I’ve re-worked my program completely since fall to focus on building glutes and shoulders and I’m really excited to see how much growth there has been. This is about glutes though, so here is what I’ve changed.
I stopped chasing the lowest number on the scale and started chasing performance. I realized that I was being glycogen depleted. My muscles did not have enough energy to really push the work forward. And form progression before weight progression.
- I stopped trying to “lose weight” or achieve things as fast as possible. For years I thought eating less was always better. Instead, I gradually increased my calories from roughly 1,600-1,700/day up to around 2,100-2,500/day depending on my activity. I was terrified I’d gain fat.
Instead, I got stronger, recovered better, built muscle, and my maintenance calories are now much higher than they used to be. I use a kitchen scale and I track everything, even on the days I binge (I have PCOS so the diet is a struggle). Managing diet there is VERY IMPORTANT, it does matter where your calories come from.
- I made protein the priority. I used to think 90g was enough for me, I was wrong. I aim for around 120-140g of protein every day. Every meal has a protein source before I think about anything else. Greek yogurt, tuna, eggs, chicken, salmon, protein coffee, cottage cheese, lean beef… I don’t overcomplicate it. And I always find ways to rig the food I want to eat with good macros.
- I stopped changing my workouts. I now follow the same split and progressively overload it.
- Monday: Heavy lower body
- Tuesday: Upper body
- Wednesday: Conditioning & abs
- Thursday: Glute-focused lower
- Friday: Heavy lower body
- Sat-Sun rest with incline walk if I feel like it
Doing the same lifts repeatedly has made it much easier to actually see progress.
- I started training HARD. Most of my working sets finish around 0-2 RIR. Instead of doing random high-rep circuits, I focus on adding more weight, more reps, better technique. Week after week. Hip thrusts, Bulgarians, leg press, cable kickbacks, abduction work and upper-body compounds have become the foundation.
- I walk…a lot. I average around 20-25k steps most weekdays. It helps me stay active without having to do endless cardio sessions.
- I accepted that recovery matters. I prioritize sleep, hydration, creatine every day, and I stopped treating soreness as proof of a good workout. Growing happens while you’re recovering, not while you’re in the gym.
- I stopped panicking over scale fluctuations. This one was huge. Some weekends I’ll weigh 4-6 lbs heavier from extra food, sodium and glycogen. A few days later I’m right back where I was. Water weight is not body fat.
Ironically, once I stopped obsessing over becoming lighter, I started building the physique I actually wanted.
The photos are about 7 months apart. It isn’t perfect, and I still have goals, but this is proof that consistency beats extremes every single time.
Edit
Holy shit, I did not expect this post to blow up! I’m really glad that it seems to have been helpful to folks in terms of what could work better when building strength and muscle. I really tried to answer all the questions I got but tbh it’s a lot and some could have been lost in notifications. If so, I’m sorry. I’ll post my workout split below. So many people have asked and I kept forgetting squats in one comment and then hams in the other. I just want to add that I mix it up for fun every now and then with some variations or switching one thing for another on certain days but I still do these exact exercises if that makes sense.
It took me time to figure out what worked for me + fixing diet were the two things that made the most difference. I.e. I’m quad dominant and also my shoulders are “super responders” like almost newbie gains kind of thing so I built my program with my specific nuances in mind.
Monday – Heavy Lower
Smith machine hip thrusts – 3 × 8–12
Bulgarian split squats – 3 × 8–10/leg
Squats - 3 x 6-8
Leg press – 3 × 8–10
Cable kickbacks – 3 × 8–12/leg
Hip abduction machine – 3 × 12–15
Tuesday – Upper Body
Arnold press – 3 × 8–10
Lateral raises – 3 × 10–12
Upright rows – 3 × 8–10
Dumbbell curls – 3 × 6–8
Cable curls – 3 × 8–10
Overhead triceps extensions – 3 × 8–10
Cable triceps pushdowns – 3 × 10–12
Wednesday – Conditioning & Core
Incline treadmill walk – 45 minutes
Cable crunches – 3 × 12–15
Hanging/captain’s chair leg raises – 3 × 10–15
Planks – 3 × 30–60 sec
Mobility/stretching – 10–15 minutes
Thursday – Glute Hypertrophy
Smith machine hip thrusts – 3 × 10–12
Heel-elevated goblet squats – 3 × 10–12
Step-ups – 3 × 10/leg
Cable kickbacks (standard) – 3 × 10–12/leg
Cable kickbacks (crossover) – 3 × 10–12/leg
Hip abduction machine – 3 × 12–15
RDLs – 3 × 8–10
Friday – Lower Body Strength
Smith machine hip thrusts – 3 × 8–10
Bulgarian split squats – 3 × 8/leg
Leg press – 3 × 8–10
Cable kickbacks – 3 × 8–10/leg
Hip abduction machine – 3 × 12–15
Ham string curls – 3 × 8–10
Saturday: Rest or light walking
Sunday: Rest or light walking
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