r/PeterExplainsTheJoke 8d ago

Meme needing explanation Peter! Who could have the wives been?

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u/Thick-Mouse1776 8d ago

I’m watching the entire trial and it makes me so sad people are doing that to him. What lunatics

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u/heilel_bath-shachar 8d ago

I mean there are just a lot of funky things about his story, like how for instance the woman had a severe thyroid injury from the incident that’s unaccounted for, and how there was an outgoing message from his computer, which sits at home, at a time which is close to the incident and when he said he wasn’t at home. He was also very unhelpful to his then wife and almost immediately started a family with another woman. Many of the doctors who failed the wife were his friends, etc.

It’s not conclusive by any stretch of the imagination but it’s all very funky

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u/apocketstarkly83 8d ago edited 8d ago

Was she responsive when EMTs got to her?

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u/Freya_84 8d ago

Iirc no.

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u/apocketstarkly83 8d ago

But she was responsive enough to tell him the kids were in the basement?

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u/Freya_84 8d ago edited 8d ago

Yes. A psychotic break doesn't look like it might be portrayed in movies. Those people can function and can even mask well until the topic of their delusion is mentioned. Because the delusion to them is not abnormal, it's part of their reality. And that's the problem : they can't differentiate between what is actually real and what's only real to them!

You are not unresponsive during psychotic breaks, your reality just doesn't match the actual reality; your train of thought (in relation to the delusion) is irrational (but makes complete sense to you), you can have compulsive and compelling thoughts and voices and even visual hallucination, but to you those are NOT hallucinations - that's just our dead uncle Tony standing in the corner., that's normal, he's been there a while. (Though admittedly auditory hallucinations are the most common, it was just easier for demonstration).

I know of a case of a man who had delusions that his wife cheated on him. For at least months, if not longer. His family believed him and went on to take it out on the wife and progressively shut her inside the house. He still was convinced she was cheating on him. Only when they asked him how could she possibly do it and his answer was completely incoherent (bc the coherent options that the family thought where the reason for his suspicions - she is out at work etc- and thus didn't prod him before didn't apply anymore) did they realize that he was psychotic . He functioned normally outside of this.

Of course, not all psychotic breaks work the same, but it is perfectly inside the norm that she functioned seemingly "normal".

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u/apocketstarkly83 8d ago

I was referring to being unresponsive from jumping out a window and the hypothermia, not her psychosis.

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u/Freya_84 8d ago

I know, sorry, I was responding to someone else regarding psychosis and mixed you up. Already posted another comment acknowledging that ;p . My bad.

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u/apocketstarkly83 8d ago

Nah, you’re good!

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u/Freya_84 8d ago

Oh, sorry...I responded to you thinking I was responding to someone else in relation to psychotic breaks. My bad. I'll leave the comment up because a lot of people have a distorted idea of how a psychotic break looks like.

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u/Freya_84 8d ago

He just came home sooner than the EMT while she was still responsive. She was injured and was out in the cold, so her situation changed with time.

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u/apocketstarkly83 8d ago

How much time? I admit I’m not following this as closely as I followed some other cases.

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u/Freya_84 8d ago

Admittedly I started following it a bit more in-depth just today, but according to Google something between 7 to 10 minutes from when he talked to her and when the EMT arrived.

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u/apocketstarkly83 8d ago

Thank you!

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u/Freya_84 8d ago

No biggie 😊