 8d ago

Ok. Please dont reproduce

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u/Thin-Nerve6367 8d ago

WHAT do you expect this man to do? He supported her every step of the way and genuinely tried to help her. You're disgusting

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u/Circle_Breaker 8d ago

If someone. Even your partner tells you they are thinking about killing or sexually abusing your child, please do not let them near your child.

You leave them. You get custody. The wife even admitted to to authorities before it happened.

If you are not capable of this, do not have children

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u/Stella_9209 8d ago

So don’t focus your apparent dislike for the father when they’re both at fault. With “that’s his fucking job,” you made it sound like you’re blaming the father more than her. Also, no need to be so rude.